Of course, a lot of women also wouldn't enjoy it but I guess does things are played at a very primal level as you said. The women I date always tell me that they like the fact I'm not one of these metrosexual guys, not to polished, etc....They still go for basic masculinity or at least what they feel is masculinity. It makes it probably easier to get into those kinds of physical relationships with women who know what they want. A wolf in sheep's clothing would have a harder time probably.
You're probably right that a wolf in sheep's clothing would have a harder time of it. Then the woman expects gentleness and is aghast when she's suddenly borderline raped. With people like us it's always very clear what we have to offer, so if we do pique someone's interest, we're almost sure to score with them.
Do you also find it funny to push buttons and see how far you can go? For example, being brutally honest about what you do and don't do, right in the very first 10 minutes of a first encounter? Don't know which reaction I enjoy more... the look of shock and horror (which makes me giggle) or the eyes growing bigger and shinier (which tells me it's go time).