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Title: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Mobil on September 08, 2018, 01:12:19 AM
Me and my buddy were talking about this..so I think it's a original topic..thats why I decided to post this...

How many you know(Or maybe yourself).. have had friends that are good looking and all the women make compliments towards your friend...but your friend has ZERO game and scares them off? But the non-attractive friend leaves with the girl?
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Post by: calfzilla on September 08, 2018, 01:38:22 AM
If a man is good looking he doesn’t need “game”. Looks is the most important in attracting females. Game and personality and that only come into play when you are average looking. Even then..
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Mobil on September 08, 2018, 01:41:34 AM
There is a huge intimidation factor...with looks
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Post by: Parker on September 08, 2018, 02:11:19 AM
If a man is good looking he doesn’t need “game”. Looks is the most important in attracting females. Game and personality and that only come into play when you are average looking. Even then..
Nope. Looks get you into the door. If you can’t speak, “game over”. Everybody has always said that Arnold had charm. Charm in this instance is “game”. It’s what Franco lacked (as well as height).
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Mobil on September 08, 2018, 02:14:12 AM
Nope. Looks get you into the door. If you can’t speak, “game over”. Everybody has always said that Aaron or had charm. Charm in this instance is “game”. It’s what Franco lacked (as well as height).

Arnold was a perfect example..even though he was a good looking guy
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Post by: Rambone on September 08, 2018, 06:17:58 AM
Nope. Looks get you into the door. If you can’t speak, “game over”. Everybody has always said that Aaron or had charm. Charm in this instance is “game”. It’s what Franco lacked (as well as height).

Franco could lift cars with nothing but a dirty rag in hand, but he also had a lisp that could dry out the wettest pussy
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Post by: XFACTOR on September 08, 2018, 06:28:10 AM
$$$$$$
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Post by: Dokey111 on September 08, 2018, 06:35:55 AM
$$$$$$

this, women don't care about looks the way men do
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: denarii on September 08, 2018, 06:38:53 AM
Throwing out a few compliments usually works as long as they are grounded in reality
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Royalty on September 08, 2018, 06:38:55 AM
Me and my buddy were talking about this..so I think it's a original topic..thats why I decided to post this...

How many you know(Or maybe yourself).. have had friends that are good looking and all the women make compliments towards your friend...but your friend has ZERO game and scares them off? But the non-attractive friend leaves with the girl?

How sad

Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon on September 08, 2018, 06:49:21 AM
Nope. Looks get you into the door. If you can’t speak, “game over”. Everybody has always said that Aaron or had charm. Charm in this instance is “game”. It’s what Franco lacked (as well as height).

Who is Aaron?
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Rambone on September 08, 2018, 07:02:54 AM
Who is Aaron?

(https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/d0/63/2d/d0632d796a1de1c9df75fad4c791ad9e.jpg)
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon on September 08, 2018, 07:04:47 AM
(https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/d0/63/2d/d0632d796a1de1c9df75fad4c791ad9e.jpg)


Ah, Baker! Thought he meant Maddron!
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: XFACTOR on September 08, 2018, 07:08:02 AM
Throwing out a few compliments usually works as long as they are grounded in reality

Not as well as offering financial stability. That trumps anything and everything.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: MAXX on September 08, 2018, 07:21:54 AM
Asking what women wants is like asking Stevie Wonder about road directions. They don't know. Women are ruled largely by emotions and instinctual feelings. They can do tasks which requires logic. But in every day situations emotions will overrule anything else(see politics and womens abuncance in the leftist side). It's the difference between testosterons and estrogens effect on the mind. Ask any tranny on estrogen cycle.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Dokey111 on September 08, 2018, 07:32:15 AM
Asking what women wants is like asking Stevie Wonder about road directions. They don't know. Women are ruled largely by emotions and instinctual feelings. They can do tasks which requires logic. But in every day situations emotions will overrule anything else(see politics and womens abuncance in the leftist side). It's the difference between testosterons and estrogens effect on the mind. Ask any tranny on estrogen cycle.


this. horrifying how logic is not a thing to them.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: CalvinH on September 08, 2018, 07:37:55 AM
Never think about it,I'm straight.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon on September 08, 2018, 07:45:56 AM
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Notomorrow on September 08, 2018, 07:52:39 AM
Me and my buddy were talking about this..so I think it's a original topic..thats why I decided to post this...
You can tell you have no game by the scared, almost apologetic..."I think its original...so I'm posting.."...That's how guys with no game approach women....."excuse me...I was just wondering if I could have your number and we could get coffee or something if you're not busy..."

Women smell the lack of confidence.

Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: tres_taco_combo on September 08, 2018, 11:59:02 AM
get a sales job, you are forced to have game
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Dave D on September 08, 2018, 12:09:40 PM
Me and my buddy were talking about this..so I think it's a original topic..thats why I decided to post this...

How many you know(Or maybe yourself).. have had friends that are good looking and all the women make compliments towards your friend...but your friend has ZERO game and scares them off? But the non-attractive friend leaves with the girl?

Danimal77 keep doing what you've always done. Eventually you'll meet a nice girl.

Or try a mail order bride and get on 90 day fiance.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Taffin on September 08, 2018, 12:15:26 PM
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Dillon!

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Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Rambone on September 08, 2018, 12:36:35 PM

Ah, Baker! Thought he meant Maddron!

You mean “Mr. Intensity”!
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: SF1900 on September 08, 2018, 02:01:27 PM
That is Mr. Vince Goodrum's problem. Great looking guy, but comes off as socially awkward at times.

Who knows.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: tres_taco_combo on September 08, 2018, 02:22:22 PM
OP post pics - lets see what we are working with
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Post by: Wiggs on September 08, 2018, 02:35:22 PM
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Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Mobil on September 08, 2018, 04:10:47 PM
You can tell you have no game by the scared, almost apologetic..."I think its original...so I'm posting.."...That's how guys with no game approach women....."excuse me...I was just wondering if I could have your number and we could get coffee or something if you're not busy..."

Women smell the lack of confidence.



I'm white and get hit on all ethnicities on a daily manor :)

Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: IroNat on September 08, 2018, 04:17:21 PM
Who is Aaron?

Aaron was Moses brother.

Aaron got all the chicks because he had a long rod.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: falco on September 08, 2018, 04:21:02 PM
Money, power and fame.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Mobil on September 08, 2018, 04:25:15 PM
How sad



Yes sir...god forbid we have these discussions with our "friends"
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Mobil on September 08, 2018, 04:45:57 PM
OP post pics - lets see what we are working with

I have..search engine is your friend
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Parker on September 08, 2018, 05:02:31 PM
I'm white and get hit on all ethnicities on a daily manor :)


So are you the un-attractive friend that cleans up?
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Mobil on September 08, 2018, 05:23:41 PM
So are you the un-attractive friend that cleans up?

I wish ;)
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Royalty on September 09, 2018, 04:34:44 AM
That is Mr. Vince Goodrum's problem. Great looking guy, but comes off as socially awkward at times.

Who knows.

Nether Animal is still here, running at least 15 gimmicks.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: POB on September 09, 2018, 05:07:17 AM
Arnold was a perfect example..even though he was a good looking guy
And tall and then rich.  ;D
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: POB on September 09, 2018, 05:09:49 AM
(https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/d0/63/2d/d0632d796a1de1c9df75fad4c791ad9e.jpg)
Think I see action Jackson in the background  ;D
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: tres_taco_combo on September 09, 2018, 12:12:24 PM
if you are very good looking and have limited game you need to play to your strengths

1. loose an extra 10lbs (yes drop 10 more lbs) and make your abs stupid good - focus on lower abs -everyone is fatter than you think - get CUT
2. attend pool parties where looks are everything
3. have a legit online profile with ab shots and other pics you being handsome
4. enter fitness shows to date fitness chics - it is easier to date a bikini or figure chic if you are in the same circle


learn some game
1. take improv classes - you LEARN TO be funny and witty asap. improv classes will get you out of your shell real fast
2. go with a realtor (listing agent) and do some door to door knocking etc - hey we have an open house - would you like to attend? do that for a few weekends and you will learn to be witty

learn to eat rejection like candy

but 1st.... get in even better shape and play to your strengths and then work on your game.

 

Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: _bruce_ on September 09, 2018, 12:41:33 PM
One of my class mates was pretty good looking, compared to all others, and he didn't need any game. Women just liked him.



Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: calfzilla on September 09, 2018, 12:46:45 PM
One of my class mates was pretty good looking, compared to all others, and he didn't need any game. Women just liked him.





This!

If a guy is good looking but can’t pull women because of lack of game then he’s not actually good looking. A truly top tier male in looks can pull with zero game and a shitty attitude and personality.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Devon97 on September 09, 2018, 03:53:18 PM
Nope. Looks get you into the door. If you can’t speak, “game over”. Everybody has always said that Arnold had charm. Charm in this instance is “game”. It’s what Franco lacked (as well as height).

Are we talking about in the club or bar for the hook up for for relationship/ dating?

Looks matter far more for sort term bro. But Long term your right - you gotta have a lot more than looks.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Dave D on September 09, 2018, 04:06:16 PM
if you are very good looking and have limited game you need to play to your strengths

1. loose an extra 10lbs (yes drop 10 more lbs) and make your abs stupid good - focus on lower abs -everyone is fatter than you think - get CUT
2. attend pool parties where looks are everything
3. have a legit online profile with ab shots and other pics you being handsome
4. enter fitness shows to date fitness chics - it is easier to date a bikini or figure chic if you are in the same circle


learn some game
1. take improv classes - you LEARN TO be funny and witty asap. improv classes will get you out of your shell real fast
2. go with a realtor (listing agent) and do some door to door knocking etc - hey we have an open house - would you like to attend? do that for a few weekends and you will learn to be witty

learn to eat rejection like candy

but 1st.... get in even better shape and play to your strengths and then work on your game.

 



You think that someone who does fitness shows is afraid to talk to women? If they can't talk to women they won't step on stage....

Solid advice, though I don't understand going to open houses
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Post by: tres_taco_combo on September 09, 2018, 04:20:17 PM
You think that someone who does fitness shows is afraid to talk to women? If they can't talk to women they won't step on stage....

Solid advice, though I don't understand going to open houses

many mens bbers or fitness type guys are insecure, and its easier when you share a common interest cuz they can lead with the latest NPC gossip or prep bullshit talk

"yo i compete, so do you?" when is your next show" .... you would be shocked many of the thong warriors are insecure when it comes to talking esp with women.  

the realtor and open house thing... going door to door is brutal and you learn getting told "no" or getting shut down isnt  big deal. so you start to build some self confidence and learn to be witty/quick on your feet etc etc  this way you when you go out and speak to women you have been told no thanks 100x already it is no big deal

many good looking dudes are scared of "no" so its builds character/and its a part numbers game

im grateful ive been in sales and taken some improv classes cuz i have zero shame at this point going up to someone and speaking to them.  hot chic, possible sale, on stage at an improv event etc.

we are all human and have the same emotions, fears - who cares
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Dave D on September 09, 2018, 04:41:33 PM
many mens bbers or fitness type guys are insecure, and its easier when you share a common interest cuz they can lead with the latest NPC gossip or prep bullshit talk

"yo i compete, so do you?" when is your next show" .... you would be shocked many of the thong warriors are insecure when it comes to talking esp with women.  

the realtor and open house thing... going door to door is brutal and you learn getting told "no" or getting shut down isnt  big deal. so you start to build some self confidence and learn to be witty/quick on your feet etc etc  this way you when you go out and speak to women you have been told no thanks 100x already it is no big deal

many good looking dudes are scared of "no" so its builds character/and its a part numbers game

im grateful ive been in sales and taken some improv classes cuz i have zero shame at this point going up to someone and speaking to them.  hot chic, possible sale, on stage at an improv event etc.

we are all human and have the same emotions, fears - who cares

What are you referring to by going door to door with the realtor?  Unless you are one or know one they aren't going to have a stranger hang out with them at an open house, they will call the police on you.  Going door to door to do what?

Solid advice though.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on September 09, 2018, 07:41:10 PM
He just needs confidence. Not game. Just be himself and if the bitches don’t respond then fuck them
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Post by: Go 4 It on September 09, 2018, 07:46:37 PM
I know guys from other countries on my ship who are good looking and can barely speak English, yet they take down girls reagularly, one guy in particular is from Russia, not to brightest guy, barely speaks English, he is in the housekeeping department utility division (which means he cleans bathrooms, mops floors, but takes down chicks from our production cast (singers/dancers) who are smokin hot. Tons of guys I know who have no game but still hook up on the regular. On the flip side I know a lot of rich guys with no game, average looking guys who also hook up on the regular. Truthfully you just need enough game to get them on a date, once you get on the date proceed to get some drinks going, after that it should be smooth sailing, no need for game if you have alcohol ;D
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: tres_taco_combo on September 09, 2018, 07:47:06 PM
What are you referring to by going door to door with the realtor?  Unless you are one or know one they aren't going to have a stranger hang out with them at an open house, they will call the police on you.  Going door to door to do what?

Solid advice though.

guess i need to be more clear lol - in the real estate business, when a realtor gets a listing, they go door to door to the area and tell the area residents "come to the open house i am holding down the street"  so you going up and knocking random peoples doors you build confidence and a "dont care factor" cuz you are in awkward spot.


the easiest way to get "game" (assuming you are handsome) is have no shame and get comfortable as possible with strangers and use the mindset to approach chics and ge quick and witty

again many good looking dudes are scared of women and scared of having to talk/communicate so work on your communication skills. easiest way is with improv classes and or an uncomfortable sales pitch



 
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: IroNat on September 10, 2018, 04:34:45 AM
guess i need to be more clear lol - in the real estate business, when a realtor gets a listing, they go door to door to the area and tell the area residents "come to the open house i am holding down the street"  so you going up and knocking random peoples doors you build confidence and a "dont care factor" cuz you are in awkward spot.


the easiest way to get "game" (assuming you are handsome) is have no shame and get comfortable as possible with strangers and use the mindset to approach chics and ge quick and witty

again many good looking dudes are scared of women and scared of having to talk/communicate so work on your communication skills. easiest way is with improv classes and or an uncomfortable sales pitch


You are right about outside selling doing this, Tres Taco.

Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 10, 2018, 04:49:37 AM
I've read the posts in this thread, particularly the last few on this page, and none of you know what the hell you're talking about.

It has nothing to do with being shameless and faking it until you make it. If you're doing it that way, you were never in the game. While you're being punked out and laughed at by the girls you thought you were making headway with while your back's turned for 5 minutes, other guys are already making inroads in those same women with none of the effort. It goes without saying that if you're relying on money (bribery), you've failed to garner their respect in the first place, like the owner of a dog who allows it to live on a diet of dog treats since it refuses normal food because it sees no reason to stick its face in the bowl for half the flavor, pisses and craps where it wants, and eventually runs away. Playing the languishing troubadour (the 'sensitive' artistic guy) is a novelty that won't last more than a month, if that, since there's thirty other guys who can strum a guitar or sing poetry as well, and they're probably on her social media and snapchat app. Relying on your body without having anything remarkable to add beyond lifting your shirt or tensing your arms has the obvious limitation of what the hell are they going to do with your biceps, rub their piss-flaps with them? As soon as a bigger or more cut guy with a better face comes along, you're sunk. Even unattractive women openly admit getting 20, 30, even 40 messages a day at times on the free dating sites and don't open half of them.

If you want to know how it's done, just read this thread. If anyone had it down to a science, it was the maestro of Montenegro. Sure, he had the physique, but that's it. No money to throw around, no sports car parked outside, no wingmen to fake-introduce him around, ESL, average in height (and in the face, honestly) yet he killed it every time he went out. Why? Because there's not twenty ways of doing this. You either get it or you don't.

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=517382.0 (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=517382.0)


As for this thread, it's a carbon copy of 50 other threads discussing the same tired subject (seems to come up every 3 months) including a longer & better one with more epic posters and funnier replies by a factor of 20:

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=479865.0 (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=479865.0)
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Devon97 on September 10, 2018, 04:51:12 AM
I know guys from other countries on my ship who are good looking and can barely speak English, yet they take down girls reagularly, one guy in particular is from Russia, not to brightest guy, barely speaks English, he is in the housekeeping department utility division (which means he cleans bathrooms, mops floors, but takes down chicks from our production cast (singers/dancers) who are smokin hot. Tons of guys I know who have no game but still hook up on the regular. On the flip side I know a lot of rich guys with no game, average looking guys who also hook up on the regular. Truthfully you just need enough game to get them on a date, once you get on the date proceed to get some drinks going, after that it should be smooth sailing, no need for game if you have alcohol ;D

You made a great point how the good looking guy who cleans toilets still gets the hot dancers/singers. HOWEVER you made no mention of the looks of the girls the rich guys hook up with.

Unattractive rich guys (not including famous rich guys like movie stars etc.) have two options to get good looking women- 1) marry the women ( women will then get 50% after divorce) 2) be a sugar daddy, pay a monthly allowance to a young decent looking slut
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Go 4 It on September 10, 2018, 05:16:33 AM
You made a great point how the good looking guy who cleans toilets still gets the hot dancers/singers. HOWEVER you made no mention of the looks of the girls the rich guys hook up with.

Unattractive rich guys (not including famous rich guys like movie stars etc.) have two options to get good looking women- 1) marry the women ( women will then get 50% after divorce) 2) be a sugar daddy, pay a monthly allowance to a young decent looking slut
The rich guys I'm referring to in my world (which is on the ship) are the guys with the highest paying jobs, like engineers and upper management, these guys will get hot looking girls like the spa chicks and singers/dancers, but whenever I've seen these girls with these guys, they look very bored. Marriage doesn't really end up happening with ship relationships, so all these girls are getting is the perks of staying in these guys cabins (which are amazing) and being able to order room service at anytime, what these guys buy the girls throughout their relationship I'm not really sure, but I guarantee that when these girls go on vacation they're definitely cheating on these guys.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: XFACTOR on September 10, 2018, 05:25:22 AM
The rich guys I'm referring to in my world (which is on the ship) are the guys with the highest paying jobs, like engineers and upper management, these guys will get hot looking girls like the spa chicks and singers/dancers, but whenever I've seen these girls with these guys, they look very bored. Marriage doesn't really end up happening with ship relationships, so all these girls are getting is the perks of staying in these guys cabins (which are amazing) and being able to order room service at anytime, what these guys buy the girls throughout their relationship I'm not really sure, but I guarantee that when these girls go on vacation they're definitely cheating on these guys.

Being a decent looking guy (albeit look very short) you'd like to believe this. Not accurate
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon on September 10, 2018, 05:43:47 AM
Being a decent looking guy (albeit look very short) you'd like to believe this. Not accurate

Doesn't matter that he's short with that angelic physique and hairline!
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Go 4 It on September 10, 2018, 05:45:37 AM
Being a decent looking guy (albeit look very short) you'd like to believe this. Not accurate
Lol, I personally know for a fact that they do, one engineer on my ship has been dating this hot restaurant waitress for over a year, he left for vacation, within 24 hours she was calling my cabin to hangout. Theres no loyalty dude, I was actually disgusted. You see the paranoia on these guys faces when they are leaving for vacation, they know how wild the ship is and the savages that work here, they guys here have no shame, they don't give a fuck (especially the black guys) or the dudes who work in the engine room (who are actually real sailors) they will hit on your girlfriend right in front of you lol. Some of my best friends work security on the ship, they see all kinds of shit on the overnight shift, girls in relationships sneaking out of other guys cabins in the wee hours of the night, sneakily doing the walk of shame. Good times.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: SuperTed on September 10, 2018, 06:05:20 AM
You need to have some game in order to get women. If you have zero game, you'll struggle badly even if you look like male model.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon on September 10, 2018, 06:08:40 AM
Lol, I personally know for a fact that they do, one engineer on my ship has been dating this hot restaurant waitress for over a year, he left for vacation, within 24 hours she was calling my cabin to hangout. Theres no loyalty dude, I was actually disgusted. You see the paranoia on these guys faces when they are leaving for vacation, they know how wild the ship is and the savages that work here, they guys here have no shame, they don't give a fuck (especially the black guys) or the dudes who work in the engine room (who are actually real sailors) they will hit on your girlfriend right in front of you lol. Some of my best friends work security on the ship, they see all kinds of shit on the overnight shift, girls in relationships sneaking out of other guys cabins in the wee hours of the night, sneakily doing the walk of shame. Good times.

That is to be expected on a cruise ship.

Loyalty is a quality.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: OneMoreRep on September 10, 2018, 06:14:52 AM
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No picture's complete without the immortal Apollo Creed!

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"1"
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Go 4 It on September 10, 2018, 06:17:05 AM
That is to be expected on a cruise ship.

Loyalty is a quality.
The struggle is real!
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Rambone on September 10, 2018, 06:19:13 AM
No picture's complete without the immortal Apollo Creed!

(http://static.comicvine.com/uploads/original/11126/111269615/5035319-1883147756-apoll.jpg)

"1"

 ;D

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Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: OneMoreRep on September 10, 2018, 06:20:49 AM
Lol, I personally know for a fact that they do, one engineer on my ship has been dating this hot restaurant waitress for over a year, he left for vacation, within 24 hours she was calling my cabin to hangout. Theres no loyalty dude, I was actually disgusted. You see the paranoia on these guys faces when they are leaving for vacation, they know how wild the ship is and the savages that work here, they guys here have no shame, they don't give a fuck (especially the black guys) or the dudes who work in the engine room (who are actually real sailors) they will hit on your girlfriend right in front of you lol. Some of my best friends work security on the ship, they see all kinds of shit on the overnight shift, girls in relationships sneaking out of other guys cabins in the wee hours of the night, sneakily doing the walk of shame. Good times.

I guess you're right. Black guys rarely ever give a fuck. Unless you're a distinguished black man like BayGBM or Parker. I would include Vince Goodrum in there, but I know he was once Venom Vince Versace.

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Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Go 4 It on September 10, 2018, 06:55:10 AM
I guess you're right. Black guys rarely ever give a fuck. Unless you're a distinguished black man like BayGBM or Parker. I would include Vince Goodrum in there, but I know he was once Venom Vince Versace.

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My best friends on the ship are black guys and these dudes have no shame, they'll bang anything, their motivation to get laid is unprecedented,  they are always making fun of me saying I'm way too picky, seriously these guys are savages.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon on September 10, 2018, 08:38:12 AM
I guess you're right. Black guys rarely ever give a fuck. Unless you're a distinguished black man like BayGBM or Parker. I would include Vince Goodrum in there, but I know he was once Venom Vince Versace.

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I'm assuming that Parker, BayGBM and Melvin would have these non-black qualities such as loyalty, since they are much brighter and as you stated more distinguished than the rest of their brethren.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Griffith on September 10, 2018, 09:00:18 AM
My best friends on the ship are black guys and these dudes have no shame, they'll bang anything, their motivation to get laid is unprecedented,  they are always making fun of me saying I'm way too picky, seriously these guys are savages.

Who would have thought?
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: _bruce_ on September 10, 2018, 10:11:36 AM
I've read the posts in this thread, particularly the last few on this page, and none of you know what the hell you're talking about.

It has nothing to do with being shameless and faking it until you make it. If you're doing it that way, you were never in the game. While you're being punked out and laughed at by the girls you thought you were making headway with while your back's turned for 5 minutes, other guys are already making inroads in those same women with none of the effort. It goes without saying that if you're relying on money (bribery), you've failed to garner their respect in the first place, like the owner of a dog who allows it to live on a diet of dog treats since it refuses normal food because it sees no reason to stick its face in the bowl for half the flavor, pisses and craps where it wants, and eventually runs away. Playing the languishing troubadour (the 'sensitive' artistic guy) is a novelty that won't last more than a month, if that, since there's thirty other guys who can strum a guitar or sing poetry as well, and they're probably on her social media and snapchat app. Relying on your body without having anything remarkable to add beyond lifting your shirt or tensing your arms has the obvious limitation of what the hell are they going to do with your biceps, rub their piss-flaps with them? As soon as a bigger or more cut guy with a better face comes along, you're sunk. Even unattractive women openly admit getting 20, 30, even 40 messages a day at times on the free dating sites and don't open half of them.

If you want to know how it's done, just read this thread. If anyone had it down to a science, it was the maestro of Montenegro. Sure, he had the physique, but that's it. No money to throw around, no sports car parked outside, no wingmen to fake-introduce him around, ESL, average in height (and in the face, honestly) yet he killed it every time he went out. Why? Because there's not twenty ways of doing this. You either get it or you don't.

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=517382.0 (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=517382.0)


As for this thread, it's a carbon copy of 50 other threads discussing the same tired subject (seems to come up every 3 months) including a longer & better one with more epic posters and funnier replies by a factor of 20:

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=479865.0 (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=479865.0)

Oh boy, "Galeniko" :D
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Ted SuperSet on September 10, 2018, 10:39:21 AM
Lol, I personally know for a fact that they do, one engineer on my ship has been dating this hot restaurant waitress for over a year, he left for vacation, within 24 hours she was calling my cabin to hangout. Theres no loyalty dude, I was actually disgusted. You see the paranoia on these guys faces when they are leaving for vacation, they know how wild the ship is and the savages that work here, they guys here have no shame, they don't give a fuck (especially the black guys) or the dudes who work in the engine room (who are actually real sailors) they will hit on your girlfriend right in front of you lol. Some of my best friends work security on the ship, they see all kinds of shit on the overnight shift, girls in relationships sneaking out of other guys cabins in the wee hours of the night, sneakily doing the walk of shame. Good times.

Great insights once again?
Maybe some more details on the securityguard observations?
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Go 4 It on September 10, 2018, 11:45:25 AM
Great insights once again?
Maybe some more details on the securityguard observations?
What do you want to know? The security on the ship are all former law enforcement or military, they're all good guys, one in particular is a best friend of mine who was actually responsible for convincing me to visit him in Thailand. But yeah they observe all kind of cheating after hours, people who are in relationships sneaking out of cabins people they are not dating, especially when their significant other is on vacation. You see we all get different vacations so, very rarely will you and your significant other will have the same vacation period, so it gets sketchy after hours. They even caught me sneaking out of a very high ranking women officers cabin late one night, from the surveillance cameras, and rumors starting getting around the ship that we were dating, we couldn't figure out how people were finding out because I would sneak in and out of her cabin like a ninja. On the ship it's like the military upper level management are elite 4 stripe officers and very rarely will you ever see them dating below them (I'm only a one stripe officer ;D). But these security guys have all the inside info and gossip of the ship that's for sure. They'll catch passengers having sex in random spots throughout the ship late night (one situation in particular my friend caught a couple banging in the arcade at 3am). All kinds of fuckery going down here dude, I mean you have 4,000 people under one roof, fueled with alcohol, shit gets interesting on a daily.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Grape Ape on September 10, 2018, 11:58:24 AM
Oh boy, "Galeniko" :D

Legend.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon on September 10, 2018, 12:57:32 PM
What do you want to know? The security on the ship are all former law enforcement or military, they're all good guys, one in particular is a best friend of mine who was actually responsible for convincing me to visit him in Thailand. But yeah they observe all kind of cheating after hours, people who are in relationships sneaking out of cabins people they are not dating, especially when their significant other is on vacation. You see we all get different vacations so, very rarely will you and your significant other will have the same vacation period, so it gets sketchy after hours. They even caught me sneaking out of a very high ranking women officers cabin late one night, from the surveillance cameras, and rumors starting getting around the ship that we were dating, we couldn't figure out how people were finding out because I would sneak in and out of her cabin like a ninja. On the ship it's like the military upper level management are elite 4 stripe officers and very rarely will you ever see them dating below them (I'm only a one stripe officer ;D). But these security guys have all the inside info and gossip of the ship that's for sure. They'll catch passengers having sex in random spots throughout the ship late night (one situation in particular my friend caught a couple banging in the arcade at 3am). All kinds of fuckery going down here dude, I mean you have 4,000 people under one roof, fueled with alcohol, shit gets interesting on a daily.

Legend.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: tom joad on September 10, 2018, 03:33:28 PM
What do you want to know? The security on the ship are all former law enforcement or military, they're all good guys, one in particular is a best friend of mine who was actually responsible for convincing me to visit him in Thailand. But yeah they observe all kind of cheating after hours, people who are in relationships sneaking out of cabins people they are not dating, especially when their significant other is on vacation. You see we all get different vacations so, very rarely will you and your significant other will have the same vacation period, so it gets sketchy after hours. They even caught me sneaking out of a very high ranking women officers cabin late one night, from the surveillance cameras, and rumors starting getting around the ship that we were dating, we couldn't figure out how people were finding out because I would sneak in and out of her cabin like a ninja. On the ship it's like the military upper level management are elite 4 stripe officers and very rarely will you ever see them dating below them (I'm only a one stripe officer ;D). But these security guys have all the inside info and gossip of the ship that's for sure. They'll catch passengers having sex in random spots throughout the ship late night (one situation in particular my friend caught a couple banging in the arcade at 3am). All kinds of fuckery going down here dude, I mean you have 4,000 people under one roof, fueled with alcohol, shit gets interesting on a daily.

is it pretty much just staff bangin' staff or is pullin' passengers quite common too?
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 10, 2018, 03:48:01 PM
Lol, I personally know for a fact that they do, one engineer on my ship has been dating this hot restaurant waitress for over a year, he left for vacation, within 24 hours she was calling my cabin to hangout. Theres no loyalty dude, I was actually disgusted. You see the paranoia on these guys faces when they are leaving for vacation, they know how wild the ship is and the savages that work here, they guys here have no shame, they don't give a fuck (especially the black guys) or the dudes who work in the engine room (who are actually real sailors) they will hit on your girlfriend right in front of you lol. Some of my best friends work security on the ship, they see all kinds of shit on the overnight shift, girls in relationships sneaking out of other guys cabins in the wee hours of the night, sneakily doing the walk of shame. Good times.
That paranoia is why their girlfriends cheat on them. Women who've figured out that you want them more than they want you have already ditched you in the emotional sphere. The physical follows shortly afterward once your head is turned. These guys obviously aren't very bright.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: AbrahamG on September 10, 2018, 05:35:47 PM
Do you see any serial mud sharking amongst the crew?
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Primemuscle on September 10, 2018, 06:20:23 PM
Like's been said here, It's a confidence game. Confident enough to never be cocky or act like an egomaniac. This makes women feel more secure.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Primemuscle on September 10, 2018, 06:26:39 PM
That paranoia is why their girlfriends cheat on them. Women who've figured out that you want them more than they want you have already ditched you in the emotional sphere. The physical follows shortly afterward once your head is turned. These guys obviously aren't very bright.

True words, right here. Act slightly aloof and you'll keep the ladies guessing and trying to 'tame' you. Once you become obedient, you look weak. This is not an attractive characteristic in men. 
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Go 4 It on September 10, 2018, 06:51:53 PM
is it pretty much just staff bangin' staff or is pullin' passengers quite common too?
Staff anything goes as long as you're not their direct manager, staff hooking up with passengers also happens often but if caught you are terminated, zero fratinization policy.


That paranoia is why their girlfriends cheat on them. Women who've figured out that you want them more than they want you have already ditched you in the emotional sphere. The physical follows shortly afterward once your head is turned. These guys obviously aren't very bright.
The paranoia is pretty much from knowing in the back of your mind your girl is pretty much dating you for your money. You think these rich guys don't know that the only reason they landed these dime pieces is because of their money, which is why these girls will end up banging their personal trainer.


Do you see any serial mud sharking amongst the crew?
Oh yeah dude, tons of it, mainly the fatter white chicks because black guys seem to love them, you can tell they never got much attention from guys in their little small town they grew up in, they enter the ship and they have all kinds of black dudes hitting on them like their super models, I've never seen anything like it, their confidence sky rockets. But like I said mainly the white chicks who are on the heavier side, the black guys seem to get zero play from the Filipinas, they seem generally annoyed by them. I've done quite well with the Filipina's I must say, they really like my look. I think Asian people in general seem to not like Black people, they seem to also be scared of them, maybe it's a cultural thing.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: IroNat on September 11, 2018, 04:51:01 AM
Wimmens has needs jus like mens.

Mens dont wanna accept that wimmens has needs.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 11, 2018, 04:57:42 AM
The paranoia is pretty much from knowing in the back of your mind your girl is pretty much dating you for your money. You think these rich guys don't know that the only reason they landed these dime pieces is because of their money, which is why these girls will end up banging their personal trainer.

Be a man of honor. Don't be a fucking pimp or a scumbag and take someone else's girl. If you couldn't get laid or were a social zero and that was all you could do to get a piece of ass, I would understand because that's all you've got. But you know you can get girls easily offshore and on the boat who aren't dating someone else. Stick with that crowd. Don't stick your beak in another man's worms.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 11, 2018, 05:01:31 AM
Wimmens has needs jus like mens.

Mens dont wanna accept that wimmens has needs.

So we've all met a handful of ultra-skanky, mental-unstable, daddy issues-ridden women who brazenly demand sex from a lot of men they meet and will suck you off within 5 minutes on a first date or let you fuck their asses with no condoms. Every cross-section of the general population has its outliers and peculiarities.

The majority of women are not like that. They have the ability to turn "off" their sex drive in a way men can't. They don't produce sperm. They don't need to ejaculate. They can go months, even years, without masturbation or getting laid, by choice. Just ask around, it's not even that rare.

Men can't do any of those things. You know it as well as I do, since you're not a woman. Quit wacking off for 4 weeks and tell me how that works for you. In other words, womens' needs are things they have a lot of control over. Mens' needs are things that we're saddled with due to our hormones (of which we have roughly 10x as much of as the average female, meaning testosterone) and external genitals. We have it WAY harder than they do when it comes to the sexual sphere. Any douche will say yes to some broad who offers him a couple of hours of her time.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: IroNat on September 11, 2018, 05:46:15 AM
So we've all met a handful of ultra-skanky, mental-unstable, daddy issues-ridden women who brazenly demand sex from a lot of men they meet and will suck you off within 5 minutes on a first date or let you fuck their asses with no condoms. Every cross-section of the general population has its outliers and peculiarities.

The majority of women are not like that. They have the ability to turn "off" their sex drive in a way men can't. They don't produce sperm. They don't need to ejaculate. They can go months, even years, without masturbation or getting laid, by choice. Just ask around, it's not even that rare.

Men can't do any of those things. You know it as well as I do, since you're not a woman. Quit wacking off for 4 weeks and tell me how that works for you. In other words, womens' needs are things they have a lot of control over. Mens' needs are things that we're saddled with due to our hormones (of which we have roughly 10x as much of as the average female, meaning testosterone) and external genitals. We have it WAY harder than they do when it comes to the sexual sphere. Any douche will say yes to some broad who offers him a couple of hours of her time.

Random thoughts...

Both men and women have been taught in our society that women should be chaste.

Women use sex to get things from men.  They are physically weaker and in most societies restricted economically so this is their weapon.  Some women seek out men of power and wealth.  Their mothers very often teach them to do this, i.e. Jackie Bouvier Kennedy/Onassis.

Women who like sex outside of marriage are generally considered "bad".  Women who like lots of sex are considered aberrant.

Women masturbate.

Women are not visual about sex like men.  They need physical or mental stimulation to get horny.

Some women sleep around without their man knowing.  Some men do the opposite.

Women get horny. They say 70-80% of women do not achieve orgasm from penis penetration sex.  

Women fake orgasms a lot with their men.

Birth control allows women to have sex without getting pregnant, thus allowing freedom for sex.  Except for STDs.

Women sleep around a lot in college if they are not hung up on being chaste.

In conclusion...

People are really hung up on sex.  If people were not so hung up on it things might be better.  

It's a natural drive.  It's just sex. People need to have sex more than they do, otherwise it's all they think about.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 11, 2018, 05:55:58 AM
Random thoughts...

Both men and women have been taught in our society that women should be chaste.

No, they're not. That hasn't been the case in 40 years, and it's a myth. What women still do, however, is judge and slut-shame each other into acting prudish. That's not the same thing. It's based on their historically-established need to fit in with other women and avoid being loners that they pander to other womens' opinions. It's a sign of mental and emotional weakness.

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Women use sex to get things from men.  They are physically weaker and in most societies restricted economically so this is their weapon.  Some women seek out men of power and wealth.  Their mothers very often teach them to do this.

That's called extortion.

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Women who like sex outside of marriage are generally considered "bad".  Women who like lots of sex are considered aberrant.

In Muslim and Asian countries, yeah. Not in the West, quite the opposite. Marriage is seen as a stagnant holdover from patriarchal societies that don't exist anymore. Why do you think divorce rates are at their highest in history?

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Women masturbate.

Some do, some don't. Not a lot of men can say the same. Probably like 99% of us do, vs. maybe 40% of women (their numbers, not mine).

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Women are not visual about sex like men.  They need physical or mental stimulation to get horny.

Then explain women who sleep with 50 people a month in pornography, or sell their asses to random men online or in the street? In those cases, was the catalyst to their arousal the exchange of money? Seems like it.

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Some women sleep around without their man knowing.  Some men do the opposite.

But there's far more men looking for that than women, so logically there's more women cheating than men, as they have more options.

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Women get horny.  Unfortunately their husbands may not sexually satisfy them.  They don't have orgasms with their husbands.  A lot of men don't know how to give a women orgasms.  They say 70-80% of women do not achieve orgasm from penetration sex.  Women fake orgasms a lot with their men.

They don't have orgasms because they use powerful battery-operated sex toys that men can't compete with. If they want to get off with sex, they should probably put the toys away or find someone more compatible. They've got enough men to pick from if the one they're with isn't doing it for them. Whereas most married men with a boring or unsexual wife are stuck because replacing them takes months of investment and is difficult and expensive, which is why most don't leave those relationships despite wanting to.

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Birth control allows women to have sex without getting pregnant, thus allowing freedom for sex.

It's also the reason for the negative fecundity rate in White countries and why they're reduced to begging immigrants who don't use birth control to come to their shores and breed, since their own women refuse to.

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Women sleep around a lot in college if they are not hung up on being chaste.

Post data to support this anecdotal evidence.

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In conclusion...

People are really hung up on sex.  If people were not so hung up on it things might be better.  

It's just a natural drive.  It's just sex.

No, it's not just sex. For a lot of men, it's prison.

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Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Go 4 It on September 11, 2018, 07:11:56 AM
Be a man of honor. Don't be a fucking pimp or a scumbag and take someone else's girl. If you couldn't get laid or were a social zero and that was all you could do to get a piece of ass, I would understand because that's all you've got. But you know you can get girls easily offshore and on the boat who aren't dating someone else. Stick with that crowd. Don't stick your beak in another man's worms.
Actually I didn't end up banging her until they broke up (which was months later when he returned back to the ship) I just was disgusted at how fucked up relationships are these days, working there and in bars/nightclubs in general really made me lose faith in humanity, I've been propositioned many times from married women to hook up which I never took the offer, I'm a huge believer in karma, I don't want any of that shit come back to me.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 11, 2018, 10:11:25 AM
Actually I didn't end up banging her until they broke up (which was months later when he returned back to the ship) I just was disgusted at how fucked up relationships are these days, working there and in bars/nightclubs in general really made me lose faith in humanity, I've been propositioned many times from married women to hook up which I never took the offer, I'm a huge believer in karma, I don't want any of that shit come back to me.

Good deal.  8)
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: IroNat on September 11, 2018, 10:41:18 AM
Banging married women can get you killed.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon on September 11, 2018, 11:33:55 AM
Actually I didn't end up banging her until they broke up (which was months later when he returned back to the ship) I just was disgusted at how fucked up relationships are these days, working there and in bars/nightclubs in general really made me lose faith in humanity, I've been propositioned many times from married women to hook up which I never took the offer, I'm a huge believer in karma, I don't want any of that shit come back to me.
Banging married women can get you killed.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Earl1972 on September 11, 2018, 01:09:27 PM
Nope. Looks get you into the door. If you can’t speak, “game over”. Everybody has always said that Arnold had charm. Charm in this instance is “game”. It’s what Franco lacked (as well as height).

how did franco lack charm?  he didn't seem awkward like lou

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Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on September 11, 2018, 01:26:03 PM
decent looking guy with zero game

Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: IroNat on September 11, 2018, 01:28:38 PM
Banging married women can get you killed.

Kwon-py-cat.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Go 4 It on September 11, 2018, 01:30:44 PM
Banging married women can get you killed.
For sure dude, married guys don't take kindly to disrespect.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 11, 2018, 02:47:31 PM
how did franco lack charm?  he didn't seem awkward like lou

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He was 5’4” to Lou’s 6’5”. That’s an automatic loss in the game of life.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 11, 2018, 02:48:36 PM
Kwon-py-cat.

His gif is awesome. It’s creative. It’s like when they cloned Van Damme to play his own brother in Double Impact.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Slapper on September 11, 2018, 03:30:28 PM
Nowadays if you can't pick up chicks the problem ain't the chicks.

Average face with killer body will get you laid without having to say much of anything.

One of my closest friends had the same issue and then he met his wife, who had a similar issue with talking, they were doing it 6 times a day.

Now, if you asked him he'd tell you he wished he could take back all those years because now he knows exactly what to say.

If I could give any advise, from a guy who had as much success as the next guy, sweet-talking a girl is a skill that takes years to hone. Keep at it until you get comfortable.

Dassit.

Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Earl1972 on September 11, 2018, 04:16:48 PM
He was 5’4” to Lou’s 6’5”. That’s an automatic loss in the game of life.

franco became a successful chiropractor, he also laughs at any jabs about his height so i think he did alright

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Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Parker on September 11, 2018, 05:43:08 PM
how did franco lack charm?  he didn't seem awkward like lou

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Compared to Arnold, “Franco is like a baby, he comes to me (Arnold) for advices”.
He didn’t have Arnold’s “devil may care”  attitude that Arnold had. Because he was from Sardinia, his English was t as good, and he seemed to not exude confidence in himself due to that as well as always being Arnold’s side kick. Especially when both of them were interested in a certain busty brunette from the 70s. Now, of course, compared to Ferrigno, Columbu had more charm. This was due to Columbu’s “aw shucks” small town European attitude, compared to Ferrigno’s insecurity due to his hearing impairment.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Earl1972 on September 11, 2018, 07:17:10 PM
Compared to Arnold, “Franco is like a baby, he comes to me (Arnold) for advices”.
He didn’t have Arnold’s “devil may care”  attitude that Arnold had. Because he was from Sardinia, his English was t as good, and he seemed to not exude confidence in himself due to that as well as always being Arnold’s side kick. Especially when both of them were interested in a certain busty brunette from the 70s. Now, of course, compared to Ferrigno, Columbu had more charm. This was due to Columbu’s “aw shucks” small town European attitude, compared to Ferrigno’s insecurity due to his hearing impairment.


there can only be one alpha and if one guy is arnold, the other guy will be the beta

being the beta next to arnold doesn't mean he lacked charisma, that's like saying a guy can't be funny because he isn't as funny as seinfeld

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Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: che on September 11, 2018, 07:36:47 PM
You need to have some game in order to get women. If you have zero game, you'll struggle badly even if you look like male model.

You have no idea what you are talking about
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Rusty Trombone on September 11, 2018, 07:38:36 PM
So we've all met a handful of ultra-skanky, mental-unstable, daddy issues-ridden women who brazenly demand sex from a lot of men they meet and will suck you off within 5 minutes on a first date or let you fuck their asses with no condoms. Every cross-section of the general population has its outliers and peculiarities.

The majority of women are not like that. They have the ability to turn "off" their sex drive in a way men can't. They don't produce sperm. They don't need to ejaculate. They can go months, even years, without masturbation or getting laid, by choice. Just ask around, it's not even that rare.

Men can't do any of those things. You know it as well as I do, since you're not a woman. Quit wacking off for 4 weeks and tell me how that works for you. In other words, womens' needs are things they have a lot of control over. Mens' needs are things that we're saddled with due to our hormones (of which we have roughly 10x as much of as the average female, meaning testosterone) and external genitals. We have it WAY harder than they do when it comes to the sexual sphere. Any douche will say yes to some broad who offers him a couple of hours of her time.

I wouldn't fully agree.

Other chemicals than hormones regulate sex drive,it's a complex setting. Particularly neurotransmitters.
And yes,we have loads of testosterone,but their sexuality is driven by estrogen,which they have boatlods.

Women are really horny perverse freaks.If you fuck and talk a lot of them,you understand that.
Many if them actually watch internet porn and get off.

Off course,this not represent all of them,but it's certainly not a minority.

But yes,generally their sex drives are slightly lower and different than ours,and particularly because of societal rules they hide  such behaviour. This gives them an edge,like you said.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 11, 2018, 07:48:10 PM
I wouldn't fully agree.

Imagine how much I care if you agree with me or not.

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Other chemicals than hormones regulate sex drive,it's a complex setting. Particularly neurotransmitters.

Not really. Many of those things are not precursors to arousal but rather activated by it, particularly if sexual intercourse is potentially on the horizon or in progress, which is why masturbation doesn't release dopamine like doing it with someone else does.

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And yes,we have loads of testosterone,but their sexuality is driven by estrogen,which they have boatlods.

100% false information. Estrogen contributes zero, zilch, nada to sex drive. Ask any MTF transsexual whether their drive went up or down when they got on the female synthetic hormones. Now ask anyone who's shot testosterone the same question. The reason women are hornier on their period is because their test levels temporarily get a bump. Testosterone IS the sex drive hormone, period. We have ten times more, so we're ten times hornier. This isn't rocket science.

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Women are really horny perverse freaks.If you fuck and talk a lot of them,you understand that.

But you don't, so how would you know? I don't buy it, dude. Tell that to all the guys losing their jobs and freedom for making the dumbass mistake of thinking the girl they were out on a date with was into them the way they were into her.

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Many if them actually watch internet porn and get off.

How many would admit to doing so? Because most guys I know openly do. Oh, they're "shamed" to admit it? Or they just don't particularly get off on videos of men shoving their inches of manbeef up a woman's rectum or oral cavity on a computer. Because I suspect it's the latter.

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Off course,this not represent all of them,but it's certainly not a minority.

And you can't back any of this up, but I can back up my points easily:

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/ (https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/)

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But yes,generally their sex drives are slightly lower and different than ours,and particularly because of societal rules they hide  such behaviour. This gives them an edge,like you said.

That's not what I said at all and nothing you said in this reply was factually accurate or anchored in reality. It's about as truthful as the average pundit's views on conservatism in America on CNN's primetime newsmagazines.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: AbrahamG on September 11, 2018, 07:50:46 PM
decent looking guy with zero game



LOL.  What happened to BJ1982?
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: lilhawk1 on September 11, 2018, 08:11:10 PM
Nowadays if you can't pick up chicks the problem ain't the chicks.

Average face with killer body will get you laid without having to say much of anything.

One of my closest friends had the same issue and then he met his wife, who had a similar issue with talking, they were doing it 6 times a day.

Now, if you asked him he'd tell you he wished he could take back all those years because now he knows exactly what to say.

If I could give any advise, from a guy who had as much success as the next guy, sweet-talking a girl is a skill that takes years to hone. Keep at it until you get comfortable.

Ask them questions, and pretend to be interested in what they are blabbing about.  Simple.  Women love to talk nonstop about themselves.

Dassit.


Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: SuperTed on September 12, 2018, 03:30:45 AM
You have no idea what you are talking about

I knew someone who was like this. Tall and quite handsome but very socially awkward. Didn't lose his virginity till he was around 23 and not through choice. I was being hyperbolic with the term "male model" though.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: K1RB on September 12, 2018, 10:56:09 AM
My two cents:
If I had to choose between looks and game, I'd choose game...You cant change your looks, but you can become a master at spitting game, and you can always make more money...
If you are decent looking guy, or just not repulsive, and are quick witted, you can pretty much talk your way into any girls pants.
I've seen it a thousand times....
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Slapper on September 12, 2018, 11:14:44 AM
Talking and talking to a girl are two different things.

When talking to girl, if you want to be successful, you need to say the things she wants to hear.

Need not talk about the dew point in Chattanooga or the Kr to USD exchange rate.

Concentrate on her and on you telling her (creatively) how pretty she is without getting sexual and looking like you're horny as fuck.

Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Ted SuperSet on September 12, 2018, 01:25:39 PM
What do you want to know? The security on the ship are all former law enforcement or military, they're all good guys, one in particular is a best friend of mine who was actually responsible for convincing me to visit him in Thailand. But yeah they observe all kind of cheating after hours, people who are in relationships sneaking out of cabins people they are not dating, especially when their significant other is on vacation. You see we all get different vacations so, very rarely will you and your significant other will have the same vacation period, so it gets sketchy after hours. They even caught me sneaking out of a very high ranking women officers cabin late one night, from the surveillance cameras, and rumors starting getting around the ship that we were dating, we couldn't figure out how people were finding out because I would sneak in and out of her cabin like a ninja. On the ship it's like the military upper level management are elite 4 stripe officers and very rarely will you ever see them dating below them (I'm only a one stripe officer ;D). But these security guys have all the inside info and gossip of the ship that's for sure. They'll catch passengers having sex in random spots throughout the ship late night (one situation in particular my friend caught a couple banging in the arcade at 3am). All kinds of fuckery going down here dude, I mean you have 4,000 people under one roof, fueled with alcohol, shit gets interesting on a daily.

Thanx brah
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Kwon3 on September 12, 2018, 01:28:59 PM
Talking and talking to a girl are two different things.

When talking to girl, if you want to be successful, you need to say the things she wants to hear.

Need not talk about the dew point in Chattanooga or the Kr to USD exchange rate.

Concentrate on her and on you telling her (creatively) how pretty she is without getting sexual and looking like you're horny as fuck.



That works for a few one nighters together. But it’s dead on arrival for a relationship once they realize everything they thought they knew about you was bullshit.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: _bruce_ on September 13, 2018, 09:37:20 AM
How can this thread survive without the man who was once king of the four chans.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: K1RB on September 13, 2018, 10:08:40 AM
Glad hes dead...As well as Piana and Derek Anthony...
Bostin has a few more years-
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: Dave D on September 13, 2018, 10:22:26 AM
Glad hes dead...As well as Piana and Derek Anthony...
Bostin has a few more years-

I think Bostin has already gone down.

I need Gib to confirm.
Title: Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
Post by: K1RB on September 13, 2018, 11:03:05 AM
That would kinda make my day ;D