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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Marty Champions on January 09, 2019, 04:09:56 PM
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Is it worth the hassel with a narcissist, do you go the extra mile to get the hot narcissist back when youve had a big argument
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my friends are not married.
why would i have married friends? theyre no fun. they can hardly leave the house.
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my friends are not married.
why would i have married friends? theyre no fun. they can hardly leave the house.
i wonder if most people married or not married are just like me and have little or no friends after 40...women seem to have a small handfull of girl buddies , but us guys have 0 to 2 friends maybe?
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i wonder if most people married or not married are just like me and have little or no friends after 40...women seem to have a small handfull of girl buddies , but us guys have 0 to 2 friends maybe?
I'm 35, and my group of friends shrinks every year. Mostly because the majority of my former close buddies now have kids in the 3-10 range, and that occupies most of their time. I see them from time to time, usually either big sporting events or birthdays, but besides that it's basically over.
I have 2 really close friends. One of them is my workout partner and co worker, and the other I went to HS with.
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i wonder if most people married or not married are just like me and have little or no friends after 40...women seem to have a small handfull of girl buddies , but us guys have 0 to 2 friends maybe?
I would venture to say most people are not just like you.
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well you could have a hundred friends.
if you just made an effort to meet other getbiggers every time there's arnold or mr olympia or new york pro.
getbig should have their own both at the expo, selling getbig merchandise and just hang out.
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RATHER, They can leave the house if you don't mind packing your friend, his wife, the four kids in your car and head off to McDonald's.
We did that over the holidays, but they have money (lots) so we
packed up the Uber (4 kids, three grown-ups who enjoy a Martini or two) and passed on McDonald's and had a great dinner at Flemming's Steak House where even the 6&7 year olds knew how to order from the grown ups' menu.
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my friends are not married.
why would i have married friends? theyre no fun. they can hardly leave the house.
;D 8)
1 of my mates is married to Kansas corn farmers daughter , trophy wife ..........
others, pussy hunters ..............marriage is booooring...........
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;D 8)
1 of my mates is married to Kansas corn farmers daughter , trophy wife ..........
others, pussy hunters ..............marriage is booooring...........
:D
wife pics?
It seems all these young hotties dissapear in there 30s
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I'm 35, and my group of friends shrinks every year. Mostly because the majority of my former close buddies now have kids in the 3-10 range, and that occupies most of their time. I see them from time to time, usually either big sporting events or birthdays, but besides that it's basically over.
I have 2 really close friends. One of them is my workout partner and co worker, and the other I went to HS with.
It amazes me. I know single moms who handle 3 and 4 kids alone. None of my buddies wives can handle 1 or 2 of there kids for a night. Motorcycle and camping trips are done solo these days.
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i wonder if most people married or not married are just like me and have little or no friends after 40...women seem to have a small handfull of girl buddies , but us guys have 0 to 2 friends maybe?
guys don't need "friends" like chicks do. I have guys at work that I bullshit with while there, some guys at the gym that I chat with while there. But guys aren't at home thinking, "Carl's getting a divorce. I should go hang out with him, but first let me call Paul and give him the gossip."
Chicks 🙄
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guys don't need "friends" like chicks do. I have guys at work that I bullshit with while there, some guys at the gym that I chat with while there. But guys aren't at home thinking, "Carl's getting a divorce. I should go hang out with him, but first let me call Paul and give him the gossip."
Chicks 🙄
Truth.
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Once you get married and have kids that's your priority. I partied in my twenties early 30s enough for a lifetime.
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Once you get married and have kids that's your priority. I partied in my twenties early 30s enough for a lifetime.
You can still do both. Have a wife and two kids now, my wife and I always find time to get away together and go rip it up. We did Ibiza last summer, do Coachella every year in April, etc.. Bought a Timeshare a few years ago and those trips are for the kids. On a weekend to weekend basis for the most part you're right though it's dance classes and soccer games.
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well you could have a hundred friends.
if you just made an effort to meet other getbiggers every time there's arnold or mr olympia or new york pro.
getbig should have their own both at the expo, selling getbig merchandise and just hang out.
Can you imagine the fist fights at the getbig booth? :D
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You can still do both. Have a wife and two kids now, my wife and I always find time to get away together and go rip it up. We did Ibiza last summer, do Coachella every year in April, etc.. Bought a Timeshare a few years ago and those trips are for the kids. On a weekend to weekend basis for the most part you're right though it's dance classes and soccer games.
This can't be true.
I've learned here that once you're married and have kids, everything is awful.
People who have never been married or had kids told me this.
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This can't be true.
I've learned here that once you're married and have kids, everything is awful.
People who have never been married or had kids told me this.
LOL
Silly to think you can't have a hot wife and kids but also go out and party it up with her and actually enjoy eachother's time. It's not a magic formula, marry your best friend but also make sure you're really really attracted to her.
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You can still do both. Have a wife and two kids now, my wife and I always find time to get away together and go rip it up. We did Ibiza last summer, do Coachella every year in April, etc.. Bought a Timeshare a few years ago and those trips are for the kids. On a weekend to weekend basis for the most part you're right though it's dance classes and soccer games.
Sorry I'm not a getbig multi millionaire. We do take a few trips every year fortunately and get to the bar for UFC events.
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Once you have kids they become the wife's primary focus.
It's in the DNA.
Don't ask your wife to choose between the kids and you. You'll lose.
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Once you have kids they become the wife's primary focus.
It's in the DNA.
Don't ask your wife to choose between the kids and you. You'll lose.
they become both of your primary focus. if you would choose anyone above your kids(partner included) you're a flawed human being.
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I feel sorry for the married men I know. Their wives have full control over them. Next time you are at the mall, simply look at their faces while they are pushing the baby stroller... it's the face of hell.
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I feel sorry for the married men I know. Their wives have full control over them. Next time you are at the mall, simply look at their faces while they are pushing the baby stroller... it's the face of hell.
All of the married friends I have are totally controlled as well. These men work full time while also doing all the house work including dishes, laundry, home repairs, cooking, cleaning and getting the kids up in the morning as well as to bed at night while their wives sit on the couch and watch t.v. I'll pass.
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Once you have kids they become the wife's primary focus.
It's in the DNA.
Don't ask your wife to choose between the kids and you. You'll lose.
In some cases. On the flip side my wife will always put me first in terms of making one happy. She realizes that us happy together gives our childen a greater chance to succeed to all aspects of life. This type of a solid realtionship also serves as a gold standard for the child to see.
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LOL
Silly to think you can't have a hot wife and kids but also go out and party it up with her and actually enjoy eachother's time. It's not a magic formula, marry your best friend but also make sure you're really really attracted to her.
Exactly man.
Sure, you get a bit lost in the early stages of childhoold, but then you go back to being the same people, just with bunch of new context around it.
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I feel sorry for the married men I know. Their wives have full control over them. Next time you are at the mall, simply look at their faces while they are pushing the baby stroller... it's the face of hell.
You must hang around with a bunch of fucking losers.
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I feel sorry for the married men I know. Their wives have full control over them. Next time you are at the mall, simply look at their faces while they are pushing the baby stroller... it's the face of hell.
that guy looks like he'll be dead by 40..just hope he gets saved. ::) ::) ::) ::)
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You must hang around with a bunch of fucking losers.
hahahahahaah right. Are these little boys on here? WTF
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Half of it is loosing the desire to go out once married and kids, I’m not married but ever since having kids I just like staying in watching a film and getting a takeaway with the kids or days out with them but before having kids I went out drinking every weekend but soon lost the desire too. Still meet up with mates for nights on drink but only a few times a year and honestly don’t miss it all that much
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wife pics?
It seems all these young hotties dissapear in there 30s
Nude 1 :D or ................ ;D
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Nope. Would be nice though.
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You must hang around with a bunch of fucking losers.
You must be married lol
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hahahahahaah right. Are these little boys on here? WTF
Little boys are the ones who NEED someone. They get married and let some kunt run their entire lives.
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i wonder if most people married or not married are just like me and have little or no friends after 40...women seem to have a small handfull of girl buddies , but us guys have 0 to 2 friends maybe?
There's truth in what you say. I'm way better at making friends than I am in keeping them. My wife maintained friendships. We complimented each other in the friendship arena. While I know lots of people, I only consider a few of them as good friends. I am very loyal to my friends, some of whom I've known since I was a kid. the older I get, the more difficult it is to make new friends.
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Can you imagine the fist fights at the getbig booth? :D
Not really. You'd be surprised how different most people are in person.
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This can't be true.
I've learned here that once you're married and have kids, everything is awful.
People who have never been married or had kids told me this.
:)
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I feel sorry for the married men I know. Their wives have full control over them. Next time you are at the mall, simply look at their faces while they are pushing the baby stroller... it's the face of hell.
People find what they seek and seek to validate what they think. While some folks, like you, see the face of hell, others see faces of joy.
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In some cases. On the flip side my wife will always put me first in terms of making one happy. She realizes that us happy together gives our childen a greater chance to succeed to all aspects of life. This type of a solid realtionship also serves as a gold standard for the child to see.
Absolutely.
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Little boys are the ones who NEED someone. They get married and let some kunt run their entire lives.
Boo!
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People find what they seek and seek to validate what they think. While some folks, like you, see the face of hell, others see faces of joy.
The joy may be at the beginning of marriage, but it fades quickly. I've seen it over and over and over again. The stats do not lie.
I don't seek validation, I'm just trying to help the young single men here. The stats on marriage, divorce and family courts are the validation. This is not the 1930's, 40's or 50's. Men have nothing to gain by being married in today's society. You young, white knight types better get this through your heads now or you're going to learn a painful lesson.
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The joy may be at the beginning of marriage, but it fades quickly. I've seen it over and over and over again. The stats do not lie.
I don't seek validation, I'm just trying to help the young single men here. The stats on marriage, divorce and family courts are the validation. This is not the 1930's, 40's or 50's. Men have nothing to gain by being married in today's society. You young, white knight types better get this through your heads now or you're going to learn a painful lesson.
This. I highly recommend coach red pill on the YT
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You must be married lol
No lol necessary. I enjoy all your financial posts, but all the railing on this subject just hasn't been consistent with my experience.
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The joy may be at the beginning of marriage, but it fades quickly. I've seen it over and over and over again. The stats do not lie.
I don't seek validation, I'm just trying to help the young single men here. The stats on marriage, divorce and family courts are the validation. This is not the 1930's, 40's or 50's. Men have nothing to gain by being married in today's society. You young, white knight types better get this through your heads now or you're going to learn a painful lesson.
Ya, is that what happens? Well cheers to you. 12 years of marriage 18 together. I'd say stick to investment posts but you don't really have a good stronghold on that either.
Salute from Barcelona
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i wonder if most people married or not married are just like me and have little or no friends after 40...women seem to have a small handfull of girl buddies , but us guys have 0 to 2 friends maybe?
I am just like you.My two or three friends moved away. I would be your friend if we lived near each other (no homo). :-X
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Not really. You'd be surprised how different most people are in person.
1) We'd have Wiggs talking to people about flat Earth theory
2) Goodrum posing in the background
3) Basil selling his supinator bicep blaster
4) Falcon telling people about the dangers of eating meat
5) Strawman crying and whining about Trump
6) Adonis explaining how a calorie is just a calorie
7) Dennis Bates spreading the word about bodybuilding being a satanic cult (don't think he posts anymore)
8) Coach offering his training services
and on and on and on......
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Ya, is that what happens? Well cheers to you. 12 years of marriage 18 together. I'd say stick to investment posts but you don't really have a good stronghold on that either.
Salute from Barcelona
ha lol Zing!!! ;D ;D
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We should keep this bb related. For those thinking we throw in the towel after marriage...
Current physique:
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We should keep this bb related. For those thinking we throw in the towel after marriage...
Current physique:
400g protien 100g fat 150 carbs?
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400g protien 100g fat 150 carbs?
No idea. Low carbs and a lot of protein a lot of cardio and weight training to achieve my dad bod
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Looks are NOT important. High maintenance woman..no thank you. Would have a a girl that is a sweetheart and a friend. Someone that i can talk too. It took me years to figure this out
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Looks are NOT important. High maintenance woman..no thank you. Would have a a girl that is a sweetheart and a friend. Someone that i can talk too. It took me years to figure this out
I have a buddy who had a sweetheart and friend for 19 years. Just last week she said she wants a divorce because she's not in love anymore. So much for that.
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I have a buddy who had a sweetheart and friend for 19 years. Just last week she said she wants a divorce because she's not in love anymore. So much for that.
Not saying that it doesn't but higher maintenance whores are worse. I would rather marry a. Woman that has a great job
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Not saying that it doesn't but higher maintenance whores are worse. I would rather marry a. Woman that has a great job
Of course high maintenance woman are much worse.
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high cost depreciating asset
http://www.xclusivetouch.co.uk/reply-ceo-j-p-morgan-pretty-girl-seeking-rich-husband/
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high cost depreciating asset
http://www.xclusivetouch.co.uk/reply-ceo-j-p-morgan-pretty-girl-seeking-rich-husband/
shes the ive already had a cute chick like that cute
Shes oblivious
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Marriage = overrated..
Divorce is at an all-time high..
You should have a pre -nup for any type of relationship that involves leaving together..
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Marriage = overrated..
Divorce is at an all-time high..
You should have a pre -nup for any type of relationship that involves leaving together..
Or just have your own place and date multiple women. Why do people insist on monogamy?
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Marriage = overrated..
Divorce is at an all-time high..
You should have a pre -nup for any type of relationship that involves leaving together..
So many women make more than men so the pre nup goes both ways. My daughter makes around 150K and is marrying a guy who makes 60K.
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So many women make more than men so the pre nup goes both ways. My daughter makes around 150K and is marrying a guy who makes 60K.
Is she getting a pre-nup?
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My sexy observation: in 2018/19 I was on 6 intercontinental & few local flights with Air Asia,Thai Airlines,Thai Smiles & Qantas !
All Asian hostesses were (like all ways) slim,young,sexy :-* :-* :-*
Aussie air crew was: every single 1 , + 40, grumpy,fat .........& that stupid title: flight manager :-\
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The joy may be at the beginning of marriage, but it fades quickly. I've seen it over and over and over again. The stats do not lie.
I don't seek validation, I'm just trying to help the young single men here. The stats on marriage, divorce and family courts are the validation. This is not the 1930's, 40's or 50's. Men have nothing to gain by being married in today's society. You young, white knight types better get this through your heads now or you're going to learn a painful lesson.
Thanks for the compliment.
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the super hot chics - are a royal pain in the ass most of the time -
I lived a smoking hot chic as a roommate -it was fascinating to live with one and not date her or go after her etc
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Hot Wife
"Generally a Hot Wife is a married woman who makes herself sexually available to other men, often with her husband's knowledge and consent . However, there is a fast growing "segment" of Hot Wives who enjoy being sexually available to other men without their husbands' knowledge or consent."
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hotwife
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Hot Wife
"Generally a Hot Wife is a married woman who makes herself sexually available to other men, often with her husband's knowledge and consent . However, there is a fast growing "segment" of Hot Wives who enjoy being sexually available to other men without their husbands' knowledge or consent."
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hotwife
Thought we just called that a whore?
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Marriage = overrated..
Divorce is at an all-time high..
You should have a pre -nup for any type of relationship that involves leaving together..
I coudn't agree more, and I'd rather fight a polar bear who was infected with the aids virus than get married again, but I don't even think a pre nup is worth the paper it's written on in 2019. My buddy got divorced and HAD a prenup, and even though he built his house with his bare fucking hands BEFORE he even knew his wife, it was considered a marital asset when they divorced and he had to sell and split the money. Honestly, I don't know how he remained sane during that time period. His place was fucking gorgeous, but I would have rather burnt it to the ground and taken the insurance then give that whore a single penny!
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I coudn't agree more, and I'd rather fight a polar bear who was infected with the aids virus than get married again, but I don't even think a pre nup is worth the paper it's written on in 2019. My buddy got divorced and HAD a prenup, and even though he built his house with his bare fucking hands BEFORE he even knew his wife, it was considered a marital asset when they divorced and he had to sell and split the money. Honestly, I don't know how he remained sane during that time period. His place was fucking gorgeous, but I would have rather burnt it to the ground and taken the insurance then give that whore a single penny!
I am surprised there aren't more killings during and after these divorces on both the women and attorneys as well as family court/divorce judges. Maybe that is why they try to beat the masculinity out of boys and men at a young age to prevent this.
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Thanks for the compliment.
"You" as in the young guys on the forum, not your wrinkled ass. ;D
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Marriage = overrated..
Divorce is at an all-time high..
You should have a pre -nup for any type of relationship that involves leaving together..
A crafty lawyer can motion to have a pre-nup nullified. It happened to a close friend of mine. It all depends on the judge and what state you live in.
Men are much better off NOT getting married, NOT having kids and NOT living with a woman. The only thing you'll have to be vigilant about is a sexual assault allocation... which could come from any sexual encounter you ever had as an adult. There is no statute of limitations on sexual assault.
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A crafty lawyer can motion to have a pre-nup nullified. It happened to a close friend of mine. It all depends on the judge and what state you live in.
Men are much better off NOT getting married, NOT having kids and NOT living with a woman. The only thing you'll have to be vigilant about is a sexual assault allocation... which could come from any sexual encounter you ever had as an adult. There is no statute of limitations on sexual assault.
Correct. The state of Ohio where I currently live just passed a law saying a man can rape his wife repealing previous laws on rape and marriage. On the surface that seems like a good thing but I guarantee divorce lawyers are licking their chops over this one. Now every divorce lawyer for a woman is going to help her "remember" a time during the marriage where she may have had too much to drink or really wasn't in the mood and had sex anyway and there's your rape charge. Of course any man is going to just give her everything with no fight so he doesn't get his name dragged through the mus or criminally charged.
It sucks that white people aren't reproducing but it is simply crazy for a young man to get married or have kids. MGTOW for your own safety boys.
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Hot wife kay kummings
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I am surprised there aren't more killings during and after these divorces on both the women and attorneys as well as family court/divorce judges. Maybe that is why they try to beat the masculinity out of boys and men at a young age to prevent this.
Honestly, I'm shocked as well. It was a running joke for a while at work, that she was gonna come up missing. lol My buddy ended up getting screwed in almost every way possible. First he lost his house, then even though he got 50/50 custody of their daughter, the court gave his ex wife placement. So he still have to pay child support, even though they make virtually the exact same amount.
And to spit in his face even more, the first month she received the child support payment, the bitch went out and bought a brand new $60,000 truck and was going around town telling everyone "my dumb ex pays for this truck every month". I honestly don't know how he didn't lose it! lol
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This culture of mistrust exists in North America because everything is based on a $$$ value..even pussy..and women know and use that.
Once I disarmed my girlfriend/wife with my behaviour of actually caring for our family as a unit and only placing focus on family and friends relationships, everything fell into place. I would and I know she would take a bullet for the sake of our family. And she is ok if I do my shit like working out or producing music 'cause she knows I am there for her anytime.
Guys, stop being little fucking kids and become men and show some care for the family and society. Because, after all, and I guarantee it, you will see this for yourselves, sooner or later, the only important thing in this life is enjoying the moments you spend with your loved ones and relationships you build over the years with the family and friends.
Nothing else matters...
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Honestly, I'm shocked as well. It was a running joke for a while at work, that she was gonna come up missing. lol My buddy ended up getting screwed in almost every way possible. First he lost his house, then even though he got 50/50 custody of their daughter, the court gave his ex wife placement. So he still have to pay child support, even though they make virtually the exact same amount.
And to spit in his face even more, the first month she received the child support payment, the bitch went out and bought a brand new $60,000 truck and was going around town telling everyone "my dumb ex pays for this truck every month". I honestly don't know how he didn't lose it! lol
Happens to many men. Some guy busts his ass for years working to provide for his wife BECAUSE SHE'S HIS WIFE! Then they get divorced where she no longer has any obligation to him BUT he is still required to provide for her. It would be equivalent to a judge requiring a woman to continue giving blow jobs to her ex husband every week after the divorce.
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The need to have a family isn’t a masculine trait from the evolutionary perspective. Females need attachment, romance, security. Men generally don’t. At least real alphas don’t. It’s like the urge of needing your mother’s tit to suck on like u did when u were an infant.
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The need to have a family isn’t a masculine trait from the evolutionary perspective. Females need attachment, romance, security. Men generally don’t. At least real alphas don’t. It’s like the urge of needing your mother’s tit to suck on like u did when u were an infant.
-Maybe not a family, but there's a strong need in men to have their genes carry on.
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-Maybe not a family, but there's a strong need in men to have their genes carry on.
It's called cumming inside a woman. Every sexually matured male can do it.
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It's called cumming inside a woman. Every sexually matured male can do it.
That, my friends is pure science.
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