This culture of mistrust exists in North America because everything is based on a $$$ value..even pussy..and women know and use that.
Once I disarmed my girlfriend/wife with my behaviour of actually caring for our family as a unit and only placing focus on family and friends relationships, everything fell into place. I would and I know she would take a bullet for the sake of our family. And she is ok if I do my shit like working out or producing music 'cause she knows I am there for her anytime.
Guys, stop being little fucking kids and become men and show some care for the family and society. Because, after all, and I guarantee it, you will see this for yourselves, sooner or later, the only important thing in this life is enjoying the moments you spend with your loved ones and relationships you build over the years with the family and friends.
Nothing else matters...