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I mean in all ways - for dating, FWBs, and relationships.
I tried twice in my life to get a girlfriend. Once in 2000, when I was 18, and that was an epic fail. Fast forward to 2017, and she retired from left-wing politics, as an member of parliament for the NDP party - effectively Canada's leftist party, before they campaigned on a centrist platform in 2015, only to be defeated by Justin Trudeau, who campaigned as a Liberal, but has since become the head of the most leftist party in Canadian history. He will be booted next federal election though.
I tried again this past summer, and was flabbergasted to be rejected. I was 36 and she was 29 then...and to not pick me is such a time-suck for her. Then when I told her I wanted to commit to another girl starting in the new year, she tried to talk me out of it. Meanwhile, she is the one rejecting me.
Then it dawned on me...I am learning stuff about myself, and it's blowing my mind. I have read that women do not want to commit in the long-term with dominant men, because they fear he will leave them, as these men [with masculine faces, and who are strong - even though I am not strong by Getbig standards, I AM strong by normal male standards] have a lot of options.
I talked to her about that, and she said it's because women fear abuse from these men...well...fine...but then what's the solution? Date some useless wimpy man? How can he protect his woman?
And that's sort of why I had kids with more than one woman. I DID have options, and I wanted to explore the genetic diversity of more than one mom [STOP - not racial diversity - they were all White. One was 1/8 or 1/16 Barbadian, but they were all White]
So it's a chicken and an egg thing - men with options are the ones that find the most willing women to have children with, but it's precisely BECAUSE those men have options that women date those men. Because women seek validation, and seeing a man who gets with a lot of women "prove" [in the far more emotionally-guided environment that make up a woman's brain] to women that he is mate material. It's hilarious. Women are far less likely to individually assess a man - it's like they all watch what other women do, to see if it is "acceptable". I love how now that women have freedom [in the West], we see how they behave, and SURPRISE, SURPRISE, they do and say literally everything that we stereotype them as doing, LOL. Meanwhile, women have the reputations of saints.
As for how I get women, here is the list as I see:
- Looks: mainly, being in shape and not being ugly. Height matters a lot to women, but I wake up at just over 5'9.25" in the morning, and shrink to just over 5'8.5" at night. It's been my experience that women tend to choose me over taller men since women value a man's face over his height. I have not much been discriminated over my height by women, and 2 of the 4 women I attempted to knock up were 5'11. Around 90% of women are shorter than me, and the ones who are my height are taller than 50% of men, as I sit right on the median, so those women have to either have lower height standards, or say goodbye to half the male population in terms of dating options.
- Money: speaks for itself. Anyone who says women don't care about money are full of shit. I can simply afford to pay for myself, and to pay for much/all of any women I am seeing. And yes, women care!
- Competence [which means running my life intelligently, managing all my responsibilities, keeping my bills paid, the lights on, my car running, etc].
- IQ [could be a part of competence].
- Having a perfect/hard/working dick, and being willing to learn a woman's body - and I learn quickly.
So yeah...that's been my experience. Women are into me because I am tall enough, decent/ok looking [good delts, good arms when flexed, and are looking good even at rest these days - picture how Mark Wahlberg looked when he was in The Italian Job, or in Fear. My physique is not quite at his level, because he has better muscular shape genetics than me, but he is also 5'8.5", and he was my original motivation to get in the gym.
I am starting to wonder if women only ever saw me as a piece of ass.
I am starting to see a woman who is hotter than any of Brad Pitt's ex-wives. If I get her, people will have no choice but to admit that I'm a great guy to women...but then...do women even want that? ??? As I said, I think it's possible that women only see bodybuilders, strongmen - even the lower level competitors - as pieces of ass that they want to use the sperm to get knocked up by, but not someone they think will stick with them, so they find a beta. It's hilarious to me when batshit insane smoking hot women date betas AND still get dumped by them. LOL!!!!!!!!!!
Haha, wow. If you're going to get dumped, at least get dumped by a man of value. Hey, at least Conor McGregor served Khabib his first lost round in his UFC career. That's not as bad as losing even more badly [and Khabib won badly - as he is a sore winner, but so am I].
Women are attracted to strong men, but I can see why they worry about cheating so much.
So now some women - not very often, but ESPECIALLY hot women - sort of pre-reject me. I think in their own minds they know that they would meet me, fall for me, and the ball would then be completely in my court.
In other words, women thrive having sexual power. I didn't understand why a woman didn't date me when I was 23, because I was so much better than her boyfriend. But yeah...that was the problem. He was some scumbag who only had his height going for him [he was Gunter's height, so 6'1.5"]. He would also defend her a bit, but...meh...I could have smashed him pretty easily. He was just an angry piece of shit.
I can think of five women in total who did that to me, two of whom I had sex with, and one of whom I ate the pussy of. So only 2 of 5 didn't date me AND didn't sleep with me or offer me their pussies in some way.
It's like a vicious cycle...women don't like "The Patriarchy", so they find strong men to reproduce with, either for protection from the man, or protection from their sons...so women want strong men, but with every woman adopting this mating strategy, it keeps reproducing the DNA of dominant men, LOL!!!
So then..."The Patriarchy" continues.
If any Getbigger can fill me in on what you think makes you attractive to women, and in what capacity, I would like to know...just curious how many other decent looking, reasonable Getbig males deal with any rejection from women. I generally don't, so this experience past summer was very confusing to me.
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They don’t
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By being handsome, well built and over 6ft.
If you can’t go out on the drink and find a woman to fuck I don’t know what to say, I’m not saying this is any sort of achievement as I’m talking about obvious slags but that filthy slut still needs to pick someone who stands out amongst the hundreds of other drunken slobs looking for a fuck
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I mean in all ways - for dating, FWBs, and relationships.
I tried twice in my life to get a girlfriend. Once in 2000, when I was 18, and that was an epic fail. Fast forward to 2017, and she retired from left-wing politics, as an member of parliament for the NDP party - effectively Canada's leftist party, before they campaigned on a centrist platform in 2015, only to be defeated by Justin Trudeau, who campaigned as a Liberal, but has since become the head of the most leftist party in Canadian history. He will be booted next federal election though.
I tried again this past summer, and was flabbergasted to be rejected. I was 36 and she was 29 then...and to not pick me is such a time-suck for her. Then when I told her I wanted to commit to another girl starting in the new year, she tried to talk me out of it. Meanwhile, she is the one rejecting me.
Then it dawned on me...I am learning stuff about myself, and it's blowing my mind. I have read that women do not want to commit in the long-term with dominant men, because they fear he will leave them, as these men [with masculine faces, and who are strong - even though I am not strong by Getbig standards, I AM strong by normal male standards] have a lot of options.
I talked to her about that, and she said it's because women fear abuse from these men...well...fine...but then what's the solution? Date some useless wimpy man? How can he protect his woman?
And that's sort of why I had kids with more than one woman. I DID have options, and I wanted to explore the genetic diversity of more than one mom [STOP - not racial diversity - they were all White. One was 1/8 or 1/16 Barbadian, but they were all White]
So it's a chicken and an egg thing - men with options are the ones that find the most willing women to have children with, but it's precisely BECAUSE those men have options that women date those men. Because women seek validation, and seeing a man who gets with a lot of women "prove" [in the far more emotionally-guided environment that make up a woman's brain] to women that he is mate material. It's hilarious. Women are far less likely to individually assess a man - it's like they all watch what other women do, to see if it is "acceptable". I love how now that women have freedom [in the West], we see how they behave, and SURPRISE, SURPRISE, they do and say literally everything that we stereotype them as doing, LOL. Meanwhile, women have the reputations of saints.
As for how I get women, here is the list as I see:
- Looks: mainly, being in shape and not being ugly. Height matters a lot to women, but I wake up at just over 5'9.25" in the morning, and shrink to just over 5'8.5" at night. It's been my experience that women tend to choose me over taller men since women value a man's face over his height. I have not much been discriminated over my height by women, and 2 of the 4 women I attempted to knock up were 5'11. Around 90% of women are shorter than me, and the ones who are my height are taller than 50% of men, as I sit right on the median, so those women have to either have lower height standards, or say goodbye to half the male population in terms of dating options.
- Money: speaks for itself. Anyone who says women don't care about money are full of shit. I can simply afford to pay for myself, and to pay for much/all of any women I am seeing. And yes, women care!
- Competence [which means running my life intelligently, managing all my responsibilities, keeping my bills paid, the lights on, my car running, etc].
- IQ [could be a part of competence].
- Having a perfect/hard/working dick, and being willing to learn a woman's body - and I learn quickly.
So yeah...that's been my experience. Women are into me because I am tall enough, decent/ok looking [good delts, good arms when flexed, and are looking good even at rest these days - picture how Mark Wahlberg looked when he was in The Italian Job, or in Fear. My physique is not quite at his level, because he has better muscular shape genetics than me, but he is also 5'8.5", and he was my original motivation to get in the gym.
I am starting to wonder if women only ever saw me as a piece of ass.
I am starting to see a woman who is hotter than any of Brad Pitt's ex-wives. If I get her, people will have no choice but to admit that I'm a great guy to women...but then...do women even want that? ??? As I said, I think it's possible that women only see bodybuilders, strongmen - even the lower level competitors - as pieces of ass that they want to use the sperm to get knocked up by, but not someone they think will stick with them, so they find a beta. It's hilarious to me when batshit insane smoking hot women date betas AND still get dumped by them. LOL!!!!!!!!!!
Haha, wow. If you're going to get dumped, at least get dumped by a man of value. Hey, at least Conor McGregor served Khabib his first lost round in his UFC career. That's not as bad as losing even more badly [and Khabib won badly - as he is a sore winner, but so am I].
Women are attracted to strong men, but I can see why they worry about cheating so much.
So now some women - not very often, but ESPECIALLY hot women - sort of pre-reject me. I think in their own minds they know that they would meet me, fall for me, and the ball would then be completely in my court.
In other words, women thrive having sexual power. I didn't understand why a woman didn't date me when I was 23, because I was so much better than her boyfriend. But yeah...that was the problem. He was some scumbag who only had his height going for him [he was Gunter's height, so 6'1.5"]. He would also defend her a bit, but...meh...I could have smashed him pretty easily. He was just an angry piece of shit.
I can think of five women in total who did that to me, two of whom I had sex with, and one of whom I ate the pussy of. So only 2 of 5 didn't date me AND didn't sleep with me or offer me their pussies in some way.
It's like a vicious cycle...women don't like "The Patriarchy", so they find strong men to reproduce with, either for protection from the man, or protection from their sons...so women want strong men, but with every woman adopting this mating strategy, it keeps reproducing the DNA of dominant men, LOL!!!
So then..."The Patriarchy" continues.
If any Getbigger can fill me in on what you think makes you attractive to women, and in what capacity, I would like to know...just curious how many other decent looking, reasonable Getbig males deal with any rejection from women. I generally don't, so this experience past summer was very confusing to me.
another lonely son of a bitch that found getbig and uses it a sounding board.
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well usually people talk with eachother and maybe go out on a date and fall in love, that kinda thing.
it's quite simple, as evident of number of men and women who are together in the world.
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I'm lazy and I usually just fuck the women I work with. ;D
A couple times this has backfired on me.
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tl;dr
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There are like thousands of books, websites and Youtube videos that show you how to pick up women. Most people find relationships with women from 3 places:
1) school (high school college for young guys)
2) work
3) social circle (a friend of a friend, church or some other organization you attend)
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I mean in all ways - for dating, FWBs, and relationships.
I tried twice in my life to get a girlfriend. Once in 2000, when I was 18, and that was an epic fail. Fast forward to 2017, and she retired from left-wing politics, as an member of parliament for the NDP party - effectively Canada's leftist party, before they campaigned on a centrist platform in 2015, only to be defeated by Justin Trudeau, who campaigned as a Liberal, but has since become the head of the most leftist party in Canadian history. He will be booted next federal election though.
I tried again this past summer, and was flabbergasted to be rejected. I was 36 and she was 29 then...and to not pick me is such a time-suck for her. Then when I told her I wanted to commit to another girl starting in the new year, she tried to talk me out of it. Meanwhile, she is the one rejecting me.
Then it dawned on me...I am learning stuff about myself, and it's blowing my mind. I have read that women do not want to commit in the long-term with dominant men, because they fear he will leave them, as these men [with masculine faces, and who are strong - even though I am not strong by Getbig standards, I AM strong by normal male standards] have a lot of options.
I talked to her about that, and she said it's because women fear abuse from these men...well...fine...but then what's the solution? Date some useless wimpy man? How can he protect his woman?
And that's sort of why I had kids with more than one woman. I DID have options, and I wanted to explore the genetic diversity of more than one mom [STOP - not racial diversity - they were all White. One was 1/8 or 1/16 Barbadian, but they were all White]
So it's a chicken and an egg thing - men with options are the ones that find the most willing women to have children with, but it's precisely BECAUSE those men have options that women date those men. Because women seek validation, and seeing a man who gets with a lot of women "prove" [in the far more emotionally-guided environment that make up a woman's brain] to women that he is mate material. It's hilarious. Women are far less likely to individually assess a man - it's like they all watch what other women do, to see if it is "acceptable". I love how now that women have freedom [in the West], we see how they behave, and SURPRISE, SURPRISE, they do and say literally everything that we stereotype them as doing, LOL. Meanwhile, women have the reputations of saints.
As for how I get women, here is the list as I see:
- Looks: mainly, being in shape and not being ugly. Height matters a lot to women, but I wake up at just over 5'9.25" in the morning, and shrink to just over 5'8.5" at night. It's been my experience that women tend to choose me over taller men since women value a man's face over his height. I have not much been discriminated over my height by women, and 2 of the 4 women I attempted to knock up were 5'11. Around 90% of women are shorter than me, and the ones who are my height are taller than 50% of men, as I sit right on the median, so those women have to either have lower height standards, or say goodbye to half the male population in terms of dating options.
- Money: speaks for itself. Anyone who says women don't care about money are full of shit. I can simply afford to pay for myself, and to pay for much/all of any women I am seeing. And yes, women care!
- Competence [which means running my life intelligently, managing all my responsibilities, keeping my bills paid, the lights on, my car running, etc].
- IQ [could be a part of competence].
- Having a perfect/hard/working dick, and being willing to learn a woman's body - and I learn quickly.
So yeah...that's been my experience. Women are into me because I am tall enough, decent/ok looking [good delts, good arms when flexed, and are looking good even at rest these days - picture how Mark Wahlberg looked when he was in The Italian Job, or in Fear. My physique is not quite at his level, because he has better muscular shape genetics than me, but he is also 5'8.5", and he was my original motivation to get in the gym.
I am starting to wonder if women only ever saw me as a piece of ass.
I am starting to see a woman who is hotter than any of Brad Pitt's ex-wives. If I get her, people will have no choice but to admit that I'm a great guy to women...but then...do women even want that? ??? As I said, I think it's possible that women only see bodybuilders, strongmen - even the lower level competitors - as pieces of ass that they want to use the sperm to get knocked up by, but not someone they think will stick with them, so they find a beta. It's hilarious to me when batshit insane smoking hot women date betas AND still get dumped by them. LOL!!!!!!!!!!
Haha, wow. If you're going to get dumped, at least get dumped by a man of value. Hey, at least Conor McGregor served Khabib his first lost round in his UFC career. That's not as bad as losing even more badly [and Khabib won badly - as he is a sore winner, but so am I].
Women are attracted to strong men, but I can see why they worry about cheating so much.
So now some women - not very often, but ESPECIALLY hot women - sort of pre-reject me. I think in their own minds they know that they would meet me, fall for me, and the ball would then be completely in my court.
In other words, women thrive having sexual power. I didn't understand why a woman didn't date me when I was 23, because I was so much better than her boyfriend. But yeah...that was the problem. He was some scumbag who only had his height going for him [he was Gunter's height, so 6'1.5"]. He would also defend her a bit, but...meh...I could have smashed him pretty easily. He was just an angry piece of shit.
I can think of five women in total who did that to me, two of whom I had sex with, and one of whom I ate the pussy of. So only 2 of 5 didn't date me AND didn't sleep with me or offer me their pussies in some way.
It's like a vicious cycle...women don't like "The Patriarchy", so they find strong men to reproduce with, either for protection from the man, or protection from their sons...so women want strong men, but with every woman adopting this mating strategy, it keeps reproducing the DNA of dominant men, LOL!!!
So then..."The Patriarchy" continues.
If any Getbigger can fill me in on what you think makes you attractive to women, and in what capacity, I would like to know...just curious how many other decent looking, reasonable Getbig males deal with any rejection from women. I generally don't, so this experience past summer was very confusing to me.
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Getbig's #1 beta-simp-cuck!
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“So now some women - not very often, but ESPECIALLY hot women - sort of pre-reject me. I think in their own minds they know that they would meet me, fall for me, and the ball would then be completely in my court.”
Haha, delusional.
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Met wife at work.
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Either you got it or you don't. Unfortunately you don't.
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Met mine at an Xmas party.
Back in the day it was usually in bars, but, if I were younger now I would run 5Ks every weekend. Guaranteed women out number men at those.
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I mean in all ways - for dating, FWBs, and relationships.
I tried twice in my life to get a girlfriend. Once in 2000, when I was 18, and that was an epic fail. Fast forward to 2017, and she retired from left-wing politics, as an member of parliament for the NDP party - effectively Canada's leftist party, before they campaigned on a centrist platform in 2015, only to be defeated by Justin Trudeau, who campaigned as a Liberal, but has since become the head of the most leftist party in Canadian history. He will be booted next federal election though.
I tried again this past summer, and was flabbergasted to be rejected. I was 36 and she was 29 then...and to not pick me is such a time-suck for her. Then when I told her I wanted to commit to another girl starting in the new year, she tried to talk me out of it. Meanwhile, she is the one rejecting me.
Then it dawned on me...I am learning stuff about myself, and it's blowing my mind. I have read that women do not want to commit in the long-term with dominant men, because they fear he will leave them, as these men [with masculine faces, and who are strong - even though I am not strong by Getbig standards, I AM strong by normal male standards] have a lot of options.
I talked to her about that, and she said it's because women fear abuse from these men...well...fine...but then what's the solution? Date some useless wimpy man? How can he protect his woman?
And that's sort of why I had kids with more than one woman. I DID have options, and I wanted to explore the genetic diversity of more than one mom [STOP - not racial diversity - they were all White. One was 1/8 or 1/16 Barbadian, but they were all White]
So it's a chicken and an egg thing - men with options are the ones that find the most willing women to have children with, but it's precisely BECAUSE those men have options that women date those men. Because women seek validation, and seeing a man who gets with a lot of women "prove" [in the far more emotionally-guided environment that make up a woman's brain] to women that he is mate material. It's hilarious. Women are far less likely to individually assess a man - it's like they all watch what other women do, to see if it is "acceptable". I love how now that women have freedom [in the West], we see how they behave, and SURPRISE, SURPRISE, they do and say literally everything that we stereotype them as doing, LOL. Meanwhile, women have the reputations of saints.
As for how I get women, here is the list as I see:
- Looks: mainly, being in shape and not being ugly. Height matters a lot to women, but I wake up at just over 5'9.25" in the morning, and shrink to just over 5'8.5" at night. It's been my experience that women tend to choose me over taller men since women value a man's face over his height. I have not much been discriminated over my height by women, and 2 of the 4 women I attempted to knock up were 5'11. Around 90% of women are shorter than me, and the ones who are my height are taller than 50% of men, as I sit right on the median, so those women have to either have lower height standards, or say goodbye to half the male population in terms of dating options.
- Money: speaks for itself. Anyone who says women don't care about money are full of shit. I can simply afford to pay for myself, and to pay for much/all of any women I am seeing. And yes, women care!
- Competence [which means running my life intelligently, managing all my responsibilities, keeping my bills paid, the lights on, my car running, etc].
- IQ [could be a part of competence].
- Having a perfect/hard/working dick, and being willing to learn a woman's body - and I learn quickly.
So yeah...that's been my experience. Women are into me because I am tall enough, decent/ok looking [good delts, good arms when flexed, and are looking good even at rest these days - picture how Mark Wahlberg looked when he was in The Italian Job, or in Fear. My physique is not quite at his level, because he has better muscular shape genetics than me, but he is also 5'8.5", and he was my original motivation to get in the gym.
I am starting to wonder if women only ever saw me as a piece of ass.
I am starting to see a woman who is hotter than any of Brad Pitt's ex-wives. If I get her, people will have no choice but to admit that I'm a great guy to women...but then...do women even want that? ??? As I said, I think it's possible that women only see bodybuilders, strongmen - even the lower level competitors - as pieces of ass that they want to use the sperm to get knocked up by, but not someone they think will stick with them, so they find a beta. It's hilarious to me when batshit insane smoking hot women date betas AND still get dumped by them. LOL!!!!!!!!!!
Haha, wow. If you're going to get dumped, at least get dumped by a man of value. Hey, at least Conor McGregor served Khabib his first lost round in his UFC career. That's not as bad as losing even more badly [and Khabib won badly - as he is a sore winner, but so am I].
Women are attracted to strong men, but I can see why they worry about cheating so much.
So now some women - not very often, but ESPECIALLY hot women - sort of pre-reject me. I think in their own minds they know that they would meet me, fall for me, and the ball would then be completely in my court.
In other words, women thrive having sexual power. I didn't understand why a woman didn't date me when I was 23, because I was so much better than her boyfriend. But yeah...that was the problem. He was some scumbag who only had his height going for him [he was Gunter's height, so 6'1.5"]. He would also defend her a bit, but...meh...I could have smashed him pretty easily. He was just an angry piece of shit.
I can think of five women in total who did that to me, two of whom I had sex with, and one of whom I ate the pussy of. So only 2 of 5 didn't date me AND didn't sleep with me or offer me their pussies in some way.
It's like a vicious cycle...women don't like "The Patriarchy", so they find strong men to reproduce with, either for protection from the man, or protection from their sons...so women want strong men, but with every woman adopting this mating strategy, it keeps reproducing the DNA of dominant men, LOL!!!
So then..."The Patriarchy" continues.
If any Getbigger can fill me in on what you think makes you attractive to women, and in what capacity, I would like to know...just curious how many other decent looking, reasonable Getbig males deal with any rejection from women. I generally don't, so this experience past summer was very confusing to me.
1st off please refrain from writing a fuckin novel keep it simple ....
next all you and I do mean you is,
1' bottle of rohypnol
2' duck tape
3' bag for your head
4' bag for her head if shes ugly and there you go
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I'm lazy and I usually just fuck the women I work with. ;D
A couple times this has backfired on me.
yep don't shit where you eat nothing good will come from it ....
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I make no claims of being the greatest ladies man, but one thing I know is that you never ever want a woman you’re interested in to think of you as a friend. Make your intentions known ASAP. If it don’t work out, that’s life. Just MoveOn.
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I make no claims of being the greatest ladies man, but one thing I know is that you never ever want a woman you’re interested in to think of you as a friend. Make your intentions known ASAP. If it don’t work out, that’s life. Just MoveOn.
correct just have confidence don't come off as a jerk and don't use stupid lines just walk up greet them if shes not interested you will know by there facial expression and make them laugh most guys don't hit on hot women because there afraid of them or think they have no chance cant tell you how many times ive seen women who are 8s 9s with guys who look like 5s 6s on a scale [ no homo ]
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I LOL'd at the title "Getbiggers get women". ::)
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Another thing I’ve had to learn the hard way is to not expect anything nice you do to be appreciated. It seems like the opposite is true. The more you go out of your way the more you get shit on.
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;)
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I mean in all ways - for dating, FWBs, and relationships.
I tried twice in my life to get a girlfriend. Once in 2000, when I was 18, and that was an epic fail. Fast forward to 2017, and she retired from left-wing politics, as an member of parliament for the NDP party - effectively Canada's leftist party, before they campaigned on a centrist platform in 2015, only to be defeated by Justin Trudeau, who campaigned as a Liberal, but has since become the head of the most leftist party in Canadian history. He will be booted next federal election though.
I tried again this past summer, and was flabbergasted to be rejected. I was 36 and she was 29 then...and to not pick me is such a time-suck for her. Then when I told her I wanted to commit to another girl starting in the new year, she tried to talk me out of it. Meanwhile, she is the one rejecting me.
Then it dawned on me...I am learning stuff about myself, and it's blowing my mind. I have read that women do not want to commit in the long-term with dominant men, because they fear he will leave them, as these men [with masculine faces, and who are strong - even though I am not strong by Getbig standards, I AM strong by normal male standards] have a lot of options.
I talked to her about that, and she said it's because women fear abuse from these men...well...fine...but then what's the solution? Date some useless wimpy man? How can he protect his woman?
And that's sort of why I had kids with more than one woman. I DID have options, and I wanted to explore the genetic diversity of more than one mom [STOP - not racial diversity - they were all White. One was 1/8 or 1/16 Barbadian, but they were all White]
So it's a chicken and an egg thing - men with options are the ones that find the most willing women to have children with, but it's precisely BECAUSE those men have options that women date those men. Because women seek validation, and seeing a man who gets with a lot of women "prove" [in the far more emotionally-guided environment that make up a woman's brain] to women that he is mate material. It's hilarious. Women are far less likely to individually assess a man - it's like they all watch what other women do, to see if it is "acceptable". I love how now that women have freedom [in the West], we see how they behave, and SURPRISE, SURPRISE, they do and say literally everything that we stereotype them as doing, LOL. Meanwhile, women have the reputations of saints.
As for how I get women, here is the list as I see:
- Looks: mainly, being in shape and not being ugly. Height matters a lot to women, but I wake up at just over 5'9.25" in the morning, and shrink to just over 5'8.5" at night. It's been my experience that women tend to choose me over taller men since women value a man's face over his height. I have not much been discriminated over my height by women, and 2 of the 4 women I attempted to knock up were 5'11. Around 90% of women are shorter than me, and the ones who are my height are taller than 50% of men, as I sit right on the median, so those women have to either have lower height standards, or say goodbye to half the male population in terms of dating options.
- Money: speaks for itself. Anyone who says women don't care about money are full of shit. I can simply afford to pay for myself, and to pay for much/all of any women I am seeing. And yes, women care!
- Competence [which means running my life intelligently, managing all my responsibilities, keeping my bills paid, the lights on, my car running, etc].
- IQ [could be a part of competence].
- Having a perfect/hard/working dick, and being willing to learn a woman's body - and I learn quickly.
So yeah...that's been my experience. Women are into me because I am tall enough, decent/ok looking [good delts, good arms when flexed, and are looking good even at rest these days - picture how Mark Wahlberg looked when he was in The Italian Job, or in Fear. My physique is not quite at his level, because he has better muscular shape genetics than me, but he is also 5'8.5", and he was my original motivation to get in the gym.
I am starting to wonder if women only ever saw me as a piece of ass.
I am starting to see a woman who is hotter than any of Brad Pitt's ex-wives. If I get her, people will have no choice but to admit that I'm a great guy to women...but then...do women even want that? ??? As I said, I think it's possible that women only see bodybuilders, strongmen - even the lower level competitors - as pieces of ass that they want to use the sperm to get knocked up by, but not someone they think will stick with them, so they find a beta. It's hilarious to me when batshit insane smoking hot women date betas AND still get dumped by them. LOL!!!!!!!!!!
Haha, wow. If you're going to get dumped, at least get dumped by a man of value. Hey, at least Conor McGregor served Khabib his first lost round in his UFC career. That's not as bad as losing even more badly [and Khabib won badly - as he is a sore winner, but so am I].
Women are attracted to strong men, but I can see why they worry about cheating so much.
So now some women - not very often, but ESPECIALLY hot women - sort of pre-reject me. I think in their own minds they know that they would meet me, fall for me, and the ball would then be completely in my court.
In other words, women thrive having sexual power. I didn't understand why a woman didn't date me when I was 23, because I was so much better than her boyfriend. But yeah...that was the problem. He was some scumbag who only had his height going for him [he was Gunter's height, so 6'1.5"]. He would also defend her a bit, but...meh...I could have smashed him pretty easily. He was just an angry piece of shit.
I can think of five women in total who did that to me, two of whom I had sex with, and one of whom I ate the pussy of. So only 2 of 5 didn't date me AND didn't sleep with me or offer me their pussies in some way.
It's like a vicious cycle...women don't like "The Patriarchy", so they find strong men to reproduce with, either for protection from the man, or protection from their sons...so women want strong men, but with every woman adopting this mating strategy, it keeps reproducing the DNA of dominant men, LOL!!!
So then..."The Patriarchy" continues.
If any Getbigger can fill me in on what you think makes you attractive to women, and in what capacity, I would like to know...just curious how many other decent looking, reasonable Getbig males deal with any rejection from women. I generally don't, so this experience past summer was very confusing to me.
Am I reading this right, when you were 18 you tried to date an 11 year old?
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Ha, ha.
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Am I reading this right, when you were 18 you tried to date an 11 year old?
HOLY SHIT YOU READ ALL THAT..... I read a few lines and was looking for a rope
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HOLY SHIT YOU READ ALL THAT..... I read a few lines and was looking for a rope
This, There is something dramatically wrong if you can't find a decent girl. Maybe you are a repressed homosexual and are barking up the wrong tree.
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HOLY SHIT YOU READ ALL THAT..... I read a few lines and was looking for a rope
No I read this:
I tried twice in my life to get a girlfriend. Once in 2000, when I was 18, and that was an epic fail. Fast forward to 2017, and she retired from left-wing politics, as an member of parliament for the NDP party - effectively Canada's leftist party, before they campaigned on a centrist platform in 2015, only to be defeated by Justin Trudeau, who campaigned as a Liberal, but has since become the head of the most leftist party in Canadian history. He will be booted next federal election though.
I tried again this past summer, and was flabbergasted to be rejected. I was 36 and she was 29 then..
I read this twice trying to figure out if he was talking about the same girl.
Matt rambles and it can be confusing as to what hes attempting to say.
Let's not forgot this guy is father to multiple children in Thunder Bay but cant find a decent girl...
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Online dating :D
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circle of influence/networking
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Matt are U fuc..... real ::)
Zillions of pussy around :o
It's so easy to score , + don't live in boring suits world ............
Just be slim, tall, long wild hair,bronzed,casually dress, blue/green eyes kills pussy ..............(google 4 surfing guys images)
If U a shorty , this sucks ...................
International airports like Frankfurt or Singapore, is a model pussy paradise ..................
Girls love crazy personality & wild life style ;)
Fucked, change your life, travel,relocate ......................
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I met my current wife on Match.com. I was long time batchlor and she had two kids already. We were married in September last year. And they all live in my house now.I was on about 4 different dating sites for a year with no luck until I met my wife. Just keep trying and you'll eventually find the right gal
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i like most getbiggers are saving up for one of those sex dolls.
so this is a problem that will solve itself.
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Send a message to booty
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Dating sites can be a big joke if your willing to date anyone but if you are picky your gonna have to wait. I waited 2years to meet my wife because I'm too much an introvert to walk up to women in public so I pretty much only have the web sites but that is all over now
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Honestly its all about increasing your odds, work at a place that has tons of women, most people end up meeting their partner in the work place (working on a cruiseship theres well over 500 women employees, not to mention 4,000 passengers a week coming through), join multiple dating sites (doesn't take much time, just scroll through pics when bored swipe right when you see a hot girl, maybe you'll match), go to places that women enjoy going to (beaches, parks, malls, cafe's, hiking areas), just by doing this you'll increase your odds tremendously. Have a good sense of humor. That's all I got for you dude.
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I assume/hope this is copy-pasted from a dan18 thread on a PUA forum?
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From here on out, anyone that calls me a "wordy fuck" will be re-directed to this thread.
Pray 4 War, I'm with u except it backfires every time. Some times just take longer than the others.
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Rory and I met in the super market, as we were both looking at bananas.
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Honestly its all about increasing your odds, work at a place that has tons of women, most people end up meeting their partner in the work place (working on a cruiseship theres well over 500 women employees, not to mention 4,000 passengers a week coming through), join multiple dating sites (doesn't take much time, just scroll through pics when bored swipe right when you see a hot girl, maybe you'll match), go to places that women enjoy going to (beaches, parks, malls, cafe's, hiking areas), just by doing this you'll increase your odds tremendously. Have a good sense of humor. That's all I got for you dude.
Matt lost his job at the university.
The college had women there but Matt goes there at night to tempt the security guards into harassing him.
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;D ;D
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i like most getbiggers are saving up for one of those sex dolls.
so this is a problem that will solve itself.
Chess315 hasn't posted since his sex doll came last wedensday. PIP
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Real post - talk to everyone you see. You can't "get" a woman if you don't talk to her.
Three short sentences: "Wow you're pretty .. you got a boyfriend? No? I'm ______, what's your name?"
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Rory and I met in the super market, as we were both looking at bananas.
Like this but with dudes?
(http://68.media.tumblr.com/ecbe4c6b886dad306f3f2d4c174e1436/tumblr_o101lmY0cG1uwpmxro1_250.gif)
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Rory and I met in the super market, as we were both looking at bananas.
Are you serious. :-\
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Are you serious. :-\
Nah. He's got multiple personalities and every single one of 'em has a Genovan IQ.
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Nah. He's got multiple personalities and every single one of 'em has a Genovan IQ.
As in Jason Genova?
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As in Jason Genova?
Yup. He's either playing at being a moron or he his a moron. Either way, it's become patently sophomoric. He's probably not a bad guy and I have no doubt he's smarter than me but that ain't exactly a red badge of courage (dating myself with that one, LOL!).
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I can’t tell if this is serious. The bit about politics sounds like some shit 40+ year old doped up on Adderall housewives would be rabbling about over morning coffee. And that shit that amounted to dating an 11 year old is the equivalent of creepy business or obvious lying. 10/10
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yep don't shit where you eat nothing good will come from it ....
What can I say, I love pussy but I hate chasing it.
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Like this but with dudes?
(http://68.media.tumblr.com/ecbe4c6b886dad306f3f2d4c174e1436/tumblr_o101lmY0cG1uwpmxro1_250.gif)
Our relationship is wholesome.
Don’t degrade it like that.
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Are you serious. :-\
Why are you so surprised?
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Yup. He's either playing at being a moron or he his a moron. Either way, it's become patently sophomoric. He's probably not a bad guy and I have no doubt he's smarter than me but that ain't exactly a red badge of courage (dating myself with that one, LOL!).
No, he’s serious, we’ve hung out together
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No, he’s serious, we’ve hung out together
BFFs 4 life!
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BFFs 4 life!
:) :D