I mean in all ways - for dating, FWBs, and relationships.
I tried twice in my life to get a girlfriend. Once in 2000, when I was 18, and that was an epic fail. Fast forward to 2017, and she retired from left-wing politics, as an member of parliament for the NDP party - effectively Canada's leftist party, before they campaigned on a centrist platform in 2015, only to be defeated by Justin Trudeau, who campaigned as a Liberal, but has since become the head of the most leftist party in Canadian history. He will be booted next federal election though.
I tried again this past summer, and was flabbergasted to be rejected. I was 36 and she was 29 then...and to not pick me is such a time-suck for her. Then when I told her I wanted to commit to another girl starting in the new year, she tried to talk me out of it. Meanwhile, she is the one rejecting me.
Then it dawned on me...I am learning stuff about myself, and it's blowing my mind. I have read that women do not want to commit in the long-term with dominant men, because they fear he will leave them, as these men [with masculine faces, and who are strong - even though I am not strong by Getbig standards, I AM strong by normal male standards] have a lot of options.
I talked to her about that, and she said it's because women fear abuse from these men...well...fine...but then what's the solution? Date some useless wimpy man? How can he protect his woman?
And that's sort of why I had kids with more than one woman. I DID have options, and I wanted to explore the genetic diversity of more than one mom [STOP - not racial diversity - they were all White. One was 1/8 or 1/16 Barbadian, but they were all White]
So it's a chicken and an egg thing - men with options are the ones that find the most willing women to have children with, but it's precisely BECAUSE those men have options that women date those men. Because women seek validation, and seeing a man who gets with a lot of women "prove" [in the far more emotionally-guided environment that make up a woman's brain] to women that he is mate material. It's hilarious. Women are far less likely to individually assess a man - it's like they all watch what other women do, to see if it is "acceptable". I love how now that women have freedom [in the West], we see how they behave, and SURPRISE, SURPRISE, they do and say literally everything that we stereotype them as doing, LOL. Meanwhile, women have the reputations of saints.
As for how I get women, here is the list as I see:
- Looks: mainly, being in shape and not being ugly. Height matters a lot to women, but I wake up at just over 5'9.25" in the morning, and shrink to just over 5'8.5" at night. It's been my experience that women tend to choose me over taller men since women value a man's face over his height. I have not much been discriminated over my height by women, and 2 of the 4 women I attempted to knock up were 5'11. Around 90% of women are shorter than me, and the ones who are my height are taller than 50% of men, as I sit right on the median, so those women have to either have lower height standards, or say goodbye to half the male population in terms of dating options.
- Money: speaks for itself. Anyone who says women don't care about money are full of shit. I can simply afford to pay for myself, and to pay for much/all of any women I am seeing. And yes, women care!
- Competence [which means running my life intelligently, managing all my responsibilities, keeping my bills paid, the lights on, my car running, etc].
- IQ [could be a part of competence].
- Having a perfect/hard/working dick, and being willing to learn a woman's body - and I learn quickly.
So yeah...that's been my experience. Women are into me because I am tall enough, decent/ok looking [good delts, good arms when flexed, and are looking good even at rest these days - picture how Mark Wahlberg looked when he was in The Italian Job, or in Fear. My physique is not quite at his level, because he has better muscular shape genetics than me, but he is also 5'8.5", and he was my original motivation to get in the gym.
I am starting to wonder if women only ever saw me as a piece of ass.
I am starting to see a woman who is hotter than any of Brad Pitt's ex-wives. If I get her, people will have no choice but to admit that I'm a great guy to women...but then...do women even want that?
As I said, I think it's possible that women only see bodybuilders, strongmen - even the lower level competitors - as pieces of ass that they want to use the sperm to get knocked up by, but not someone they think will stick with them, so they find a beta. It's hilarious to me when batshit insane smoking hot women date betas AND still get dumped by them. LOL!!!!!!!!!!
Haha, wow. If you're going to get dumped, at least get dumped by a man of value. Hey, at least Conor McGregor served Khabib his first lost round in his UFC career. That's not as bad as losing even more badly [and Khabib won badly - as he is a sore winner, but so am I].
Women are attracted to strong men, but I can see why they worry about cheating so much.
So now some women - not very often, but ESPECIALLY hot women - sort of pre-reject me. I think in their own minds they know that they would meet me, fall for me, and the ball would then be completely in my court.
In other words, women thrive having sexual power. I didn't understand why a woman didn't date me when I was 23, because I was so much better than her boyfriend. But yeah...that was the problem. He was some scumbag who only had his height going for him [he was Gunter's height, so 6'1.5"]. He would also defend her a bit, but...meh...I could have smashed him pretty easily. He was just an angry piece of shit.
I can think of five women in total who did that to me, two of whom I had sex with, and one of whom I ate the pussy of. So only 2 of 5 didn't date me AND didn't sleep with me or offer me their pussies in some way.
It's like a vicious cycle...women don't like "The Patriarchy", so they find strong men to reproduce with, either for protection from the man, or protection from their sons...so women want strong men, but with every woman adopting this mating strategy, it keeps reproducing the DNA of dominant men, LOL!!!
So then..."The Patriarchy" continues.
If any Getbigger can fill me in on what you think makes you attractive to women, and in what capacity, I would like to know...just curious how many other decent looking, reasonable Getbig males deal with any rejection from women. I generally don't, so this experience past summer was very confusing to me.
