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Title: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Howard on May 15, 2019, 09:41:53 AM
I trust my fellow getbiggers can come up with some gems for these:
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: dan18 on May 15, 2019, 09:47:52 AM
I trust my fellow getbiggers can come up with some gems for these 4 categories.
Here's my cliff notes version for each:

1. Kids- never

2. Jobs- worked for over 40 years and recently retired

3. BB competing - plenty of Mr Podunks so nobody cares

4. Marriage - c'mon? me? ;D
This post reeks of I have many regrets ;D
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: BBSSchlemiel on May 15, 2019, 11:16:43 AM
This post reeks of I have many regrets ;D

Exactly. If the guy was so comfortable with his actions and decisions he wouldn’t be poking fun at himself For over a decade and heaping his insecurity to happily married men with children.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Mothballs on May 15, 2019, 11:33:28 AM
I can’t believe this guy is still around posting the same shit he posted a decade ago.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Dave D on May 15, 2019, 01:16:40 PM
1. Kids-  11 and counting

2. Jobs - working is for the birds.

3. BB - in the gym every day

4. Marriage - if the pric is right
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: che on May 15, 2019, 02:09:09 PM
This post reeks of I have many regrets ;D

Spot on, the kids is the biggest one.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Henda on May 15, 2019, 02:24:06 PM
1. Used to want kids about as much as I’d want to contract aids via getting assfucked wearing a bunny suit but since having them I’d not have it any other way

2. Do what makes you happy work wise as long as it gives you enough to live how you like. Fuck anything else. For me that means not answering to some little cumstain who’s such a pussy in everyday life he uses the position he sucked his way into to inflate his fragile little ego by being a cunt to those working under him.Self employed is the utter dregs done times but worth it.

3. Fuck that shit

4. See number 3

Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Humble Narcissist on May 15, 2019, 04:32:17 PM
I trust my fellow getbiggers can come up with some gems for these 4 categories.
Here's my cliff notes version for each:

1. Kids- never

2. Jobs- worked for over 40 years and recently retired

3. BB competing - plenty of Mr Podunks so nobody cares

4. Marriage - c'mon? me? ;D
1. kids-none
2. jobs-retired at 38, 46 now
3. lifted since age 12 never competed
4. married once, never again unless a rich woman comes along
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: wes on May 15, 2019, 04:50:11 PM
Oh boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111111111111111111111111  :(
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: The Scott on May 15, 2019, 06:02:47 PM
I trust my fellow getbiggers can come up with some gems for these 4 categories.
Here's my cliff notes version for each:

1. Kids- never

2. Jobs- worked for over 40 years and recently retired

3. BB competing - plenty of Mr Podunks so nobody cares

4. Marriage - c'mon? me? ;D

As the grizzly said to the hunter after he buttfucked him for the umpteenth time..."You don't come here for the huntin', do ya?"

Geeze Howie.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: chaos on May 15, 2019, 06:24:11 PM
This post reeks of I have many regrets ;D
First regret is clicking on the thread.
Second would be reading it.
Third would be this response.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: 2ND COMING on May 15, 2019, 06:35:01 PM
Kids - Could not imagine getting old without having kids.

Jobs - yes

Competing - Yes, mlb the show online

Marriage - meh
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Bevo on May 15, 2019, 06:54:36 PM
Good thing Howard is never having kids, the world is a better place because of that
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: wave_length on May 16, 2019, 04:20:48 AM
1. Kids - two
2. Jobs - worked for 18 years, retired at age 42, now 46
3. BB competing - not much into oiled up, thonged strutting around for old creepy guys
4. Marriage - yes
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: robcguns on May 16, 2019, 04:24:46 AM
Seriously how are you guys retired at 38 and 42?Family inheritance?Big lawsuits?
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: wave_length on May 16, 2019, 04:31:44 AM
Seriously how are you guys retired at 38 and 42?Family inheritance?Big lawsuits?

No lawsuits, no big family inheritance.

Co-founded a high-tech company out of university, busted my ass for 18 years, company got quite successful, eventually sold all my shares and quit.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: SF1900 on May 16, 2019, 04:55:27 AM
Seriously how are you guys retired at 38 and 42?Family inheritance?Big lawsuits?

They are getbiggers.

They are all worth billions, look like a young bradd pitt, and the body of a Greek God!!
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Bevo on May 16, 2019, 05:09:10 AM
They are getbiggers.

They are all worth billions, look like a young bradd pitt, and the body of a Greek God!!

And pass up on girls like Carmen Electra
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: robcguns on May 16, 2019, 05:10:18 AM
No lawsuits, no big family inheritance.

Co-founded a high-tech company out of university, busted my ass for 18 years, company got quite successful, eventually sold all my shares and quit.


Makes sense,good for you.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: robcguns on May 16, 2019, 05:11:57 AM
They are getbiggers.

They are all worth billions, look like a young bradd pitt, and the body of a Greek God!!

Goes without saying
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: dan18 on May 16, 2019, 05:31:43 AM
First regret is clicking on the thread.
Second would be reading it.
Third would be this response.
Your fourth regret is the last piece of pie you ate
fifth is your tiny penis
sixth is that you didn't come out to your parents
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: oldtimer1 on May 16, 2019, 05:56:47 AM
Why get married if you are not having a family?

1. Kids- four

2. Jobs- Retired at 52.

3. BB competing - Never posed in a thong all oiled up to music while men cheered. Competed in Powerlifting, college level track, and tried boxing. 5 fights in the ring. Lost one. Found out I don't like getting hit in the face. It's not a fun sport. Got out while I'm still pretty. Nose is a little sideways though.

4. Marriage - Married 33 years
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: BBSSchlemiel on May 16, 2019, 09:34:19 AM
Nope, by 16 I knew I didn't want the parent lifestyle.
Not only do I have no regrets, I feel like a dodged a bullet by never having kids.
100% serious.

Of course , lots of different folks out there and many love being a parent.

I have my opinions and expect others will be different.
The only thing that bugs me is hearing people complain about being in their situation.
My thought is : STFU and change your life, if you think it sucks.

Yet another post repeating the same shit you always have.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Humble Narcissist on May 16, 2019, 10:16:53 AM
Seriously how are you guys retired at 38 and 42?Family inheritance?Big lawsuits?
Minimalist lifestyle
own home free and clear
saved and invested for 2 decades
no kids NO WIFE (there is no way in Hell I could live this way with a wife)

BTW, many military people retire in 20 years.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Powerlift66 on May 16, 2019, 10:22:32 AM

1. Kids- Two in their 20's.

2. Jobs- IT engineer for 25 years now.

3. BB competing - Fukk no (ghey).

4. Marriage - Only if Prudence proposes on both knees.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: wave_length on May 16, 2019, 10:38:09 AM
Minimalist lifestyle
own home free and clear
saved and invested for 2 decades
no kids NO WIFE (there is no way in Hell I could live this way with a wife)

BTW, many military people retire in 20 years.

Wifes can work too. Mine still does.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Grape Ape on May 16, 2019, 10:39:41 AM
Minimalist lifestyle
own home free and clear
saved and invested for 2 decades
no kids NO WIFE (there is no way in Hell I could live this way with a wife)

BTW, many military people retire in 20 years.

Police / prison guards too....they can put in 20+ years by low 40s and get pension.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Humble Narcissist on May 16, 2019, 10:55:03 AM
Police / prison guards too....they can put in 20+ years by low 40s and get pension.
I knew a guy who retired at UPS after 20 or 25 years.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Humble Narcissist on May 17, 2019, 10:00:31 AM
Great post and I've always  been a fan of the minimalist lifestyle.
I understand your desire to avoid a wife and kids.
If you're happy "as is" stay that way and ENJOY your stress free lifestyle.

In my case, I prefer having a wife as a loving life partner.
As most know, I don't have kids and never wanted 'em, so I won't elaborate on that.

I was married 3x before this one and it's finally working well.
Maybe it's because we're older and she never wanted kids .
She is a VP exec. for a major bank and makes more then me.

I recently retired and we have a paid for 5 BR home on 5 wooded acres w streams.
With her , we've done well with a couple Mt vacation home rentals to supplement our incomes.

I can tell you, having a loving woman by your side can be a real plus.
In my OPINION  most men buy into too many traditions when it comes to marriage.
They end up bitter and disillusioned with marriage.They blinded followed the
" it's just what you do " path.

In my experience, nothing beats being with a smart, attractive woman with a successful career.
I was married 25 years ago and assumed I would have kids as everyone else in my family does.  After getting divorced and dodging a bullet I had more time to kick back and assess what I really wanted in life.  I decided the world would survive without me reproducing and I would survive better as well.  After having several girlfriends since then I have never regretted my decision.  American woman today are not the same as our mother's and grandmother's generation.  Divorce laws are toxic to men.  I know several guys who were devastated after a divorce.  Years of being the dutiful husband and father selflessly providing for their families and one day wifey decides she doesn't have the tingles anymore.  Back to living in a one room apartment and starting over. :'(
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: robcguns on May 17, 2019, 10:45:52 AM
Minimalist lifestyle
own home free and clear
saved and invested for 2 decades
no kids NO WIFE (there is no way in Hell I could live this way with a wife)

BTW, many military people retire in 20 years.

Smart man.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Bevo on May 17, 2019, 12:54:22 PM
Smart man.

No fun, can’t live like that

Rather spend thousands on drinking wine, riding in yachts, traveling to Dubai, and being driven around in a Rolls-Royce phantom
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: SF1900 on May 17, 2019, 02:07:39 PM
1. Kids- No.

2. Jobs- Autozone for 1-2 years

3. BB competing - No.

4. Marriage - No.
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Primemuscle on May 17, 2019, 02:25:40 PM
-Widower
-Two adult children
-Retired
-No competition
Title: Re: Getbigger views and opinions on : Marriage, Kids, Jobs and competing
Post by: Humble Narcissist on May 18, 2019, 03:33:20 AM
No fun, can’t live like that

Rather spend thousands on drinking wine, riding in yachts, traveling to Dubai, and being driven around in a Rolls-Royce phantom
You can't do that single?