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Title: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Al Doggity on July 02, 2019, 01:42:05 PM
the answer to that question is obviously yes, along with me being stupid.

At the risk of polluting the board with detritus that was being safely contained in another thread, I did want to get the opinion of some kindhearted and moral bros who likely stopped keeping up.

I will try to lay this out as plainly and accurately as possible, and if it turns out that my opinion is different from the popular opinion of the board, I'll just drop the issue  and move on. Actually, maybe I'll just change my avatar, because I'm clearly just out of the loop.


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If an adult gets a 13 year old drunk or high and has sex with her is one thing. If a 13 year old  invites a 22 year old to smoke pot at her place and they have consensual sex that's another thing. They are not morally equivalent.

I honestly don't see one as "better" than the other . Honestly, if one of my early 20s cousins or nephews told me they slept with a 13 year old, I definitely wouldn't feel better about it if he explained that it was her idea and they were her drugs.

My opposition to a 13 year old sleeping with a legal adult doesn't even factor in drug or alcohol use, one way or the other. It does factor in the idea that the child might not even need that much convincing, though.

 When I read this quote earlier today, I did struggle to look at it with a balanced perspective, but reflecting on it hours later, it's seeming even stranger than it did at first. But maybe I'm out of step. If that's the case, then sobeit.







Title: Re: Am I crazy or..?
Post by: robcguns on July 02, 2019, 01:44:34 PM
 No adult male should ever have sexual contact with a girl under the age of 18 in my book.
Title: Re: Am I crazy or..?
Post by: Al Doggity on July 02, 2019, 01:45:51 PM
I made it a poll, so y'all can make your real feelings known without posting and just having to make it "sound good".
Title: Re: Am I crazy or..?
Post by: cephissus on July 02, 2019, 02:12:35 PM
Al, you and pellius are cut from the same cloth. You guys are destined to butt heads for eternity. For your own sake, sign the waiver or move on.
Title: Re: Am I crazy or..?
Post by: Rascal full on July 02, 2019, 02:33:14 PM
When I first read the whole Pellius and 13 year old girl thread I was disgusted and alarmed at what he was saying. Truthfully, he has grown on me and I enjoy the vast majority of his posts, and he has tried to clarify his position but you are right in this instance. As I get older the age of the women I want to have sex with have kept match. Any man over the age of 18 that would have sex with a 13 year old is suspect in my book. Throwing themselves at you or not you should know better and not want that in any way.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 02, 2019, 09:34:03 PM
The legal age in Canada is 16. Prior to the May 2008 change under the Harper government, it was 14.

In 2007, when I was 25, I was with a girl slightly taller than me who was turning 19 that weekend.

Only after eating her slit twice did I find out she was turning 17. Still legal - but only moral in my mind because she lied to me.

What was I supposed to do? She was 5'9" or 5'9.5". It never occurred to me she was lying about her age.

Regarding Al Doggity's 🐕 example:

I do see the two as being morally distinct. But neither is something I can condone.

That said - we are biologically wired to reproduce with those of reproductive-age. Age 13, however narrowly, is reproductive-age.

Had the example been age 10, that changes things. Up it to age 16, and it becomes legal in Canada. Heck, wind the clock back 13 years, and 14 was legal in Canada.

It all sounds like a #MeToo disaster to me.
Title: Re: Am I crazy or..?
Post by: AbrahamG on July 02, 2019, 10:09:52 PM
No adult male should ever have sexual contact with a girl under the age of 18 in my book.

Agree depending on the age difference.  I have no issue with a 19 year old guy and 17 year old gal fucking.  No one should be fucking 13 year olds.  Unfortunately many 13 year olds fuck other 13 year olds. 
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 02, 2019, 11:14:56 PM
So pellius fucked that 13-year-old?

This was when. - 1988?

Meh. In Canada, it would have been legal months later.

IMO, it boils down to being of reproductive age, to determine the abnormality of it. While 13 is young, it is puberty age.

Again, 13 is not like 10, just as 16 is not like 13.

In fact, here in Thunder Bay, Canada, the legal age is 16.
Title: Re: Am I crazy or..?
Post by: Pray_4_War on July 02, 2019, 11:34:06 PM
It's well known that I like the younger ladies.  That said, it's a man's responsibility to both obey the law, and avoid dicking down girls that aren't mentally and emotionally mature.

Also, 13 year old children shouldn't be having sex with anyone at all......regardless of age.  That shit is insane.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Kwon on July 02, 2019, 11:52:50 PM
It's well known that I like the older ladies.(90 and up)  That said, it's a man's responsibility to both obey the law, and avoid dicking down girls that aren't mentally and emotionally there anymore.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Pray_4_War on July 03, 2019, 01:11:07 AM
It's well known that I like the older ladies.(90 and up)  That said, it's a man's responsibility to both obey the law, and avoid dicking down girls that aren't mentally and emotionally there anymore.

Kwon's nickname is the Geriatric Gigolo.  He makes them take their dentures out before they give him a suck.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: pellius on July 03, 2019, 02:37:26 AM
Pay attention: Both are wrong. But one getting a girl drunk so she is more unaware of her actions, surrounding and what's happening is rape.

A girl, and this actually happened, invited the guy to her room when her mom was away to smoke pot, and they had consensual sex (yes, just like a 13-year-old can consent to another 13-year-old they can also consent to a 22-year-old, just like they consented to get married and have kids for most of human history when people didn't live that long). And in this case, she replayed this scenario to two other security guards.

Now, and don't ignore this question. Does this also apply to boys? Same scenario but sexes are switched.

And to Matt, I never had sex with a teen ever, even when I was a teen.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: ratherbebig on July 03, 2019, 02:46:12 AM

IMO, it boils down to being of reproductive age, to determine the abnormality of it. While 13 is young, it is puberty age.


i think this is the reasoning to blame for a lot of adults having sex with teens and pre-teens.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: pellius on July 03, 2019, 02:47:28 AM
Message to Al. I thought when we went at it on this subject it was more you trying to attack me. I see that you are sincere and not just gratuitously hopping on the band wagon against me. That puts things in a different perspective on my part.

You should rephrase the question. My point is that I don't feel they are morally equivalent. Both are wrong, one is worse than the other. There are gradations of evil.
If I'm at McD ordering my QP with cheese and the cashier gives me back $3 in change but one of those dollars was a ten dollar bill. If I keep it, that's stealing. If I bilk a senior out of there life savings that is also stealing. But it is far worse than the $10 I kept in extra change.

So to be fair and express what I meant by that statement, it should be asked are they morally equivalent. If it was your daughter and you found out someone got her drunk and had sex with her (remember those instances where guys would spike a women's drink so they could take advantage of her?) versus your daughter inviting someone to her room to smoke pot and then had sex with him. What would bother you more?

To me the first one is a pure victim.  The man engaged and initiated predatory behavior. I try to be precise with my words. I didn't say "they" got drunk. I said "he got her drunk".
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 02:48:09 AM
^ pellius, someone took one of your posts way out of context. Maybe che? Not All Doggity. 🐕

Six months after the story I described above, I was 26, and ate the slit of a 19-year-old. I smoked marijuana with her, and watched Pulp Fiction.

Later, I questioned if I used her. In reality, she was a daily marijuana smoker. Meanwhile, it was my sixth time using it. If anything, she used me.

My only intention was to eat her slit. But she asked me to fuck her. Had it not been for the marijuana, I would have declined. STI fears. So...she sort of used me.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 02:50:14 AM
i think this is the reasoning to blame for a lot of adults having sex with teens and pre-teens.

Pre-teens?

I think we should distinguish pederasty from sexual relations with people capable of reproducing, and this biologically programed to have sex.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: ratherbebig on July 03, 2019, 02:53:28 AM
Pre-teens?

I think we should distinguish pederasty from sexual relations with people capable of reproducing, and this biologically programed to have sex.

yes pre-teens, surely there's plenty of girls that hit puberty early and can reproduce before 13.
not that it matters, no normal person would think a 13 year old is "fair game" just because theyre physically ready.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: pellius on July 03, 2019, 02:54:53 AM
^ pellius, someone took one of your posts way out of context. Maybe che? Not All Doggity. 🐕

Six months after the story I described above, I was 26, and ate the slit of a 19-year-old. I smoked marijuana with her, and watched Pulp Fiction.

Later, I questioned if I used her. In reality, she was a daily marijuana smoker. Meanwhile, it was my sixth time using it. If anything, she used me.

My only intention was to eat her slit. But she asked me to fuck her. Had it not been for the marijuana, I would have declined. STI fears. So...she sort of used me.

So you just wanted to use her to only "eat her slit".
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: pellius on July 03, 2019, 02:57:06 AM
BTW Al, no need to change you avi. It's a non-issue for me. I feel neither mocked or complimented. Just not sure why you would want it. If someone was new to the board they would think that is you.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Pray_4_War on July 03, 2019, 05:35:54 AM
yes pre-teens, surely there's plenty of girls that hit puberty early and can reproduce before 13.
not that it matters, no normal person would think a 13 year old is "fair game" just because theyre physically ready.


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Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: ratherbebig on July 03, 2019, 08:19:20 AM
dont know wht that means.

but unless i read it wrong, matt says fukking a 13 year old is OK because she reached puberty.

Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: TonyAlva on July 03, 2019, 08:46:30 AM
  Why is there even a question about this, one of the most disgusting messed up scenarios to come across on this message board yet. :-X
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Al Doggity on July 03, 2019, 09:15:30 AM
Message to Al. I thought when we went at it on this subject it was more you trying to attack me. I see that you are sincere and not just gratuitously hopping on the band wagon against me. That puts things in a different perspective on my part.

You should rephrase the question. My point is that I don't feel they are morally equivalent. Both are wrong, one is worse than the other. There are gradations of evil.
If I'm at McD ordering my QP with cheese and the cashier gives me back $3 in change but one of those dollars was a ten dollar bill. If I keep it, that's stealing. If I bilk a senior out of there life savings that is also stealing. But it is far worse than the $10 I kept in extra change.

So to be fair and express what I meant by that statement, it should be asked are they morally equivalent. If it was your daughter and you found out someone got her drunk and had sex with her (remember those instances where guys would spike a women's drink so they could take advantage of her?) versus your daughter inviting someone to her room to smoke pot and then had sex with him. What would bother you more?

To me the first one is a pure victim.  The man engaged and initiated predatory behavior. I try to be precise with my words. I didn't say "they" got drunk. I said "he got her drunk".


The thing is , throughout these different threads, you keep saying  "Well, this is what I actually meant, this is out of context, this, this and that" so the point of this thread was to remove as much bias and provide as much relevant context as possible.  I don't think there's anything unfair or cherry picked about my opening post in this thread. It was an honest attempt to convey what you said  and what I believe you meant, and I believe it did so accurately.

It's just a very odd line of thinking. You keep using the example of drinking/getting high and in this last post, you specifically use the example of spiking a drink. But the thing is,  spiking a woman's drink is legally considered sexual assault regardless of age.  It's wrong if a guy spikes a teenager's drink, but it's also wrong if he spikes a 30-year old woman's drink.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 09:19:39 AM
So you just wanted to use her to only "eat her slit".

Yes. ;D

Love that fresh scent of vagina.

I've always had strong STI fears, but yes - my goal was to only eat her slit.

Truth be told...most women do not feel used by me.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Kwon on July 03, 2019, 09:41:36 AM
Yes. ;D

Love that fresh scent of vagina.

I've always had strong STI fears, but yes - my goal was to only eat her slit.

Truth be told...most women do not feel used by me.

Quite the gentleman and scholar there Matty!
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 10:14:15 AM
Quite the gentleman and scholar there Matty!

Great post.

Normally, I will just eat a woman's slit, then politely tell her to leave.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: ratherbebig on July 03, 2019, 10:15:53 AM
sounds like somebody disabled from the shoulders down would do.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 10:18:13 AM
sounds like somebody disabled from the shoulders down would do.

I can get off on my own + STI fears.

Love the fresh scent of clit.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: ratherbebig on July 03, 2019, 10:23:06 AM
I can get off on my own + STI fears.

Love the fresh scent of clit.

get a woman to bottle the scent for you and you would never have to meet a female again.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: wes on July 03, 2019, 10:55:37 AM
I hate when Matt says"slit" !!  :(
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Wiggs on July 03, 2019, 11:33:22 AM
No it's not morally equal. Clearly the one where you're getting her drunk or high and then taking advantage is worse. It's worse because she's under the influence. In the latter example she was the aggressor. What does that mean?  You're still going to jail but you're going to jail longer in the first example.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: BB on July 03, 2019, 11:43:31 AM
I hate when Matt says"slit" !!  :(

Indeed. Even "gash" or "hatchet wound" would be more pleasant to the ear/eye :).
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Al Doggity on July 03, 2019, 11:49:04 AM
No it's not morally equal. Clearly the one where you're getting her drunk or high and then taking advantage is worse. It's worse because she's under the influence. In the latter example she was the aggressor. What does that mean?  You're still going to jail but you're going to jail longer in the first example.

Fair enough...

So, would you also be comfortable saying that sending a guy to jail for the second example seemed excessive?
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: pellius on July 03, 2019, 12:19:11 PM

The thing is , throughout these different threads, you keep saying  "Well, this is what I actually meant, this is out of context, this, this and that" so the point of this thread was to remove as much bias and provide as much relevant context as possible.  I don't think there's anything unfair or cherry picked about my opening post in this thread. It was an honest attempt to convey what you said  and what I believe you meant, and I believe it did so accurately.

It's just a very odd line of thinking. You keep using the example of drinking/getting high and in this last post, you specifically use the example of spiking a drink. But the thing is,  spiking a woman's drink is legally considered sexual assault regardless of age.  It's wrong if a guy spikes a teenager's drink, but it's also wrong if he spikes a 30-year old woman's drink.

Jeeze Al, try to follow along. I never said there was anything wrong with your post. You keep reinterpreting what I said which why I have to constantly explain it. I said, clearly, that it's the way you posed the question in the poll. It does not convey the point I was trying to make regarding moral equivalence. That's the reason I have to keep explaining over and over again. People read into my words and interpret them to suit their agenda. Because I said a teen has the ability to consent, as they have throughout history routinely marrying in their mid teens, people read into that that I am promoting teen sex.

And I don't "keep" using the example of getting a woman drunk. I used it once for this example and if I did "keep" using it, so what? It doesn't invalidate the argument. Again, just reinterpreting to suit your agenda.

You state what I already stated that taking advantage of someone you got drunk is assault. You pose it in a manner like you are explaining it to me. Why? You're just saying what I already said.

My point is that it is worse than the second scenario which actually did happen. As I said, in this case the man initiated predatory behavior. If you think it is equivalent to a guy being invited to smoke pot by a girl
who provides a private room then we see things differently.

THIS DOES NOT MEAN IT'S RIGHT! BOTH ARE WRONG! I BELIEVE ONE IS WORSE THAN THE OTHER REGARDING THE MAN AND THE PUNISHMENT IMPOSED.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Wiggs on July 03, 2019, 12:21:18 PM
Fair enough...

So, would you also be comfortable saying that sending a guy to jail for the second example seemed excessive?

For 13 years old, you have to do some time.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Al Doggity on July 03, 2019, 12:43:36 PM
And I don't "keep" using the example of getting a woman drunk. I used it once for this example and if I did "keep" using it, so what? It doesn't invalidate the argument.

You state what I already stated that taking advantage of someone you got drunk is assault. You pose it in a manner like you are explaining it to me. Why? You're just saying what I already said.

Yes, you used the drunken example several times in the other thread in which most of the relevant posts have mysteriously been deleted.

As for the second part, not at all. Most people find sleeping with a child repellent enough, whereas you have said that you think that someone going to jail for sex with a 13 year old seems excessive. In your original posts, I didn't even take it as you saying  spiking/roofeeing/etc, I just took it as you meaning the adult was the aggressor. But when you say drugging, that's a completely separate crime that has nothing to do with age.  Most statutory rape cases likely don't involve drugging a child to the point of unconsciousness in order to take advantage of them. To tack that on as a presumed variant of a completely separate crime is disingenuous.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: cephissus on July 03, 2019, 01:15:55 PM
^ pellius, someone took one of your posts way out of context. Maybe che? Not All Doggity. 🐕

Six months after the story I described above, I was 26, and ate the slit of a 19-year-old. I smoked marijuana with her, and watched Pulp Fiction.

Later, I questioned if I used her. In reality, she was a daily marijuana smoker. Meanwhile, it was my sixth time using it. If anything, she used me.

My only intention was to eat her slit. But she asked me to fuck her. Had it not been for the marijuana, I would have declined. STI fears. So...she sort of used me.

What does smoking marijuana have to do with anything? ???
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: ratherbebig on July 03, 2019, 01:20:30 PM
What does smoking marijuana have to do with anything? ???

just the usual ramblings of matt that doesnt add to the story
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: cephissus on July 03, 2019, 01:47:32 PM
just the usual ramblings of matt that doesnt add to the story

Do you suppose Matt, Al, and Pellius all suffered under histrionic mothers?
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 01:49:43 PM
Indeed. Even "gash" or "hatchet wound" would be more pleasant to the ear/eye :).

Funny you mention gash...I don't like that term because it sounds like an injury.

Slit is more of a description.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Al Doggity on July 03, 2019, 01:56:50 PM
Do you suppose Matt, Al, and Pellius all suffered under histrionic mothers?

They do say that eating disorders are exacerbated by mother/daughter relationship, so that might be one way to tell??  ???
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on July 03, 2019, 03:33:40 PM
Age is a human construct.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 04:10:16 PM
Funny you mention gash...I don't like that term because it sounds like an injury.

Slit is more of a description.

Is my logic on point here?

PS - isn't the rule for socially acceptable relationships "Half your age + 6 years"?

So at 38 later this year...19+6 = 25 is acceptable?
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Twaddle on July 03, 2019, 04:32:25 PM
Age is a human construct.

True.  So are laws. 
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: AbrahamG on July 03, 2019, 04:54:57 PM
Is my logic on point here?

PS - isn't the rule for socially acceptable relationships "Half your age + 6 years"?

So at 38 later this year...19+6 = 25 is acceptable?

When I turned 19, would that mean that 9.5 + 6 = 15.5 aka a fifteen and a half year old would be in play?  How would that hold up in a court of law?
Title: Re: Am I crazy or..?
Post by: Slapper on July 03, 2019, 04:58:55 PM
No adult male should ever have sexual contact with a girl under the age of 18 in my book.

^^^ This.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: cephissus on July 03, 2019, 04:59:47 PM
Is my logic on point here?

PS - isn't the rule for socially acceptable relationships "Half your age + 6 years"?

So at 38 later this year...19+6 = 25 is acceptable?

Logic: no. Slit is a description. Gash is a description. Slit is not "more" of a description. Perhaps you meant that a gash is often a wound, whereas a slit is not; hence, slit is the "more accurate" description. Slits and gashes can both be bloody. They can both be wounds. A gash can be found in dirt, buildings, or clouds just as it can be found in human flesh. In a fairly abstract sense, gashes and slits can both be stretched to accommodate any sort of space between two like substances. At this level, all gashes can be slits, and all slit gashes. In common usage, a slit is narrower than a gash. But the amount of space between the edges of the gash or slit varies according to the subject. A slit in a whale might be a gash in a human, although both apertures measured the same. All I'm saying is, if you read this far, you owe me at least a little gratitude for indulging your autism.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: cephissus on July 03, 2019, 05:04:22 PM
They do say that eating disorders are exacerbated by mother/daughter relationship, so that might be one way to tell??  ???

I was thinking that autism is a rejection of feminine chaos, an overcompensation of orderly, rigid, analytical thinking to defend the poor child from the wanton and wicked whims of his wild mother. Faced with a choice between the austere, emotionless, uncompromising, logical father and the prevaricating, unpredictable, bacchantic mother, some children take sides with the money maker, leaving the home maker out to dry.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Twaddle on July 03, 2019, 05:33:01 PM
Hatchet wound!
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 05:36:27 PM
Logic: no. Slit is a description. Gash is a description. Slit is not "more" of a description. Perhaps you meant that a gash is often a wound, whereas a slit is not; hence, slit is the "more accurate" description. Slits and gashes can both be bloody. They can both be wounds. A gash can be found in dirt, buildings, or clouds just as it can be found in human flesh. In a fairly abstract sense, gashes and slits can both be stretched to accommodate any sort of space between two like substances. At this level, all gashes can be slits, and all slit gashes. In common usage, a slit is narrower than a gash. But the amount of space between the edges of the gash or slit varies according to the subject. A slit in a whale might be a gash in a human, although both apertures measured the same. All I'm saying is, if you read this far, you owe me at least a little gratitude for indulging your autism.

Great post!

That was my line of thinking about a gash being a wound.

I think it's possible that people interpret gash the way that I interpret slit - as injurious or dirty.

I find that about 25-40% of women are self-conscious about how their vaginas smell.

I used to get annoyed when women would leave their tops on during sex. Now I realize they are self-conscious because I have always been in shape.

There was a movie with Bruce Campbell where he played an Elvis impersonator [2002?] where a woman [I think she was a nurse] changed her clothes in front of him [I think her shirt - exposing her bra], and he commented that she was as sexually intimidated by him as she was to a housecat.

Sort of the reverse of my experiences of women leaving their shirts on.

So I try to embrace it as a compliment, rather than be annoyed by it.

Although I think insecurities can serve as motivation to change...but I just see no reason to be self-conscious about certain things.

Although I'm not in shape like numerous other Getbiggers, I have no loose skin, or hair in weird places, or anything I worry about.

I do have hairy autistic ape feet though. And my dick - while a good size when erect - turns into a vagina during the cold winters we get here in Thunder Bay, Canada.

I showed a woman once, and she said "Where did it go?", and we both started laughing. I showed another woman, and she said "It takes lot of confidence for a man to do that."

I don't think it takes confidence if the women have seen my erect penis. Isn't that all that matters? Who gives a fuck if some transphobic piece of shit laughs at my penis when it turns into a vagina during our frigid winters here in Thunder Bay, Canada? You don't fuck women with a flaccid penis, so who cares?
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 05:40:48 PM
I was thinking that autism is a rejection of feminine chaos, an overcompensation of orderly, rigid, analytical thinking to defend the poor child from the wanton and wicked whims of his wild mother. Faced with a choice between the austere, emotionless, uncompromising, logical father and the prevaricating, unpredictable, bacchantic mother, some children take sides with the money maker, leaving the home maker out to dry.

Autism definitely strives for rigid order.

I think it's more genetic than anything.

Keep in mind that I just barely qualify as autistic. It's a scale.

Level 1: Matt C [just on the cusp of normalcy and autism].
Level 2: Vegan Gains.
Level 3: Rain Man.

It's also helping me that politics are moving in my direction now.

I felt like the kid who said "The Emperor Has No Clothes" until Trump got elected.

Human beings are clannish people. Autistics are more concerned with facts. And only now is it becoming more obvious to normal people that I was never wrong about divershitty.

Only 6% of Canadians want more immigration. There were 50 bombings in Sweden in the first 90 days of this year.

Good thing I was wrong about predicting all this.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Twaddle on July 03, 2019, 05:42:42 PM
Autism definitely strives for rigid order.

I think it's more genetic than anything.

Keep in mind that I just barely qualify as autistic. It's a scale.

Level 1: Matt C [just on the cusp of normalcy and autism].
Level 2: Vegan Gains.
Level 3: Rain Man Genova.

It's also helping me that politics are moving in my direction now.

I felt like the kid who said "The Emperor Has No Clothes" until Trump got elected.

Human beings are clannish people. Autistics are more concerned with facts. And only now is it becoming more obvious to normal people that I was never wrong about divershitty.

Only 6% of Canadians want more immigration. There were 50 bombings in Sweden in the first 90 days of this year.

Good thing I was wrong about predicting all this.

fixed
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 06:24:08 PM
Level 1: Matt C [just on the cusp of normalcy and autism].
Level 2: Vegan Gains.
Level 3: Jason Genova.
Level 4: Rain Man.

Fixed. ;D

It's a spectrum. :)
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: cephissus on July 03, 2019, 06:43:39 PM
Autistics are more concerned with facts.

Autists are mentally disabled. They believe themselves to be so concerned with facts when in fact they are blind to the numerous facts that fall outside their unnaturally narrow point of view. It seems to them that ordinary people are stupid or unconcerned with facts, yet nothing could be more ironic. ordinary people simply see a wider spectrum of facts. This plenitude of knowledge invariably contains a contradiction to the autist's train of thought, which they consequently stop following almost immediately. The autist happily goes on pursuing his line of reasoning into a morass of "logic" while believing that his dissenters are intellectually incapable of following him. In fact, they have merely stopped where any reasonable person should and are happy to leave him on his one-way journey into idiocy.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 06:48:03 PM
Autists are mentally disabled. They believe themselves to be so concerned with facts when in fact they are blind to the numerous facts that fall outside their unnaturally narrow point of view. It seems to them that ordinary people are stupid or unconcerned with facts, yet nothing could be more ironic. ordinary people simply see a wider spectrum of facts. This plenitude of knowledge invariably contains a contradiction to the autist's train of thought, which they consequently stop following almost immediately. The autist happily goes on pursuing his line of reasoning into a morass of "logic" while believing that his dissenters are intellectually incapable of following him. In fact, they have merely stopped where any reasonable person should and are happy to leave him on his one-way journey into idiocy.

I only deal with a few key issues:

- The gender wage gap is bullshit.
- Diversity isn't a "strength". It makes White-majority countries worse.
- Minimum wage doesn't help the poor.

And maybe like 3-5 other issues.

And I'm not wrong about any of those things.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: cephissus on July 03, 2019, 06:55:52 PM
I only deal with a few key issues:

- The gender wage gap is bullshit.
- Diversity isn't a "strength". It makes White-majority countries worse.
- Minimum wage doesn't help the poor.

And maybe like 3-5 other issues.

And I'm not wrong about any of those things.

No disagreement here, just spreading awareness.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 07:16:11 PM
No disagreement here, just spreading awareness.

I guess I look at it like OCD - it is a disorder, but can also be perceived as a performance enhancer to some.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 07:42:59 PM
I thought I was the only one, it's very cringe inducing. A most unsexy and vulgar way to refer to pussy. Maybe its a normal term in Canada?

It is a normal term here in my house in Thunder Bay, Canada.

Do most people perceive slit as I perceive gash?

Pussy may be the best term. I think vulva is ok too. Vagina only refers to the hole, and I think sounds weird.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Matt on July 03, 2019, 10:25:49 PM
How do you perceive gash, bad I assume?

slit
/slɪt/

noun
1.
a long, narrow cut or opening.
"make a slit in the stem under a bud"
synonyms:   cut, incision, split, slash, gash, laceration; More

verb
1.
make a long, narrow cut in.
"give me the truth or I will slit your throat"
synonyms:   cut, slash, split open, slice open, gash, lacerate, make an incision


Slit sound harsh and conjures up imagery of knives, murder and gaping wounds.


Good point. I would say slit and gash go 2, 1, as far as denoting I injury.

Maybe this position is in the minority.

I think I've also heard the term slit more often.
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: ratherbebig on July 04, 2019, 01:38:48 AM
id like to hear more about the "50 bombings" in sweden
are they at war?
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: illuminati on July 04, 2019, 01:55:01 AM
Age is a human construct.

At the risk of entering a mine field
You are correct it is.

It’s a very daunting subject if we removed Man made Time / Age
Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: ratherbebig on July 04, 2019, 01:56:44 AM
age is nothing but a number.

as alliyah named her album. she married r kelly at age 15.

Title: Re: This is some fucked up shit, right? I'm not imagining it?
Post by: Kwon on July 04, 2019, 04:18:36 AM
"He has shown no aggression here...hence, he cannot be touched!"