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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: FitnessFrenzy on September 26, 2020, 04:23:20 AM
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Tbombz:
I've had several girlfriends. Even had a wife. And those relationships were good, at least for a time. We had things in common. We enjoyed each other's company. We were attracted to each other. We would even laugh together at times. We were friendly. But to what degree were any of those women actually my friend?
I must admit, none of them started as a friend. And the entire time I was with them, they were always in the "girlfriend" or "wife" box, virtually entirely separate from the "friend" box. Did I ever really cultivate a true "friendship" with any of them? Sad to say, despite being deeply committed, attracted to, open and vulnerable with, those women, I don't think I really considered or treated them as friends - they were a joy, but they were also at times somewhat of a burden. I loved talking with them everyday, but sometimes it was "talking with the girlfriend/wife."
How often do we see this in relationships? The person expresses that, at least at times, spending time with, talking to, doing things with, their spouse, is something of a chore, an obligation, a burden. It's not that they don't love their husband/wife. It's not that they don't like them. But it's not their friend. Much less is it their bestfriend. It's their husband/girlfriend. It's a duty.
What if we made friendship the basis of marriage, rather than duty. What if your spouse was first and foremost your bestfriend, playmate, and life partner, and only secondarily your "husband/wife" whom you have obligations to? What if your wife wasn't just the person who means the most to you, whom you make the most meaningful memories with, but what if she was the person you always had the best time with? The person you go to when you want to laugh, play, have a good time, joke around with, etc? What if your wife wasn't "marriage, sex, babies, mealtimes, bedtimes, duty, obligation, long-term memories, etc," but also and first and foremost, "fun, laughter, bestfriend, companion, the right now, the free time, your closest confidant and lover"?
If you are reading this and you feel like maybe you've been viewing your spouse or significant other more through the lens of "joyful duty" rather than "bestfriend, playmate, and life partner", there's no reason you can't begin to emphasize the one while rightfully retaining the other.
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Dudes a whack-job. ???
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Not reading his long winded aids infested drivel but based on the title the worthless piece of shit should be eternally grateful for any woman that doesn't cross the street when they see one of the most repulsive pieces of garbage ever to walk the planet approaching them let alone gives the dirty aids ridden faggot the time ridden. Nauseating vile fucking cunt
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Not reading his long winded aids infested drivel but based on the title the worthless piece of shit should be eternally grateful for any woman that doesn't cross the street when they see one of the most repulsive pieces of garbage ever to walk the planet approaching them let alone gives the dirty aids ridden faggot the time ridden. Nauseating vile fucking cunt
Hahaha I came here to see your response ;D
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I read the post and I lean in the direction of not being "friends" with female romantic partners. Lots of women claim they want a guy who is vulnerable and open with them but women don't know what they want or can't articulate it. If you are vulnerable i.e. weak with women, speak about your personal problems all the time they will start to resent you because women want, first and foremost, to feel good.
A guy who is sensitive and vulnerable makes them feel bad. My brother told me a long time ago that we should strive to make women feel only positive emotions when they are with us (if we want to hook them) - I think he's right. :D
Talking about your problems should mostly be with close male friends or your therapist. Or maybe getbig :D
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I read the post and I lean in the direction of not being "friends" with female romantic partners. Lots of women claim they want a guy who is vulnerable and open with them but women don't know what they want or can't articulate it. If you are vulnerable i.e. weak with women, speak about your personal problems all the time they will start to resent you because women want, first and foremost, to feel good.
A guy who is sensitive and vulnerable makes them feel bad. My brother told me a long time ago that we should strive to make women feel only positive emotions when they are with us (if we want to hook them) - I think he's right. :D
Talking about your problems should mostly be with close male friends or your therapist. Or maybe getbig :D
I agree 100%
Women say they want a sensitive guy but as you just said, they Dont have a clue what they actually want.... One thing is certain, they don't want some loser that's always emotional and nagging them for attention. Coming onto a woman too heavy is the best way to scare one off.
Treat em mean.... Keep em keen.
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It's funny how tombz actually thinks he knows anything about anything.... He's a classic example of the worst kind of stupid...
He's Dumb but doesn't realise he's dumb, so dumb that he actually thinks he's smart. They're the worst.
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Nauseating vile fucking cunt
Prime trolls for caulk on "Ole T-Bombz", wants him in him lair/glory-hole. Vile perverts.
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Prime trolls for caulk on "Ole T-Bombz", wants him in him lair/glory-hole. Vile perverts.
Primemuscle follows tbombz on instagram
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FitnessFrenzy what is behind your weird obsession with TBombz?
I agree with Henda, the vile kunt should be stuffed in a woodchipper.
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FitnessFrenzy what is behind your weird obsession with TBombz?
I agree with Henda, the vile kunt should be stuffed in a woodchipper.
Don't know really. I thought he would die when he was on meth and he was a fugitive running from the cops across state lines. I don't like this current tbombz. Thinks he knows everything, yet he knows nothing.
I guess I just like to point that out, among other things.
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He's an interesting character for sure and elicits a lot of different feelings amongst getbiggers. Hope he starts posting more here.
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He's an interesting character for sure and elicits a lot of different feelings amongst getbiggers. Hope he starts posting more here.
I think some people misunderstand me. I am not obsessed with tbombz. But I often see a comment from him, or some video, that I think will be great entertainment or discussion topic on Getbig.
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I think some people misunderstand me. I am not obsessed with tbombz. But I often see a comment from him, or some video, that I think will be great entertainment or discussion topic on Getbig.
Absolutely.
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I think some people misunderstand me. I am not obsessed with tbombz. But I often see a comment from him, or some video, that I think will be great entertainment or discussion topic on Getbig.
So your masturbating while reading his posts is just a coincidence?
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So your masturbating while reading his posts is just a coincidence?
Exactly. It's on autopilot.
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So your masturbating while reading his posts is just a coincidence?
We all do.
It's on autopilot.
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We all do.
It's on autopilot.
Bro.....
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Women are not meant to be our friends, especially our wives/girlfriends. I can only imagine talking about philosophical and existential questions with a woman. ::)
Me: "Sweetie, what is the meaning of existence? What is my real nature or identity?"
Her: "I don't know, like, when can I go get my nails done?"
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Women are not meant to be our friends, especially our wives/girlfriends. I can only imagine talking about philosophical and existential questions with a woman. ::)
Me: "Sweetie, what is the meaning of existence? What is my real nature or identity?"
Her: "I don't know, like, when can I go get my nails done?"
Me: “After you finish polishing my balls with your mouth.”
Her: “ggggggggggmmmmmmmmmgsggaaaaaagagaaaammmmm.”
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He wasn't attacking his exes at all. Sounds more regretful that he feels he mismanaged the relationships.
Idk if being best friends is possible. I can see where he's coming from but seems to me it's also important to be ok with you and your girl liking different things and doing things separately. My gal is never going to like Doug Stanhope, or help me rebuild my Holbrook lathe, or contrast a Roman History podcast with the audio lecture series from TTC. Yes, it would be nice to learn a thing or two from her about Immanuel Kant over dinner but if I had to find a woman who digs everything I enjoy, and vice versa, I would wander the Earth, pecker-in-hand, until the end of time.
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He wasn't attacking his exes at all. Sounds more regretful that he feels he mismanaged the relationships.
Idk if being best friends is possible. I can see where he's coming from but seems to me it's also important to be ok with you and your girl liking different things and doing things separately. My gal is never going to like Doug Stanhope, or help me rebuild my Holbrook lathe, or contrast a Roman History podcast with the audio lecture series from TTC. Yes, it would be nice to learn a thing or two from her about Immanuel Kant over dinner but if I had to find a woman who digs everything I enjoy, and vice versa, I would wander the Earth, pecker-in-hand, until the end of time.
Maybe the problem here is that tbombz is more gay than straight, and that he could more likely be friends with male lovers?
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All the women ive been friends with got fucked the first chance i got. Thats how it is. If you have a girlfriend who retains male friends they are just waiting for their shot. Thats how it is.
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Who can say. Homo or hetero, lasting harmonious relationships seem to be the exception. He appears to be trying to troubleshoot, which is to be expected. If you meet the guy or [more often imo] the gal who didn't make a single mistake in the last relationship and everything was their ex's fault... oh boy, look out.
Interesting, however, that someone as sexual as Taylor would lean toward something as tepid as good friendship. Yeah, you gotta be good outside the bedroom too but I like it hot. I like sexual tendrils running through the relationship like mycelium through the earth. I don't think I'd be content with being good friends with my wife and sex is some distant or unimportant thing.
An old greyhaired couple telling me they're best friends is sweet. But I'm not there. I've got blood in my veins and someone is gonna get her brains fucked out.
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An old greyhaired couple telling me they're best friends is sweet. But I'm not there. I've got blood in my veins and someone is gonna get her brains fucked out.
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Hope he uses condoms.
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That is some fine work FF!
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Hope he uses condoms.
Lol look at this :D
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/09/25/world/asia/vietnam-recycled-condoms.html
Reminds me of the used "bathmate" Tbombz was selling :D
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I read the post and I lean in the direction of not being "friends" with female romantic partners. Lots of women claim they want a guy who is vulnerable and open with them but women don't know what they want or can't articulate it. If you are vulnerable i.e. weak with women, speak about your personal problems all the time they will start to resent you because women want, first and foremost, to feel good.
A guy who is sensitive and vulnerable makes them feel bad. My brother told me a long time ago that we should strive to make women feel only positive emotions when they are with us (if we want to hook them) - I think he's right. :D
Talking about your problems should mostly be with close male friends or your therapist. Or maybe getbig :D
There's some truth there to be sure but it really depends on the woman. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship that I couldn't be myself in, though. Warts and all.
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He's an interesting character for sure and elicits a lot of different feelings amongst getbiggers. Hope he starts posting more here.
Thanks Abraham
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Women are not meant to be our friends, especially our wives/girlfriends. I can only imagine talking about philosophical and existential questions with a woman. ::)
Me: "Sweetie, what is the meaning of existence? What is my real nature or identity?"
Her: "I don't know, like, when can I go get my nails done?"
A deep man needs a deep woman.
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He wasn't attacking his exes at all. Sounds more regretful that he feels he mismanaged the relationships.
Idk if being best friends is possible. I can see where he's coming from but seems to me it's also important to be ok with you and your girl liking different things and doing things separately. My gal is never going to like Doug Stanhope, or help me rebuild my Holbrook lathe, or contrast a Roman History podcast with the audio lecture series from TTC. Yes, it would be nice to learn a thing or two from her about Immanuel Kant over dinner but if I had to find a woman who digs everything I enjoy, and vice versa, I would wander the Earth, pecker-in-hand, until the end of time.
Who can say. Homo or hetero, lasting harmonious relationships seem to be the exception. He appears to be trying to troubleshoot, which is to be expected. If you meet the guy or [more often imo] the gal who didn't make a single mistake in the last relationship and everything was their ex's fault... oh boy, look out.
Interesting, however, that someone as sexual as Taylor would lean toward something as tepid as good friendship. Yeah, you gotta be good outside the bedroom too but I like it hot. I like sexual tendrils running through the relationship like mycelium through the earth. I don't think I'd be content with being good friends with my wife and sex is some distant or unimportant thing.
An old greyhaired couple telling me they're best friends is sweet. But I'm not there. I've got blood in my veins and someone is gonna get her brains fucked out.
Yeah, more regretful.
Of course we won't have everything in common with anybody. But hopefully we find someone we share most the important things with.
As far as friendship vs. sex..... Why not both? 😁
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I think some people misunderstand me. I am not obsessed with tbombz. But I often see a comment from him, or some video, that I think will be great entertainment or discussion topic on Getbig.
Here you go FF
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Here you go FF
Delusional retard.
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Delusional retard.
Hater.
;D
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Yeah, more regretful.
Of course we won't have everything in common with anybody. But hopefully we find someone we share most the important things with.
As far as friendship vs. sex..... Why not both? 😁
Not sure whether to bring this up but you know there's no election in 2025, right?
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Not sure whether to bring this up but you know there's no election in 2025, right?
you never know 😅
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I read the post and I lean in the direction of not being "friends" with female romantic partners. Lots of women claim they want a guy who is vulnerable and open with them but women don't know what they want or can't articulate it. If you are vulnerable i.e. weak with women, speak about your personal problems all the time they will start to resent you because women want, first and foremost, to feel good.
A guy who is sensitive and vulnerable makes them feel bad. My brother told me a long time ago that we should strive to make women feel only positive emotions when they are with us (if we want to hook them) - I think he's right. :D
Talking about your problems should mostly be with close male friends or your therapist. Or maybe getbig :D
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I read the post and I lean in the direction of not being "friends" with female romantic partners. Lots of women claim they want a guy who is vulnerable and open with them but women don't know what they want or can't articulate it. If you are vulnerable i.e. weak with women, speak about your personal problems all the time they will start to resent you because women want, first and foremost, to feel good.
A guy who is sensitive and vulnerable makes them feel bad. My brother told me a long time ago that we should strive to make women feel only positive emotions when they are with us (if we want to hook them) - I think he's right. :D
Talking about your problems should mostly be with close male friends or your therapist. Or maybe getbig :D
Van Bilderass is 100 % correct here
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Here you go FF
A bunny suit wearing homo who has AIDS, is mentally ill and tone deaf... ugh.
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Not reading his long winded aids infested drivel but based on the title the worthless piece of shit should be eternally grateful for any woman that doesn't cross the street when they see one of the most repulsive pieces of garbage ever to walk the planet approaching them let alone gives the dirty aids ridden faggot the time ridden. Nauseating vile fucking cunt
One of the most beautifully crafted, yet concise and well written post capturing the full ethos of this message board I have yet to see. Mazle toz!
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The POZ racing team: headed for nowhere fast!
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The POZ racing team: headed for nowhere fast!
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Heading for an unsuspecting anus!