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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Army of One on December 06, 2021, 09:06:50 AM
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from my encounters with women currently
they want you to have some level of success - at least to something that they can measure against themselves
being a hot guy is cool until you reach like 30-35 then it’s - “where’s your house?” “don’t you have a mortgage?” - if you don’t have kids you better have a career or business otherwise it’s stepdad city for your ass until you win the lottery
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In my experience the best looking people usually have the best personalities as well.
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Wimmens want to marry up the socio-economic ladder.
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Women want money. End of thread.
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The notion that women only want money is getting a little outdated.
These days women are a lot more career focused and independently wealthy.
What do they want when they reach a certain age? Kids.
And they don't want to have ugly kids. Hello good looking guys.
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The notion that women only want money is getting a little outdated.
These days women are a lot more career focused and independently wealthy.
What do they want when they reach a certain age? Kids.
And they don't want to have ugly kids. Hello good looking guys.
Wrong.
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Hello good looking guys.
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In my experience the best looking people usually have the best personalities as well.
That explains Vince and shizzo
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Become successful at whatever it is you do or like. Forget dating sites. Just get out often with friends to bars, restaurants, social activities etc. Live!
Dress well. Stay fit. And seriously stop giving a shit about things. It definitely shows on your face.
Happiness is an aphrodisiac. You will find that simply enjoying yourself and taking in the finer things in life attracts an entirely different crowd. I rate my looks as a solid 5 out of 10, lol. When I started concentrating on my business (I really had no options because I HAD to make it work), I found women becoming attracted to me and I did nothing different than when I was a college guy trying to find miss right and failing.
There is a definite attractiveness to serenity. I was so concerned that my business would fail in the early years that I only cared about it. When I went out it was to chill- I didn't give a rat's ass about meeting women. But surprisingly I started meeting a lot of them. It then became a matter of our personalities meshing.
I don't care about looks anymore. It's all about the interaction. The absolutely hottest woman I ever spent time with would be considered homely by the Getbig crowd. But man- she had the "it" factor. It just didn't workout for other reasons.
There are a lot of beautiful women who you will find you just don't want to be with.
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Wise words.^
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Become successful at whatever it is you do or like. Forget dating sites. Just get out often with friends to bars, restaurants, social activities etc. Live!
Dress well. Stay fit. And seriously stop giving a shit about things. It definitely shows on your face.
Happiness is an aphrodisiac. You will find that simply enjoying yourself and taking in the finer things in life attracts an entirely different crowd. I rate my looks as a solid 5 out of 10, lol. When I started concentrating on my business (I really had no options because I HAD to make it work), I found women becoming attracted to me and I did nothing different than when I was a college guy trying to find miss right and failing.
There is a definite attractiveness to serenity. I was so concerned that my business would fail in the early years that I only cared about it. When I went out it was to chill- I didn't give a rat's ass about meeting women. But surprisingly I started meeting a lot of them. It then became a matter of our personalities meshing.
I don't care about looks anymore. It's all about the interaction. The absolutely hottest woman I ever spent time with would be considered homely by the Getbig crowd. But man- she had the "it" factor. It just didn't workout for other reasons.
There are a lot of beautiful women who you will find you just don't want to be with.
Accurate except for the doing it "live" part.
Much faster, cheaper and easier to use dating sites. Trust me. ;D
Desperate men have a look/smell to them, that's why you see so many "men" posting these threads on here and other places. They have no game and are trying to justify why they haven't smashed a vaginal wall in 2-3 years.
Looks get you an introduction, that's the easy part.
The follow through is the key to successfully mating with dozens of good looking whores.
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Accurate except for the doing it "live" part.
Much faster, cheaper and easier to use dating sites. Trust me. ;D
Desperate men have a look/smell to them, that's why you see so many "men" posting these threads on here and other places. They have no game and are trying to justify why they haven't smashed a vaginal wall in 2-3 years.
Looks get you an introduction, that's the easy part.
The follow through is the key to successfully mating with dozens of good looking whores.
Why do we have thread after thread of these topic? Haha
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Typical beta responses in this thread: women don't care about looks just success/women are attracted to a man's confidence not his looks/dress nice and have a don't give a shit attitude...all inaccurate. When a beta male says women are looking for a successful man, he is self identifying as a beta throwing BetaBucks at women on exchange for "love". Yes, she will part him from his money. Yes she will give him the minimal sex required to keep his cash flowing. But she will also cheat and fuck good looking men while hubby is slaving away at his job. So obviously throwing money at women isn't going to work. Looks are everything.
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you dont lek WOman just MANman faggoshi hahaha. you are gay
Typical beta responses in this thread: women don't care about looks just success/women are attracted to a man's confidence not his looks/dress nice and have a don't give a shit attitude...all inaccurate. When a beta male says women are looking for a successful man, he is self identifying as a beta throwing BetaBucks at women on exchange for "love". Yes, she will part him from his money. Yes she will hive him the minimal sex required to keep his cash flowing. But she will also cheat and fuck good looking men while hubby is slaving away at his job. So obviously throwing money at women isn't going to work. Looks are everything.
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Typical beta responses in this thread: women don't care about looks just success/women are attracted to a man's confidence not his looks/dress nice and have a don't give a shit attitude...all inaccurate. When a beta male says women are looking for a successful man, he is self identifying as a beta throwing BetaBucks at women on exchange for "love". Yes, she will part him from his money. Yes she will give him the minimal sex required to keep his cash flowing. But she will also cheat and fuck good looking men while hubby is slaving away at his job. So obviously throwing money at women isn't going to work. Looks are everything.
I saw your pics, you are one ugly mother fucker
Those that do, do, those that can’t, teach. Guess which one is you?
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Happiness is an aphrodisiac. You will find that simply enjoying yourself and taking in the finer things in life attracts an entirely different crowd. I rate my looks as a solid 5 out of 10, lol. When I started concentrating on my business (I really had no options because I HAD to make it work), I found women becoming attracted to me and I did nothing different than when I was a college guy trying to find miss right and failing.
I agree with you. But college is not for finding miss right. It is for finding miss right now ;D
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I agree with you. But college is not for finding miss right. It is for finding miss right now ;D
haha- so true
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Typical beta responses in this thread: women don't care about looks just success/women are attracted to a man's confidence not his looks/dress nice and have a don't give a shit attitude...all inaccurate. When a beta male says women are looking for a successful man, he is self identifying as a beta throwing BetaBucks at women on exchange for "love". Yes, she will part him from his money. Yes she will give him the minimal sex required to keep his cash flowing. But she will also cheat and fuck good looking men while hubby is slaving away at his job. So obviously throwing money at women isn't going to work. Looks are everything.
Yeah, it's so beta to be successful and enjoy life, lol.
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these black pilled guys use all of their "studies" based on online dating apps, where the only thing relevant is what you see in pictures
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I saw your pics, you are one ugly mother fucker
Those that do, do, those that can’t, teach. Guess which one is you?
Those that can't teach...teach gym.
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I think this is a pretty fair representation of what modern women value in men. The last two categories are basically irrelevant but still ranked.
Status > Money > Looks > Height > Dick Size > Personality > Integrity
Men that don't score well are invisible. The best they can hope for is to be a pay pig for some instagram model. You can message chicks on tinder and maybe get a few matches but they are all fat.
Sorry.
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All these threads about "What women want" show the feminization of men in today's society. These type of conversations used to be reserved for women's Cosmopolitan magazine such as "How to get a good husband", "How to please your man in the bedroom", now men run around hoping to be chosen by the dominant sex of women. Complete role reversal.
You want a woman, go take her, Nasser el Sonbaty style. I'm not talking rape or physical violence, but don't give a fuck. Nasser literally believed women were not his equal, was not particularly good looking or rich, rarely said anything, physique too big and unappealing to most women yet ask anyone around the inner circle of the 90s party days who was getting MAD LAID in the 90s and it was NASSER. He was KNOWN for literally taking guys girlfriends right in front of them. SUCCESSFULLY.
Yes looks, personality, money, and all that shit counts but the big one is CONFIDENCE. Something that is rapidly disappearing in this female dominated society.
I bet my comments here would have been GH15 approved if it was Nasser. R.I.P.
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All these threads about "What women want" show the feminization of men in today's society. These type of conversations used to be reserved for women's Cosmopolitan magazine such as "How to get a good husband", "How to please your man in the bedroom", now men run around hoping to be chosen by the dominant sex of women. Complete role reversal.
You want a woman, go take her, Nasser el Sonbaty style. I'm not talking rape or physical violence, but don't give a fuck. Nasser literally believed women were not his equal, was not particularly good looking or rich, rarely said anything, physique too big and unappealing to most women yet ask anyone around the inner circle of the 90s party days who was getting MAD LAID in the 90s and it was NASSER. He was KNOWN for literally taking guys girlfriends right in front of them. SUCCESSFULLY.
Yes looks, personality, money, and all that shit counts but the big one is CONFIDENCE. Something that is rapidly disappearing in this female dominated society.
I bet my comments here would have been GH15 approved if it was Nasser. R.I.P.
"Confidence" means zilch. Looks are everything. Money is used by Betas to "buy love" and get cheated on. "Confidence" is a cope sold to incels/betas/creeps by snake oil salesmen.
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All these threads about "What women want" show the feminization of men in today's society. These type of conversations used to be reserved for women's Cosmopolitan magazine such as "How to get a good husband", "How to please your man in the bedroom", now men run around hoping to be chosen by the dominant sex of women. Complete role reversal.
You want a woman, go take her, Nasser el Sonbaty style. I'm not talking rape or physical violence, but don't give a fuck. Nasser literally believed women were not his equal, was not particularly good looking or rich, rarely said anything, physique too big and unappealing to most women yet ask anyone around the inner circle of the 90s party days who was getting MAD LAID in the 90s and it was NASSER. He was KNOWN for literally taking guys girlfriends right in front of them. SUCCESSFULLY.
Yes looks, personality, money, and all that shit counts but the big one is CONFIDENCE. Something that is rapidly disappearing in this female dominated society.
I bet my comments here would have been GH15 approved if it was Nasser. R.I.P.
Confidence, along with sense of humor, are two main things that women say they find attractive. Unfortunately, they are lying.
You could have the confidence of a young Burt Reynolds but if you are broke and ugly you are still completely invisible to most women.
Women aren't looking for a confident ugly man, they are looking for an indifferent handsome man. They substitute his apathy for confidence.
Women aren't looking for an ugly man with a great sense of humor, they are looking for a handsome man and they'll laugh at his jokes whether they are funny or not.
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Women are like shadows; when you chase them, they run from you; when you run from them, they chase you.
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Women are not hard to figure out, especially in today's world where everything women say and do is recorded and uploaded to the internet.
Let observable reality be your guide.
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Women are like shadows; when you chase them, they run from you; when you run from them, they chase you.
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Leave it up to a gay guy to explain how to get women, lol. You are right as right can be.
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Leave it up to a gay guy to explain how to get women, lol. You are right as right can be.
In my lifetime, I've met and befriended some incredibly good looking women. What they tell me echoes much of what you said in your own post.
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Confidence, along with sense of humor, are two main things that women say they find attractive. Unfortunately, they are lying.
You could have the confidence of a young Burt Reynolds but if you are broke and ugly you are still completely invisible to most women.
Women aren't looking for a confident ugly man, they are looking for an indifferent handsome man. They substitute his apathy for confidence.
Women aren't looking for an ugly man with a great sense of humor, they are looking for a handsome man and they'll laugh at his jokes whether they are funny or not.
A man is broke because he has no confidence. It's why women are more attracted to a guy who built his own business and is rich than a white trash lottery winner who is rich. Money is a symbol of confidence and power. Believe me, 100 million dollar white trash lottery winners are not dating top notch bitches. They pull strippers and trashy/hot sluts that milk them of their money until they're broke.
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A man is broke because he has no confidence. It's why women are more attracted to a guy who built his own business and is rich than a white trash lottery winner who is rich. Money is a symbol of confidence and power. Believe me, 100 million dollar white trash lottery winners are not dating top notch bitches. They pull strippers and trashy/hot sluts that milk them of their money until they're broke.
I'm confident that you don't have any idea what you are talking about.
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A man is broke because he has no confidence. It's why women are more attracted to a guy who built his own business and is rich than a white trash lottery winner who is rich. Money is a symbol of confidence and power. Believe me, 100 million dollar white trash lottery winners are not dating top notch bitches. They pull strippers and trashy/hot sluts that milk them of their money until they're broke.
Just a regurgitation of Beta theory: Confidence, building a company, etc...in reality, Looks Are Everything. A man who is a broke 9 will have more women then he knows what to do with. A rich 4 will be manipulated by Gold Diggers who cheat on him.
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I'm confident that you don't have any idea what you are talking about.
I've never had a problem getting women so I admit I am not as knowledgeable as you on all the things women DON'T like.
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I've never had a problem getting women so I admit I am not as knowledgeable as you on all the things women DON'T like.
You like men.
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You like men.
We've reached the max of your intellectual ability to have a funny back and forth so I'll just let you get the last word. "You like men".
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We've reached the max of your intellectual ability to have a funny back and forth so I'll just let you get the last word. "You like men".
I'm just breaking balls a little bit, no offense is intended.
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I'm just breaking balls a little bit, no offense is intended.
Me too. I know the good guys on the board and you're one of em. I've just noticed alot of these threads lately about guys wondering if they are good looking or charming enough for women to pick them and wondering how they get chosen by women when it's the men that should be choosing. Call that sexist, I don't care but the feminization of men has gotten to crisis levels.
I explained this in another thread years ago, God gave men unique traits to get laid. This is why there are no funny good looking guys. Ever hear Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt say something really funny(that wasn't written for them)? Fuck no, but God made fat dudes funny to balance shit out. We all were given pussy slaying skills, just recognize what they are, hone them and display them confidentially. If you're smart and ugly, make a shitload of money. Handsome and stupid? Get some abs, light little Primo/Oxandrolone cycle and fuck fitness whores at Golds. We all have some trait we can develop to have women.
But it all comes down to confidence.
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Me too. I know the good guys on the board and you're one of em. I've just noticed alot of these threads lately about guys wondering if they are good looking or charming enough for women to pick them and wondering how they get chosen by women when it's the men that should be choosing. Call that sexist, I don't care but the feminization of men has gotten to crisis levels.
I explained this in another thread years ago, God gave men unique traits to get laid. This is why there are no funny good looking guys. Ever hear Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt say something really funny(that wasn't written for them)? Fuck no, but God made fat dudes funny to balance shit out. We all were given pussy slaying skills, just recognize what they are, hone them and display them confidentially. If you're smart and ugly, make a shitload of money. Handsome and stupid? Get some abs, light little Primo/Oxandrolone cycle and fuck fitness whores at Golds. We all have some trait we can develop to have women.
But it all comes down to confidence.
Cheers! I don't think we agree 100% but I appreciate your noble attempt to encourage men and lead them to the promised land.
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Confidence, along with sense of humor, are two main things that women say they find attractive. Unfortunately, they are lying.
You could have the confidence of a young Burt Reynolds but if you are broke and ugly you are still completely invisible to most women.
Women aren't looking for a confident ugly man, they are looking for an indifferent handsome man. They substitute his apathy for confidence.
Women aren't looking for an ugly man with a great sense of humor, they are looking for a handsome man and they'll laugh at his jokes whether they are funny or not.
This post is full of truth. There's a thread on here about some flat ass girl who claims some "creepy old guy" was staring at her. I can assure you that if it was some aesthetic attractive guy staring at her that it would have been a different story all together.
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Women are like shadows; when you chase them, they run from you; when you run from them, they chase you.
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Amen!
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Women are like shadows; when you chase them, they run from you; when you run from them, they chase you.
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Very true.
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All talk about men becoming soft is true to an extend, empathy is not a trait you wanna have to score 95% of the woman out there.
Empathy makes you consider the other before you act, and even a fraction of hesitation is perceived by opposite sex.
It is not just confidence, it is lack of empathy, agreeableness and doubt most of the women look for.
High functioning narcissists and antisocial personalities make it big, so it is no wonder woman chasing lousy bastards.
Well I'm depressed because I'm not your typical psychopathic getbigger, antisocial personality traits really helps laying down with insecure chicks.
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Women are like shadows; when you chase them, they run from you; when you run from them, they chase you.
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"Confidence" means zilch. Looks are everything. Money is used by Betas to "buy love" and get cheated on. "Confidence" is a cope sold to incels/betas/creeps by snake oil salesmen.
Confidence and charisma can take you a long way. Look at this guy. Zero looks his entire life. Lots of success.
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Confidence and charisma can take you a long way. Look at this guy. Zero looks his entire life. Lots of success.
depressing
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When was the last time that an attractive woman touched you?
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Women are not hard to figure out, especially in today's world where everything women say and do is recorded and uploaded to the internet.
Let observable reality be your guide.
;D :D
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When was the last time that an attractive woman touched you?
You seem angry at the okcupid data, any reason for this?
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Confidence and charisma can take you a long way. Look at this guy. Zero looks his entire life. Lots of success.
Over 6 ft tall, full head of hair, muscular, rich and famous will get you plenty of girls.
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In my experience the best looking people usually have the best personalities as well.
thanks for the compliment. I appreciate it
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Confidence and charisma can take you a long way. Look at this guy. Zero looks his entire life. Lots of success.
Celebrities are outliers. Meaning they lie outside the statistics. So rather than post a picture of a celebrity, post someone who is a member of the other 99.9% of the population.
Something else you need to know: pro wrestling is fake. Sorry to inform you.
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sometimg you need to no you are gay! hahahaha!
Celebrities are outliers. Meaning they lie outside the statistics. So rather than post a picture of a celebrity, post someone who is a member of the other 99.9% of the population.
Something else you need to know: pro wrestling is fake. Sorry to inform you.
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sometimg you need to no you are gay! hahahaha!
Quoted for truth.
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Something else you need to know: pro wrestling is fake. Sorry to inform you.
If you don't like it, learn to love it ;D
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Women are like shadows; when you chase them, they run from you; when you run from them, they chase you.
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It really depends where the light is coming from.
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High status men, regardless of looks, probably cheat more than women of any type. And becoming a high status male is not particularly difficult in today’s society.
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High status men, regardless of looks, probably cheat more than women of any type. And becoming a high status male is not particularly difficult in today’s society.
They throw money at gold diggers and whores. Not exactly groundbreaking news.
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you ttrow yorself at men and only mena all day nothing moonkey foucking fagooooooosh.....looser
They throw money at gold diggers and whores. Not exactly groundbreaking news.
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Just lift bro
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Just lift bro
you can see his hunter eyes if he lost the glasses
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Just lift bro
The skinny guy who looks like he’s just woken will be surrounded by young women at a club.
The muscle up guy will be like the video of that other bodybuilder wandering around the pool, possibly approached by some milfs though.
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The skinny guy who looks like he’s just woken will be surrounded by young women at a club.
The muscle up guy will be like the video of that other bodybuilder wandering around the pool, possibly approached by some milfs though.
The muscle homo would be surrounded by men
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It really depends where the light is coming from.
Good philosophical answer.
Who's casting the light?
Her or you?
Let it be known.
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The skinny guy who looks like he’s just woken will be surrounded by young women at a club.
The muscle up guy will be like the video of that other bodybuilder wandering around the pool, possibly approached by some milfs though.
And once they get "too big" ie. 5'10" 220+ then the gay fellas will be after them and the slim sexy females will be gone. Sadik said in a youtube vid that prime pussy pulling for him was 175-180 at 5'11"
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Just lift bro
Pure mesomorph. ;D