All talk about men becoming soft is true to an extend, empathy is not a trait you wanna have to score 95% of the woman out there.
Empathy makes you consider the other before you act, and even a fraction of hesitation is perceived by opposite sex.
It is not just confidence, it is lack of empathy, agreeableness and doubt most of the women look for.
High functioning narcissists and antisocial personalities make it big, so it is no wonder woman chasing lousy bastards.
Well I'm depressed because I'm not your typical psychopathic getbigger, antisocial personality traits really helps laying down with insecure chicks.