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Once you reach a certain age they are all single mothers
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Dating single moms is usually for the guys with less options so they have to accept other men's children to get some of that poon. Still cuckoldry.
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Dating single moms is usually for the guys with less options so they have to accept other men's children to get some of that poon. Still cuckoldry.
Women over 30 are all single mothers. You think there are a bunch of 30- and 40-year-old women out there without kids? If you want to date women your age and you are not 25 you are going to be dating single moms. A woman with kids isn't worth less I actually enjoy seeing my girlfriends kids they are really nice to me and they help watch and play with my son its a bonus. Only real assholes don't like kids.
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Thing is at most of our age finding a woman without kids is hard although a lot started early and kids are grown up or at least teenagers and mostly look after self.
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Advices to wimmen: Do not get pregnant out of wedlock. Use birth control.
Not a guarantee but at least there's a shot of success.
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Single moms are the worst.
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Single moms are the worst.
Being a single mom is tough.
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Advices to wimmen: Do not get pregnant out of wedlock. Use birth control.
Not a guarantee but at least there's a shot of success.
Yup.
I also believe there should be a good reason she is single mother that a man must know before starting anything.
Valid reasons for single motherhood:
1) Husband passed away.
2) Husband was negligent, abusive, criminal, unfaithful, withheld sex—anything along the lines of being a lousy father and husband.
Reasons to stay away from single moms: all other reasons. However many men will overlook many single mommies’ lack of agency and “go out with” and “date” them and be a “boyfriend” anyway.
Never underestimate how low men will go to get female validation.
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Once you reach a certain age they are all single mothers
in North Carolina
I was out in Vegas last year right when it opened back up - single females in their 30s and 40s everywhere, no kids but maybe a drug problem or some other baggage
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These two are virgins
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Yup.
I also believe there should be a good reason she is single mother that a man must know before starting anything.
Valid reasons for single motherhood:
1) Husband passed away.
2) Husband was negligent, abusive, criminal, unfaithful, withheld sex—anything along the lines of being a lousy father and husband.
Reasons to stay away from single moms: all other reasons. However many men will overlook many single mommies’ lack of agency and “go out with” and “date” them and be a “boyfriend” anyway.
Never underestimate how low men will go to get female validation.
2) just shows shitty judgment on a womans part. Maybe it's a valid reason for being a single mum, but you should still stay away from this kinda woman, unless it's just sex.
If you don't mind dating single mothers then a woman who was in a long term relationship (10 year plus) where the kids father is still actively involved in their lives wouldn't necessarily be a red light. People grow up and change, so separating for that reason isn't necessarily bad. If she doesn't constantly bitch about her ex then go ahead and date her.
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I’d fuck but would never date a single mom. Raising someone else’s, FTN!
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So this is literally all my other half has to offer. Single moms, women's hair texture, skin color, Will's a simp, players, alpha with no land (not talking about Guzman and alphaland) while not having a pot to piss in as my mom would say. ::)
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Andrew Tate is a low!ife dirtbag.
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Women over 30 are all single mothers. You think there are a bunch of 30- and 40-year-old women out there without kids? If you want to date women your age and you are not 25 you are going to be dating single moms. A woman with kids isn't worth less I actually enjoy seeing my girlfriends kids they are really nice to me and they help watch and play with my son its a bonus. Only real assholes don't like kids.
some people just dont like them because they are annoying and 99% of kids these days are badly behaved to the point where adults cant have a conversation while they are there
I avoid places with children at all costs, I go to child free hotels on holiday
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Being adopted, I had no problem dating "single" mothers. Of course this was about 5 decades ago so the pool wasn't filled with Baby Ruths...
There is a tremendous difference between being used by someone and being of use. But again, today is a whole lot different as it is filled with Instahoze and the like. If all you're looking for is to get laid, put on your sock puppet and have it wrestle the fearsome boa. In this way you can avoid the headaches and BS and just, as some here say, bust your nut.
Pass.
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Being adopted, I had no problem dating "single" mothers. Of course this was about 5 decades ago so the pool wasn't filled with Baby Ruths...
There is a tremendous difference between being used by someone and being of use. But again, today is a whole lot different as it is filled with Instahoze and the like. If all you're looking for is to get laid, put on your sock puppet and have it wrestle the fearsome boa. In this way you can avoid the headaches and BS and just, as some here say, bust your nut.
Pass.
Decent advice. Although I think close relations with women should be limited to marriage (which is now very risky thanks to brutal, gynocentric courts and “no-fault divorce) and child raising, I think if a man is compelled to have sex outside of that framework, he is best off going to a legal escort or finding a woman to have sex with; and what I mean by the latter is only sex—no emotional investment, no “dates”, no “hanging out”, no getaways, no gifts, etc.
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2) just shows shitty judgment on a womans part. Maybe it's a valid reason for being a single mum, but you should still stay away from this kinda woman, unless it's just sex.
If you don't mind dating single mothers then a woman who was in a long term relationship (10 year plus) where the kids father is still actively involved in their lives wouldn't necessarily be a red light. People grow up and change, so separating for that reason isn't necessarily bad. If she doesn't constantly bitch about her ex then go ahead and date her.
In many cases it is from poor judgment. Hence there should be parental oversight in who women chose to screw and marry. To think that most women aged eighteen to 25 years old can vet men is ridiculous. By default, generally speaking, young women, especially pretty ones and those raised in matriarchal homes with no paternal guidance, are attracted to scumbags. I say this being a man with a daughter.
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in North Carolina
I was out in Vegas last year right when it opened back up - single females in their 30s and 40s everywhere, no kids but maybe a drug problem or some other baggage
Drug problem may be preferable to kids.
To answer the question re:dating single moms...would bang but not date. Agree with deadz
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Once you reach a certain age they are all single mothers
pretty much, either that or they are too crazy to deal with. Casual dating moms is pretty good, you see them when their kids are w the dad or a babysitter and its no big deal. Never got to the point where i met the kids but i've known less scrupulous men that liked to get in good with the kids and have a good relationship with them .. once the kids start asking "mommy when is dave coming back" you can pretty much get away w anything w the mom
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Bhanks is spot on. After 35 it’s hard to find a woman who is single and not a mom. Saying in Vegas there was a lot. Well yeah. They all were lying. Most were probably still married and lied.
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You guys are not thinking about this correctly. Single Moms know how to cook, clean, and do laundry for others
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pretty much, either that or they are too crazy to deal with. Casual dating moms is pretty good, you see them when their kids are w the dad or a babysitter and its no big deal. Never got to the point where i met the kids but i've known less scrupulous men that liked to get in good with the kids and have a good relationship with them .. once the kids start asking "mommy when is dave coming back" you can pretty much get away w anything w the mom
Except my name isn't "Dave"!
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You guys are not thinking about this correctly. Single Moms know how to cook, clean, and do laundry for others
That is true of most men that were raised decades ago, you know. But yes, I understand what you are saying. If I were dating today I would not be looking for someone to do those things for me and that in spite of my handicap.
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Once you reach a certain age they are all single mothers
Not true in more urban areas dude. And you don't have to date older women if you're financially successful and in shape women in their 20s don't care if you're in your 40s.
I've tried the single mom thing. It is fun for a few months but then you start wondering about all those other headaches that will end up popping up. Sure, the kids when they are young 3 or 5 or whatever are all cute. But once they get older and the "you aren't my real dad" BS starts it will mess with you. And if you try to make a family with this girl then your own kid might feed off of that bad energy from the step kid. If you have the option a girl with no kids of her own is the much better choice.
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Depends on a lot of things.
Once i hit 40 it was more and more difficult to date women without children.
By the time a girl hits 30 it's highly likely she's had a kid and been married.
I've dated a few girls much younger than me but they are very annoying and have no sense of life.
Two years ago i dated a girl who was 29 and i was 42, it was a nightmare. But hey she didn't have any kids.
Also depends on how old the kid is. I dated a girl for a year that had a 14 year old daughter. The father was a nice guy and took care of her on the weekends. So i didn't have to deal with any sort of "daddy" roles. The kid was cool too and liked me, so there was only mild drama.
This situation is not the norm, most kids these days are batshit crazy.
Single moms are typically easy to have sex with because they have less options. Once you set some basic rules about the kid(s) it can work in your favor. Just be honest and tell them you don't want to play daddy. Intentionally set up situations where the kids can't be involved. This only works short term, obviously long term they are going to want you be in involved more with kids.
Some of these woman are looking for a father figure, but not all of them. Find the ones who are interested in a relationship with you and never talk about the kid situation. It will come up sooner or later, but at least try to build a relationship without it at first. Kids can absolutely ruin a relationship in a short amount of time.
My current GF is 7 years younger than me with no kids. She has her own issues with her attitude (Mexicana), but overall she's a very steady person. She was married for 3 years and got divorced in her early 20's. I got lucky when i found her.
My biggest problem is i do not want kids, so i've had to be very particular about how i go about dating. I also don't want to get married. But i've found that as i get older more women respect that. Plus i have what they want; good personality, stability and money. So i get to play the #1 role in the relationship instead of putting them on the pedestal. Once you realize that you are the "catch" it makes a relationship easier. Never put them before you.
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Not true in more urban areas dude. And you don't have to date older women if you're financially successful and in shape women in their 20s don't care if you're in your 40s.
I've tried the single mom thing. It is fun for a few months but then you start wondering about all those other headaches that will end up popping up. Sure, the kids when they are young 3 or 5 or whatever are all cute. But once they get older and the "you aren't my real dad" BS starts it will mess with you. And if you try to make a family with this girl then your own kid might feed off of that bad energy from the step kid. If you have the option a girl with no kids of her own is the much better choice.
WTF do you think you are going to talk to a child in her 20s about when you are in your 40s? When you get older people 20 years younger are annoying and naive and unsophisticated as hell
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WTF do you think you are going to talk to a child in her 20s about when you are in your 40s? When you get older people 20 years younger are annoying and naive and unsophisticated as hell
Well said, SchmOedin. Well said, indeed. No...Really. Besides, I've been wanting to call you "SchmOedin" for awhile now. ;D
"SchmOedin The Allblather."
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Being a single mom is tough.
how so? the govt helps out and there clearly aren't a lack of men willing to pay for her kids
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Been there, done that, and when telling a kid right from wrong I often heard "shut up you`re not my dad".....no kid I`m just the guy dumping hot loads of jizz in your mommys mouth on a daily basis. :D
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Been there, done that, and when telling a kid right from wrong I often heard "shut up you`re not my dad".....no kid I`m just the guy dumping hot loads of jizz in your mommys mouth on a daily basis. :D
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Well said, SchmOedin. Well said, indeed. No...Really. Besides, I've been wanting to call you "SchmOedin" for awhile now. ;D
"SchmOedin The Allblather."
The Shakespeare of Getbig.
Amazing brother Scott.
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WTF do you think you are going to talk to a child in her 20s about when you are in your 40s? When you get older people 20 years younger are annoying and naive and unsophisticated as hell
Well most of them are annoying and naive and unsophisticated as hell, not just the ones in their 20s. ;D
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Advices to wimmen: Do not get pregnant out of wedlock. Use birth control.
Not a guarantee but at least there's a shot of success.
The shot of success is what you're trying to avoid
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Well said, SchmOedin. Well said, indeed. No...Really. Besides, I've been wanting to call you "SchmOedin" for awhile now. ;D
"SchmOedin The Allblather."
If he's SchmOedin, then he needs two ravens. Odin's were named Huginn (thoght) and Muninn (memory), his can be Huge-ing and Moon-ing.
Uh oh, I said mooning and realized that was the one pose Hanks hasn't posted a shot of: the moon pose, i.e. Tom Platz.
j/k Hanks, just funnin
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Bhanks is spot on. After 35 it’s hard to find a woman who is single and not a mom.
Agreed^^^
This is the sole reason I typically date much younger women (I'm 38), as I refuse to raise another mans seed/problem.
I live in a small rural community, and the majority of women have kids much younger than the national average I would think. Finding a good looking girl over 30 without kids is like finding a needle in a haystack! I literally know only ONE of them, and all the guys in town wonder what's wrong with her, for her to have never been married or knocked up! LOL!
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Any woman over 30 without kids is going to have baby rabies. Dating single mothers is fine as long as you don't move in with them and certainly not get married. Just date until they start putting pressure on you to spend time with their kids or move in and then you bounce. The sex will be the best you will ever have because they want to convince you to take care of them and their kids. You must stay strong and not give in.
Marrying a single mom is a disaster. I dated a woman who had a kid out of wedlock and then married another guy who adopted her kid. They then had a kid together and years later when they divorced he had to pay child support on both kids! Then I dated her for a few months until she started hinting about moving in. Bye, bye, baby. ;D
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WTF do you think you are going to talk to a child in her 20s about when you are in your 40s? When you get older people 20 years younger are annoying and naive and unsophisticated as hell
I wouldn't exactly call a 29 yr old a child 🙄
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Its 100% responsibility with 0% authority.
Also one thing which people don't want to talk about is step fathers and step daughters. You have a young hot thing running around that isn't your blood. It happens alot.
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I wouldn't exactly call a 29 yr old a child 🙄
You would if you were 49
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You would if you were 49
there are some childish 49 year old men, you will realise that in a few years.
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there are some childish 49 year old men, you will realise that in a few years.
True but I have found I prefer to date women my age they have the same perspective on life. There isn't some kind of power differential with one of us having more or less income assets or experience in life. When you date someone your age you have the same energy and interest the same cultural references. I see guys dating younger woman and it's pathetic. I think they couldn't get a decent woman their age and therefore want a younger person they can intellectually or financially bully and control. Standing next to a woman half your age doesn't make you look cool or hip it makes you look old and lame that is not a partner that is an object you don't understand what women are for if you are a grown 40 some year old man and you want a 25 year old girl. My girl is almost my age and a lawyer she is mad smart she is actually interesting to conversate with and competent to help with things you are not going to get that out of someone 20 years younger than you. Discriminating against women for having kids is just hating women and children who can enrich your life and your loss not theirs.
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Its 100% responsibility with 0% authority.
Also one thing which people don't want to talk about is step fathers and step daughters. You have a young hot thing running around that isn't your blood. It happens alot.
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Go on ...
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Its 100% responsibility with 0% authority.
Also one thing which people don't want to talk about is step fathers and step daughters. You have a young hot thing running around that isn't your blood. It happens alot.
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Go on ...
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I also sense personal experience in his offhand post
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I also sense personal experience in his offhand post
Not with me. I wouldnt go near a single mom. But I've seen it happen. And I bet it go's on more then anyone would admit.
I just think guys who date a single mom with a daughter are creepy as fuck.
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Not with me. I wouldnt go near a single mom. But I've seen it happen. And I bet it go's on more then anyone would admit.
I just think guys who date a single mom with a daughter are creepy as fuck.
So single women with daughters shouldn't date? If you meet a nice woman and everything is going great then she tells you she has a daughter you are dipping out?
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Being a single mom is tough.
When did you start your transition?
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So single women with daughters shouldn't date? If you meet a nice woman and everything is going great then she tells you she has a daughter you are dipping out?
Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.
I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.
Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.
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So single women with daughters shouldn't date? If you meet a nice woman and everything is going great then she tells you she has a daughter you are dipping out?
Depends how old and how hot the daughter is. No pedo
Imagine the GF has a hot 18 yearold daughter sauntering around the place in hotpants and a crop top. Nothing wrong with enjoying the show and later banging the shit out of the mother whilst thinking of the daughter. Ideally the daughters bedroom is within earshot so she can hear how you're making her mum moan.
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Depends how old and how hot the daughter is. No pedo
Imagine the GF has a hot 18 yearold daughter sauntering around the place in hotpants and a crop top. Nothing wrong with enjoying the show and later banging the shit out of the mother whilst thinking of the daughter. Ideally the daughters bedroom is within earshot so she can hear how you're making her mum moan.
I think you have seen too many porn videos ;D
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Its 100% responsibility with 0% authority.
Also one thing which people don't want to talk about is step fathers and step daughters. You have a young hot thing running around that isn't your blood. It happens alot.
I think you’ve been watching too much porn
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Depends how old and how hot the daughter is. No pedo
Imagine the GF has a hot 18 yearold daughter sauntering around the place in hotpants and a crop top. Nothing wrong with enjoying the show and later banging the shit out of the mother whilst thinking of the daughter. Ideally the daughters bedroom is within earshot so she can hear how you're making her mum moan.
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At most of our ages, 40-45+ the single mom is likely to have kids over 18. If one was a daughter, why would you not try to fuck the younger model?
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At most of our ages, 40-45+ the single mom is likely to have kids over 18. If one was a daughter, why would you not try to fuck the younger model?
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I think you have seen too many porn videos ;D
;D ;D
Lots of getbiggers telling on themselves
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At most of our ages, 40-45+ the single mom is likely to have kids over 18. If one was a daughter, why would you not try to fuck the younger model?
Common Decency?
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I think you have seen too many porn videos ;D
That's not possible
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Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.
I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.
Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.
Why are you assuming that the woman had a child as a mistake? I know a few woman who used the man as nothing more than a donor. Some woman feel like their biological clock is about to expire and they have a kid or two with a guy that they have no intention of spending the rest of their life with. I know some successful woman who don’t even ask my dad for a single penny because they don’t want him anywhere in their lives
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Why are you assuming that the woman had a child as a mistake? I know a few woman who used the man as nothing more than a donor. Some woman feel like their biological clock is about to expire and they have a kid or two with a guy that they have no intention of spending the rest of their life with. I know some successful woman who don’t even ask my dad for a single penny because they don’t want him anywhere in their lives
he sounds like a deadbeat... ;D
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Depends how old and how hot the daughter is. No pedo
Imagine the GF has a hot 18 yearold daughter sauntering around the place in hotpants and a crop top. Nothing wrong with enjoying the show and later banging the shit out of the mother whilst thinking of the daughter. Ideally the daughters bedroom is within earshot so she can hear how you're making her mum moan.
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Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.
I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.
Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.
Maybe the father succumbed to an illness or was involved in an accident.
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Being a single mother means a lifetime of financial penury for the vast majority of women who do it. In short, the life sucks. Allowing yourself to get knocked up as a means to get a guy to marry you has a horrible track record of failure. There is at least a 40 year history of this not working for the vast majority of women who have tried it. Why any woman would actually want to be a single mother is completely incomprehensible to me.
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Being a single mother means a lifetime of financial penury for the vast majority of women who do it. In short, the life sucks. Allowing yourself to get knocked up as a means to get a guy to marry you has a horrible track record of failure. There is at least a 40 year history of this not working for the vast majority of women who have tried it. Why any woman would actually want to be a single mother is completely incomprehensible to me.
Probably because the Dad turned out to be an asshole like yourself
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Once you reach a certain age they are all single mothers
Brutal and true.
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Why are you assuming that the woman had a child as a mistake? I know a few woman who used the man as nothing more than a donor. Some woman feel like their biological clock is about to expire and they have a kid or two with a guy that they have no intention of spending the rest of their life with. I know some successful woman who don’t even ask my dad for a single penny because they don’t want him anywhere in their lives
This example is part of a bigger issue.
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there are some childish 49 year old men, you will realise that in a few years.
44+5=49.
Sounds like Bhanky.
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True but I have found I prefer to date women my age they have the same perspective on life. There isn't some kind of power differential with one of us having more or less income assets or experience in life. When you date someone your age you have the same energy and interest the same cultural references. I see guys dating younger woman and it's pathetic. I think they couldn't get a decent woman their age and therefore want a younger person they can intellectually or financially bully and control. Standing next to a woman half your age doesn't make you look cool or hip it makes you look old and lame that is not a partner that is an object you don't understand what women are for if you are a grown 40 some year old man and you want a 25 year old girl. My girl is almost my age and a lawyer she is mad smart she is actually interesting to conversate with and competent to help with things you are not going to get that out of someone 20 years younger than you. Discriminating against women for having kids is just hating women and children who can enrich your life and your loss not theirs.
Good post, Bhanky.
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When did you start your transition?
Brutal, Shizz.
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Being a single mother means a lifetime of financial penury for the vast majority of women who do it. In short, the life sucks. Allowing yourself to get knocked up as a means to get a guy to marry you has a horrible track record of failure. There is at least a 40 year history of this not working for the vast majority of women who have tried it. Why any woman would actually want to be a single mother is completely incomprehensible to me.
And women who have 5 kids from 5 different men are particularly stupid.
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It's unlikely I'd benefit a kid. I once saw a young boy throwing a tantrum and the adults around him were reacting to it. My instinct was to ask "Are you experiencing an emotion?" Then discuss the nature and validity of subjective experience.
People generally find themselves emotionally invalidated around me. It's probably not developmentally healthy for a young person to be asked to adopt an observer's perspective and alienate themselves from their feelings.
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True but I have found I prefer to date women my age they have the same perspective on life. There isn't some kind of power differential with one of us having more or less income assets or experience in life. When you date someone your age you have the same energy and interest the same cultural references. I see guys dating younger woman and it's pathetic. I think they couldn't get a decent woman their age and therefore want a younger person they can intellectually or financially bully and control. Standing next to a woman half your age doesn't make you look cool or hip it makes you look old and lame that is not a partner that is an object you don't understand what women are for if you are a grown 40 some year old man and you want a 25 year old girl. My girl is almost my age and a lawyer she is mad smart she is actually interesting to conversate with and competent to help with things you are not going to get that out of someone 20 years younger than you. Discriminating against women for having kids is just hating women and children who can enrich your life and your loss not theirs.
It isn't pathetic at all. You don't have to have someone who matches you or equals your wealth or IQ. You can have someone who complements you and makes your life more fun. If I'm with a 20 something it isn't for intellectual stimulation or high brow conversation. I have getbig for that ;D
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44+5=49.
Sounds like Bhanky.
It was lost on hanky.
Im glad someone picked up on it
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It's unlikely I'd benefit a kid. I once saw a young boy throwing a tantrum and the adults around him were reacting to it. My instinct was to ask "Are you experiencing an emotion?" Then discuss the nature and validity of subjective experience.
People generally find themselves emotionally invalidated around me. It's probably not developmentally healthy for a young person to be asked to adopt an observer's perspective and alienate themselves from their feelings.
Sounds logical, my fellow Vulcan
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I think you’ve been watching too much porn
the porn girls on the howard stern show often said their step dad molested them
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Sounds logical, my fellow Vulcan
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I once advised a furious woman to try a little stoicism. Not only was my counsel discounted, she was disposed to manifest its very opposite. Peculiar creatures.
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the porn girls on the howard stern show often said their step dad molested them
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I once advised a furious woman to try a little stoicism.
I love stoicism. Angry and stubborn people are their own worst enemy.
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It isn't pathetic at all. You don't have to have someone who matches you or equals your wealth or IQ. You can have someone who complements you and makes your life more fun. If I'm with a 20 something it isn't for intellectual stimulation or high brow conversation. I have getbig for that ;D
Have you ever hung out with an actual 20 something? How old are you? Again your naive view is why so many men are unhappy they think it is all about looks and want the prettiest youngest girl they can get so they will be judged successful by others who also don't get it. It takes a long time for some men to learn some never do. Find a woman who is actually into you who you are actually into not just the prettiest youngest girl willing to go out with you.
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Have you ever hung out with an actual 20 something? How old are you? Again your naive view is why so many men are unhappy they think it is all about looks and want the prettiest youngest girl they can get so they will be judged successful by others who also don't get it. It takes a long time for some men to learn some never do. Find a woman who is actually into you who you are actually into not just the prettiest youngest girl willing to go out with you.
I don't think so many men are unhappy. And if they are I think it is because they settled for less than what they wanted and stuck around too long with the wrong person.
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Dating a single mother brings problems that i do not need into my life.
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Have you ever hung out with an actual 20 something? How old are you? Again your naive view is why so many men are unhappy they think it is all about looks and want the prettiest youngest girl they can get so they will be judged successful by others who also don't get it. It takes a long time for some men to learn some never do. Find a woman who is actually into you who you are actually into not just the prettiest youngest girl willing to go out with you.
Bhanks what do you think makes a successful relationship?
What happened with you and your sons mother, you were obviously older when he was born, why didnt your wisdom apply to that relationship?
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Everyone talks about equality.....
What about single fathers?
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Everyone talks about equality.....
What about single fathers?
If you want to date them or suck them off, then more power to you.
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Bhanks what do you think makes a successful relationship?
What happened with you and your sons mother, you were obviously older when he was born, why didnt your wisdom apply to that relationship?
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Josh says let you know it’s gazoos birthday today mate, says he misses you on face book
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Bhanky,
Were you legally married to your son's mother?
Is his last name "Bhanky"?
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If you want to date them or suck them off, then more power to you.
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Nasser El Bhanky.
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the porn girls on the howard stern show often said their step dad molested them
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what is this supposed to prove, aside from your poor understanding of statistics
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what is this supposed to prove, aside from your poor understanding of statistics
poor understanding of what statistics? where are these statistics you speak of?
why are you under the impression that step fathers hurting their step daughters only happens in porn? i think it happens a lot more than you want to think hence most kids hating their step fathers
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Everyone talks about equality.....
What about single fathers?
they often have the same problems as single mothers but society doesn't care about men
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Dating a single mother brings problems that i do not need into my life.
You can pull it off if you don't ever move in with them.
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they often have the same problems as single mothers but society doesn't care about men
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Funny you mention this, as a co worker of mine is going through this as we speak! He just split up with his old lady about 2 months ago, after being together basically his entire adult life. They began dating at 19 and he's currently 36. They had a kid together when he was 20, which is probably what kept them together, and they JUST had a baby last summer, which he is definitely regretting at the moment! Since he has his kids on his days off and has to raise a baby all on his own, he has very little if any time to meet new women. He also said that most women don't want anything to do with him, because of his kids.
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Funny you mention this, as a co worker of mine is going through this as we speak! He just split up with his old lady about 2 months ago, after being together basically his entire adult life. They began dating at 19 and he's currently 36. They had a kid together when he was 20, which is probably what kept them together, and they JUST had a baby last summer, which he is definitely regretting at the moment! Since he has his kids on his days off and has to raise a baby all on his own, he has very little if any time to meet new women. He also said that most women don't want anything to do with him, because of his kids.
He has to raise his kids and after only less than year of having his last kid, he MUST meet another woman immediately, but can’t.
Poor dear.
The thirst and simping is becoming more brutal each passing year. Men are acting like if they don’t get a pat on the head from some surrogate mommy for a day they’re gonna die!
Then we wonder why we are living in a gynecocracy. “Yo bro! You suffering from X malady? You sad, suicidal, broke? Easy to solve bro: go find a woman!”
I thought you were going to mention serious issues like who is gonna care for the kids if he has work or financial worries, such as getting taken to the cleaners by courts!
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Funny you mention this, as a co worker of mine is going through this as we speak! He just split up with his old lady about 2 months ago, after being together basically his entire adult life. They began dating at 19 and he's currently 36. They had a kid together when he was 20, which is probably what kept them together, and they JUST had a baby last summer, which he is definitely regretting at the moment! Since he has his kids on his days off and has to raise a baby all on his own, he has very little if any time to meet new women. He also said that most women don't want anything to do with him, because of his kids.
He should consider himself lucky that no woman wants anything to do with him.
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My girlfriend has 3 daughters. I have a son. We all get along great. Her youngest daughter and my son are inseparable. Her kids are really nice to me and my son. We are all going to see Batman together this week. You guys are missing out on a lot of good women. Children enhance your life they are not the end.
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My girlfriend has 3 daughters. I have a son. We all get along great. Her youngest daughter and my son are inseparable. Her kids are really nice to me and my son. We are all going to see Batman together this week. You guys are missing out on a lot of good women. Children enhance your life they are not the end.
couldn't care less about other people's children
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couldn't care less about other people's children
My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.
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My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.
Your son could be friends with any other kid out there
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Your son could be friends with any other kid out there
They are like brother and sister anyway just saying women with kids are still good women. You guys don't know what you are missing. Lots of women without kids are batshit crazy sure some kids are horrible if they have batshit crazy moms. But if you find a cool woman she is going to have cool kids. Also I am a single dad should women reject me for that everyone has kids it's normal.
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I once advised a furious woman to try a little stoicism. Not only was my counsel discounted, she was disposed to manifest its very opposite. Peculiar creatures.
/insert ironic LOL
Just finished MA's 'Meditations' (took me a while - a bit stodgy) so I'm hearing you, my fellow Vulcan
Something funny happened to me over the years - I've never been a big fan of any kind of 'talking therapy' but that part of CBT that says we can learn to choose/control our responses has always chimed with me, and I've found it really powerful - especially when people are actively trying to provoke a response. And ironically, whenever I've reminded the people who told me about this stuff in the first place that they can use it, they seem to prefer to pretend that somehow they are special and it doesn't apply to them or is too difficult to deploy...
Then again, I recently scored 36/40 in an Adult Autism test, so maybe there's a clue there... ;D
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Confess I never read it at all, not even after Hannibal Lecter told Clarissse to, but I'm suspecting you did it in Latin and are just too modest to say so. I seem to remember you saying something about Caesar's. Either way, well done, bro. Wish I could give you a better discussion.
I wouldn't put much stock in those tools of the trick cyclist trade. Unless you're prone to bouts of rapid rocking and making gork noises like Matt, I wouldnt waste another minute on it. Besides, as the ill-fated Dr. Chilton observed: "Lecter is far too sophisticated for the usual tests."
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They are like brother and sister anyway just saying women with kids are still good women. You guys don't know what you are missing. Lots of women without kids are batshit crazy sure some kids are horrible if they have batshit crazy moms. But if you find a cool woman she is going to have cool kids. Also I am a single dad should women reject me for that everyone has kids it's normal.
Do you have any close guy friends and family members?
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First single mom I jumped in bed with had a 3 yo kid and told me "Um, I still have a little bit of a mummy tummy."
Then she showed me the evidence. I gave her a Silver Star for extraordinary valor. I'd never met anyone who jumped on a grenade and lived to fuck another day.
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Do you have any close guy friends and family members?
Are you 12?
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I managed a decent performance but, I gotta confess, my heart wasn't in it. I knew how Steven Tyler felt. Tour long enough and all the young hotties get replaced by fuckpigs.
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My girlfriend has 3 daughters. I have a son. We all get along great. Her youngest daughter and my son are inseparable. Her kids are really nice to me and my son. We are all going to see Batman together this week. You guys are missing out on a lot of good women. Children enhance your life they are not the end.
What? Since when?
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My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with beat on. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.
:o
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Bhanks what do you think makes a successful relationship?
What happened with you and your sons mother, you were obviously older when he was born, why didnt your wisdom apply to that relationship?
Was this ever answered?
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Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.
I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.
Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.
A solid rule of thumb👍
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Are you 12?
Early 40s here.
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BHank’s situation is understandable. If both parties have kids it levels the Playing Field..
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Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.
Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.
Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.
“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”
Like fuck “we” are.
Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.
Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.
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Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.
Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.
Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.
“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”
Like fuck “we” are.
Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.
Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.
Fortress, I’m being serious here considering I think you’re one of the highly intelligent and talented people on here. Considering you have good instincts expressed by concern for your race and anti-feminism, I find it surprising you don’t want to pass on your good genes.
One of the issues in the West is dysgenic breeding, for which low-agency, r-strategy, low- parental-investment fuck nuts breed, in many cases at the expense of the rest of us
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Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.
Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.
Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.
“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”
Like fuck “we” are.
Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.
Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.
For some reason, and I don’t think I’m mistaken, I have a good feeling that you’ll never have to worry about being the father to someone else’s kids.
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Fortress, I’m being serious here considering I think you’re one of the highly intelligent and talented people on here. Considering you have good instincts expressed by concern for your race and anti-feminism, I find it surprising you don’t want to pass on your good genes.
One of the issues in the West is dysgenic breeding, for which low-agency, r-strategy, low- parental-investment fuck nuts breed, in many cases at the expense of the rest of us
Thank you for the compliment.
I’ve never not wanted children, but not having found a suitable mate to mother my child/ren, it’s not a consideration.
As time has passed, I’ve come to think perhaps it is in my kids’ best interests to not have had them, anyway.
This has now officially become clown world.
As far as continuing “my name”/bloodline, I’m not of the thought either is of any particular importance, really.
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Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.
Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.
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Thank you for the compliment.
I’ve never not wanted children, but not having found a suitable mate to mother my child/ren, it’s not a consideration.
As time has passed, I’ve come to think perhaps it is in my kids’ best interests to not have had them, anyway.
This has now officially become clown world.
As far as continuing “my name”/bloodline, I’m not of the thought either is of any particular importance, really.
I’ve never understood the whole worrying about your legacy shit. As if anybody gives a fuck.
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Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.
Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.
Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.
“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”
Like fuck “we” are.
Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.
Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.
Almost like Aristotle....
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Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.
Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.
Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.
“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”
Like fuck “we” are.
Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.
Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.
I would eat a home cooked meal with Satan himself you know her mom is making a lot of something good if she invited you. If her mom is a bitch just make an ass of yourself and insult her cooking so you wont get invited back if she can cook a casserole be nice
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Fortress ain’t gonna be daddy to some other dude’s kid.
Don’t want some nattering broad upsetting my compound’s scene.
Not gonna expend energy to impress a woman who is sportin’ fatceps.
“This weekend we’re going to my mom’s for dinner.”
Like fuck “we” are.
Fortress is lifting iron, blasting metal and rambling about in his Jeep.
Touch that classic 1984 Ratt poster on my living-room wall and you’re a human cannonball going through my fourth-floor window, honey tits.
^^Heaven ^^
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Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.
I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.
Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.
Words of wisdom.
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He has to raise his kids and after only less than year of having his last kid, he MUST meet another woman immediately, but can’t.
Poor dear.
The thirst and simping is becoming more brutal each passing year. Men are acting like if they don’t get a pat on the head from some surrogate mommy for a day they’re gonna die!
Then we wonder why we are living in a gynecocracy. “Yo bro! You suffering from X malady? You sad, suicidal, broke? Easy to solve bro: go find a woman!”
I thought you were going to mention serious issues like who is gonna care for the kids if he has work or financial worries, such as getting taken to the cleaners by courts!
His ex wife has the kids on his days off, so he doesn't have to worry about daycare thank god, but you better believe he's gonna be paying a pretty penny on Child Support, they just haven't gotten that far yet.
He makes between 110-120k a year and would be off the hook on the older kid in only a few years, but he will be paying CS for the baby for damn near 20 more years! I think that's why he's really devastated, as he was planning on retiring as soon as he hit 25 years, which would be in a little less than 10 years. Because of the child support he's most likely going to pay, he won't be able to retire as soon as he possibly could, like he had originally planned. Sadly, his life is a cautionary tale that has happened thousands of times in my line of work. Every single guy who does more than 32 years in the department, is doing it because he fucked up with a woman at some point in his life, usually later on.
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poor understanding of what statistics? where are these statistics you speak of?
why are you under the impression that step fathers hurting their step daughters only happens in porn? i think it happens a lot more than you want to think hence most kids hating their step fathers
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you are making a claim based off some stuff you heard on Howard Stern lol. Forgive me for being skeptical.
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you are making a claim based off some stuff you heard on Howard Stern lol. Forgive me for being skeptical.
well the claims came out of the girls mouths, you are free to post your own more credible source
is it really that unimaginable for you to think that step fathers aren't always mike brady with their step daughters?
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His ex wife has the kids on his days off, so he doesn't have to worry about daycare thank god, but you better believe he's gonna be paying a pretty penny on Child Support, they just haven't gotten that far yet.
He makes between 110-120k a year and would be off the hook on the older kid in only a few years, but he will be paying CS for the baby for damn near 20 more years! I think that's why he's really devastated, as he was planning on retiring as soon as he hit 25 years, which would be in a little less than 10 years. Because of the child support he's most likely going to pay, he won't be able to retire as soon as he possibly could, like he had originally planned. Sadly, his life is a cautionary tale that has happened thousands of times in my line of work. Every single guy who does more than 32 years in the department, is doing it because he fucked up with a woman at some point in his life, usually later on.
What do these guys retire to? Enjoy the freedom of their 60s?
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What do these guys retire to? Enjoy the freedom of their 60s?
It depends on the age they start, and the life decisions they make. A lot of guys retire at right around 50. Some stay in the area as they have lots of family nearby, some move to Florida to get away from the winter here.
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My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.
Arrange a child marriage between them.
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My son is a lot happier when my girlfriend's daughter is around for him to play with. I care a lot about my son being happy. I play with him but I am old he likes having another kid to run around with it makes my life easier as well. My girlfriend having a friendly, polite, intelligent, daughter with a cute littles arse and perky tits is a bonus not some kind of scarlet letter.
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First single mom I jumped in bed with had a 3 yo kid and told me "Um, I still have a little bit of a mummy tummy."
Then she showed me the evidence. I gave her a Silver Star for extraordinary valor. I'd never met anyone who jumped on a grenade and lived to fuck another day.
Dude - flip 'em before you grill 'em!
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She is 10 you sick fuck
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If she is hot af, who cares??
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If she is hot af, who cares??
Not cool.
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Think McFly, think!
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If she is hot af, who cares??
Bro...
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Bro...
Pretty sure he meant the titular 'single mother' of the thread...
At least I frickin' hope so!
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Pretty sure he mean the titular 'single mother' of the thread...
At least I frickin' hope so!
I can't stop laughing. I think Pamith did just accidentally make himself sound like the world's biggest pedo through unfortunate post timing.
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Think McFly, think!
Now, Biff!
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Now, Biff!
Make like a tree and get out of here
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Not cool.
Why??
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I can't stop laughing. I think Pamith did just accidentally make himself sound like the world's biggest pedo through unfortunate post timing.
Yeah lol, I meant single mothers, if they are hot af who cares? I didn't always think this way though
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First single mom I jumped in bed with had a 3 yo kid and told me "Um, I still have a little bit of a mummy tummy."
Then she showed me the evidence. I gave her a Silver Star for extraordinary valor. I'd never met anyone who jumped on a grenade and lived to fuck another day.
Hahaha!
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I personally think that the only people who should date single mothers are either:
1. People with weak realities that need filling
2. People with children and thus, their reality is already of that nature.
No fella who does whatever the fuck he wants, when he wants should ever get involved.
I have a single mother friend - I like her very much, but her life is a fucking awful cavalcade of servitude. The drama from the past and present that surrounds her is the strongest contraception I have ever experienced.
In honour of fortress's post, I will now going to go play some ratt on guitar.
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Superb Kwon.
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Fortress, I’m being serious here considering I think you’re one of the highly intelligent and talented people on here. Considering you have good instincts expressed by concern for your race and anti-feminism, I find it surprising you don’t want to pass on your good genes.
One of the issues in the West is dysgenic breeding, for which low-agency, r-strategy, low- parental-investment fuck nuts breed, in many cases at the expense of the rest of us
Well put.
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Bhanky take heed.