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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #50 on: March 30, 2022, 06:06:13 AM »
So single women with daughters shouldn't date? If you meet a nice woman and everything is going great then she tells you she has a daughter you are dipping out?

Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.

I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.

Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #51 on: March 30, 2022, 06:55:53 AM »
So single women with daughters shouldn't date? If you meet a nice woman and everything is going great then she tells you she has a daughter you are dipping out?

Depends how old and how hot the daughter is. No pedo

Imagine the GF has a hot 18 yearold daughter sauntering around the place in hotpants and a crop top. Nothing wrong with enjoying the show and later banging the shit out of the mother whilst thinking of the daughter. Ideally the daughters bedroom is within earshot so she can hear how you're making her mum moan.


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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #52 on: March 30, 2022, 06:57:36 AM »
Depends how old and how hot the daughter is. No pedo

Imagine the GF has a hot 18 yearold daughter sauntering around the place in hotpants and a crop top. Nothing wrong with enjoying the show and later banging the shit out of the mother whilst thinking of the daughter. Ideally the daughters bedroom is within earshot so she can hear how you're making her mum moan.
I think you have seen too many porn videos  ;D

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #53 on: March 30, 2022, 06:58:49 AM »
Its 100% responsibility with 0% authority.

Also one thing which people don't want to talk about is step fathers and step daughters. You have a young hot thing running around that isn't your blood. It happens alot.

I think you’ve been watching too much porn

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #54 on: March 30, 2022, 06:58:56 AM »
Depends how old and how hot the daughter is. No pedo

Imagine the GF has a hot 18 yearold daughter sauntering around the place in hotpants and a crop top. Nothing wrong with enjoying the show and later banging the shit out of the mother whilst thinking of the daughter. Ideally the daughters bedroom is within earshot so she can hear how you're making her mum moan.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #55 on: March 30, 2022, 07:00:42 AM »
At most of our ages, 40-45+ the single mom is likely to have kids over 18.  If one was a daughter, why would you not try to fuck the younger model?

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #56 on: March 30, 2022, 07:01:41 AM »
At most of our ages, 40-45+ the single mom is likely to have kids over 18.  If one was a daughter, why would you not try to fuck the younger model?

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #57 on: March 30, 2022, 07:02:11 AM »
I think you have seen too many porn videos  ;D

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #58 on: March 30, 2022, 07:06:18 AM »
At most of our ages, 40-45+ the single mom is likely to have kids over 18.  If one was a daughter, why would you not try to fuck the younger model?

Common Decency?

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #59 on: March 30, 2022, 07:12:48 AM »
I think you have seen too many porn videos  ;D

That's not possible

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #60 on: March 30, 2022, 08:00:00 AM »
Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.

I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.

Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.

Why are you assuming that the woman had a child as a mistake? I know a few woman who used the man as  nothing more than a donor. Some woman feel like their biological clock is about to expire and they have a kid or two with a guy that they have no intention of spending the rest of their life with. I know some successful woman who don’t even ask my dad for a single penny because they don’t want him anywhere in their lives

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #61 on: March 30, 2022, 08:04:17 AM »
Why are you assuming that the woman had a child as a mistake? I know a few woman who used the man as  nothing more than a donor. Some woman feel like their biological clock is about to expire and they have a kid or two with a guy that they have no intention of spending the rest of their life with. I know some successful woman who don’t even ask my dad for a single penny because they don’t want him anywhere in their lives

he sounds like a deadbeat... ;D

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #62 on: March 30, 2022, 08:27:10 AM »
Depends how old and how hot the daughter is. No pedo

Imagine the GF has a hot 18 yearold daughter sauntering around the place in hotpants and a crop top. Nothing wrong with enjoying the show and later banging the shit out of the mother whilst thinking of the daughter. Ideally the daughters bedroom is within earshot so she can hear how you're making her mum moan.



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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #63 on: March 30, 2022, 08:40:40 AM »
Yes. Where is the father? Why aren't you together? " he was an asshole". Ok why did you marry,have a baby with him?
That tells me she makes bad life decisions. If she screws up the most important decision of them all what would your future be like?
On the other hand the dude left her. That means she's such a psycho he'd rather move into an apartment and give her the house and pay half his salary on child support not to deal with her.

I treat single mothers just like an ex con or an ex drug addict. It's gonna cause serious problems.

Having said that I know some single moms who are great people, who fell on a bad situation. Not shitting on them, just not for me, and if you choose to be with such a person know it's gonna come at a cost.

Maybe the father succumbed to an illness or was involved in an accident.
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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #64 on: March 30, 2022, 09:01:38 AM »
Being a single mother means a lifetime of financial penury for the vast majority of women who do it. In short, the life sucks. Allowing yourself to get knocked up as a means to get a guy to marry you has a horrible track record of failure. There is at least a 40 year history of this not working for the vast majority of women who have tried it. Why any woman would actually want to be a single mother is completely incomprehensible to me.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #65 on: March 30, 2022, 09:18:41 AM »
Being a single mother means a lifetime of financial penury for the vast majority of women who do it. In short, the life sucks. Allowing yourself to get knocked up as a means to get a guy to marry you has a horrible track record of failure. There is at least a 40 year history of this not working for the vast majority of women who have tried it. Why any woman would actually want to be a single mother is completely incomprehensible to me.

Probably because the Dad turned out to be an asshole like yourself

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #66 on: March 30, 2022, 09:54:53 AM »
Once you reach a certain age they are all single mothers

Brutal and true.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #67 on: March 30, 2022, 10:10:21 AM »
Why are you assuming that the woman had a child as a mistake? I know a few woman who used the man as  nothing more than a donor. Some woman feel like their biological clock is about to expire and they have a kid or two with a guy that they have no intention of spending the rest of their life with. I know some successful woman who don’t even ask my dad for a single penny because they don’t want him anywhere in their lives

This  example is part of a bigger issue.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #68 on: March 30, 2022, 10:37:21 AM »
there are some childish 49 year old men, you will realise that in a few years.

44+5=49.

Sounds like Bhanky.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #69 on: March 30, 2022, 10:38:40 AM »
True but I have found I prefer to date women my age they have the same perspective on life. There isn't some kind of power differential with one of us having more or less income assets or experience in life. When you date someone your age you have the same energy and interest the same cultural references. I see guys dating younger woman and it's pathetic. I think they couldn't get a decent woman their age and therefore want a younger person they can intellectually or financially bully and control. Standing next to a woman half your age doesn't make you look cool or hip it makes you look old and lame that is not a partner that is an object you don't understand what women are for if you are a grown 40 some year old man and you want a 25 year old girl. My girl is almost my age and a lawyer she is mad smart she is actually interesting to conversate with and competent to help with things you are not going to get that out of someone 20 years younger than you. Discriminating against women for having kids is just hating women and children who can enrich your life and your loss not theirs.

Good post, Bhanky.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #70 on: March 30, 2022, 10:40:00 AM »
When did you start your transition?

Brutal, Shizz.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #71 on: March 30, 2022, 10:43:41 AM »
Being a single mother means a lifetime of financial penury for the vast majority of women who do it. In short, the life sucks. Allowing yourself to get knocked up as a means to get a guy to marry you has a horrible track record of failure. There is at least a 40 year history of this not working for the vast majority of women who have tried it. Why any woman would actually want to be a single mother is completely incomprehensible to me.

And women who have 5 kids from 5 different men are particularly stupid.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #72 on: March 30, 2022, 11:08:43 AM »
It's unlikely I'd benefit a kid. I once saw a young boy throwing a tantrum and the adults around him were reacting to it. My instinct was to ask "Are you experiencing an emotion?" Then discuss the nature and validity of subjective experience.

People generally find themselves emotionally invalidated around me. It's probably not developmentally healthy for a young person to be asked to adopt an observer's perspective and alienate themselves from their feelings.

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #73 on: March 30, 2022, 02:50:39 PM »
True but I have found I prefer to date women my age they have the same perspective on life. There isn't some kind of power differential with one of us having more or less income assets or experience in life. When you date someone your age you have the same energy and interest the same cultural references. I see guys dating younger woman and it's pathetic. I think they couldn't get a decent woman their age and therefore want a younger person they can intellectually or financially bully and control. Standing next to a woman half your age doesn't make you look cool or hip it makes you look old and lame that is not a partner that is an object you don't understand what women are for if you are a grown 40 some year old man and you want a 25 year old girl. My girl is almost my age and a lawyer she is mad smart she is actually interesting to conversate with and competent to help with things you are not going to get that out of someone 20 years younger than you. Discriminating against women for having kids is just hating women and children who can enrich your life and your loss not theirs.

It isn't pathetic at all. You don't have to have someone who matches you or equals your wealth or IQ. You can have someone who complements you and makes your life more fun. If I'm with a 20 something it isn't for intellectual stimulation or high brow conversation. I have getbig for that  ;D

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Re: Dating single mothers
« Reply #74 on: March 30, 2022, 02:57:51 PM »
44+5=49.

Sounds like Bhanky.
It was lost on hanky.
Im glad someone picked up on it