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Once they got married, they turned into a total fucking beta male (perhaps they were always one), began taking on characteristics unlike them, let their wives run them around, control them and ultimately change them into someone you don't know to the point that you lose respect for them?
It's some sad shit. He's in too deep. They have children and his nuts are locked away. Of course he doesn't see it and there's no showing him a mirror. Anyway, that's all.
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ive never seen this "not" happen....
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I’m truly the only one I know that this didn’t happen to. I told my wife at the beginning I will always do what I want when I want and I will never change and I haven’t.
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My brother married a doctor and it basically ruined him.
He went from being libertarian to turning liberal without realizing it while becoming an alcoholic.
I don’t know if he would have gotten that injection or not if he was with her, but maybe he wouldn’t have. He got a pacemaker put in at 40 years old and my family has no heart issues at all. (Big family)
Now he is getting divorced..
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ive never seen this "not" happen....
This.
I’m truly the only one I know that this didn’t happen to. I told my wife at the beginning I will always do what I want when I want and I will never change and I haven’t.
Thats how the rest of us "think" it will be. Most of the guys in our generation were told the man is the head of the family. (White families anyway) and as the man we will keep order. But daughters are taught something different: its a mans world, you have to fight for what you want, you need to assert yourself and live your life, and don't let a man hold you down. Etc.... so while we (men) try to establish some kind of order and come to an understanding, a compromise., a woman will just argue and manipulate until she gets her way. Over time you give up more and more trying to compromise until you just give up more and more of yourself to avoid their hysterical, fanatical, arguing. Over time, you don't even remember who you were or what you used to like.... the real bitch of it is She'll have the nerve to say things like "i don't know what happened to you. You're not the man I married.
Most men would be better off taking a no bullshit approach like Rob's right off the bat. The first sign of a this kind of bullshit hit the fucking door and change bank accounts. She'll learn real quick.
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If he's griping about her that's one thing. Otherwise it's none of your business. Plenty of guys live for their wife and kids. It's their call.
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If he's griping about her that's one thing. Otherwise it's none of your business. Plenty of guys live for their wife and kids. It's their call.
Sounds like you're one of those guys. "Living for your wife and kids" is that what you call it to sleep well? You're right about one thing. It's your call.
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Yes have had a few most notable was a good mate who married early and treat her like absolute shit so later in life after they divorced he met this horrible fat little ginger thing and almost instantly let her run his life it started by wherever he went she had to go which was pretty embarrassing when we were all out for a drink and he’d show up with her in tow then expect the entire group to behave different because she was there despite no fucker wanting her there we were like no get fucked, eventually he was only allowed to mix in her social circles she refused to work full time and he had to keep her financially and would openly degrade him telling him he failed his duties as a man as he didn’t make enough so she didn’t have to work, never did housework he had to cook ect once even punched him in the face as she didn’t like where he took her for dinner eventually it became too much and he said fuck everything and went on a massive cocaine binge as he was being made to spend all his money on ivf as she desperately wanted kids but couldn’t which ended things haha
Another mate isn’t allowed to spend any money without her approving it once he wanted to buy a air rifle off another mate and asked him to keep it for months while he scraped money together that she never knew about (was only £200) then had to lie and say he was borrowing it when he got it
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Sounds like you're one of those guys. "Living for your wife and kids" is that what you call it to sleep well? You're right about one thing. It's your call.
Why resort to the personal attack for a genuine response ???
Anyways, I agree with Tapeworm. Chances are this guy was always like this, and for all we know he’s happy in his relationship. It sucks if it’s a friend and you don’t see them much anymore, but hey that’s life.
I’ll say this - there’s stuff we all do that we don’t really want to do, all in the name of keeping the peace. Happy spouse, happy house. Some things are definitely a “no” but if my lady wants to wear matching pajamas on Christmas Eve or some bullshit like that … whatever lol. Gotta pick the battles.
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Sounds like you're one of those guys. "Living for your wife and kids" is that what you call it to sleep well? You're right about one thing. It's your call.
My girl is pretty understanding. I stay at work 5 nights a week, but it's how I.make a living, and she doesn't complain much.
I try to be good to her when I'm home. Even wore a matching Christmas Cow tshirt out with her. It was a smedium after a wash and dry, so I saw it as an opportunity.
Is a Christmas Cow a thing? She said it's a thing. Have I been made a fool of?
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Why resort to the personal attack for a genuine response ???
Anyways, I agree with Tapeworm. Chances are this guy was always like this, and for all we know he’s happy in his relationship. It sucks if it’s a friend and you don’t see them much anymore, but hey that’s life.
I’ll say this - there’s stuff we all do that we don’t really want to do, all in the name of keeping the peace. Happy spouse, happy house. Some things are definitely a “no” but if my lady wants to wear matching pajamas on Christmas Eve or some bullshit like that … whatever lol. Gotta pick the battles.
Yeah. Good point.
Mr Wiggs. You owe me an apology. I'm prepared to be gracious.
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Once they got married, they turned into a total fucking beta male (perhaps they were always one), began taking on characteristics unlike them, let their wives run them around, control them and ultimately change them into someone you don't know to the point that you lose respect for them?
It's some sad shit. He's in too deep. They have children and his nuts are locked away. Of course he doesn't see it and there's no showing him a mirror. Anyway, that's all.
Seen that a few times
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My brother married a doctor and it basically ruined him.
He went from being libertarian to turning liberal without realizing it while becoming an alcoholic.
I don’t know if he would have gotten that injection or not if he was with her, but maybe he wouldn’t have. He got a pacemaker put in at 40 years old and my family has no heart issues at all. (Big family)
Now he is getting divorced..
I think men who marry female lawyers, doctors, and corporate executives have something wrong with them.
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When I was young, women stayed home with the kids and the man worked to take care of the family. The women made the home and took care of the kids. Now it seems with almost every family the woman works and the role of taking care of the kids is delegated to institutions like day care for their pre school kids. If you have women seeking careers they think less of a man making less money than them. Deep down inside they want a man to be a man taking care of them and the kids. No way to look up to a man if you are making more money than them. Also we are now seeing the result of kids raised by day care and schools with little parental guidance. They turn into liberal fuck ups.
I see this in the work place too. I work with beautiful young women in my retirement job and the few guys that drift into working for this office are not seen as dating material to these hot young women I work with. The men that work here never last.
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A lot of us think we can only be happy in a relationship. About 10 years ago I was single and just banged whatever I could get. Plenty of time for sports and whatever you wanted to do, without coordinating with a signifant other. Looking back at it now, it was an amazing time.
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This is usually an unpopular opinion when I share it, which used to surprise me as it seems self-evident, but you get the Wife and Children you deserve.
If you let her push you around, you're the fucking idiot in that equation
And if your kids are sh1t - you failed as a Father
Luck and 'society' don't come into it
Rocket surgery it ain't
[Edit: I just read that again and it comes across as pompous - genuinely not my intention - I just have no tolerance for people with excuses - guess that would be most GetBiggers! 8)]
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Nope. Don't have any friends like that.
Don't have any friends.
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Why resort to the personal attack for a genuine response ???
Anyways, I agree with Tapeworm. Chances are this guy was always like this, and for all we know he’s happy in his relationship. It sucks if it’s a friend and you don’t see them much anymore, but hey that’s life.
I’ll say this - there’s stuff we all do that we don’t really want to do, all in the name of keeping the peace. Happy spouse, happy house. Some things are definitely a “no” but if my lady wants to wear matching pajamas on Christmas Eve or some bullshit like that … whatever lol. Gotta pick the battles.
I attacked Tapeworm because he told me to mind my business in essence even I what I feel is true but he called it living for your wife and kids. But like I said. It is my friend's choice even though it's disgusting seeing what he's allowed himself to become.
As far as I know, he doesn't complain at least not to me. For all I know he could be happy but we don't talk like that anymore even though there was no falling out. One thing I know for sure is that she is a controlling, manipulative bitch and he's easily controlled by pussy if it's on a consistent basis. Without going into details, this is exactly what happened.
She found out he was cheating with Craigslist whore the week they got married, she called me yelling and screaming to come talk some sense into him (I did) 12 years ago. From that moment he gave his power to her to get back in her good graces and he's never been the same.
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Worst apology ever. It's like you're not even trying.
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When I was young, women stayed home with the kids and the man worked to take care of the family. The women made the home and took care of the kids. Now it seems with almost every family the woman works and the role of taking care of the kids is delegated to institutions like day care for their pre school kids. If you have women seeking careers they think less of a man making less money than them. Deep down inside they want a man to be a man taking care of them and the kids. No way to look up to a man if you are making more money than them. Also we are now seeing the result of kids raised by day care and schools with little parental guidance. They turn into liberal fuck ups.
I see this in the work place too. I work with beautiful young women in my retirement job and the few guys that drift into working for this office are not seen as dating material to these hot young women I work with. The men that work here never last.
How old are you?
We no longer have an economy in which most middle-class men can afford families and homes on one income.
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How old are you?
We no longer have an economy in which most middle-class men can afford families and homes on one income.
oldtimer was young in the 1930s
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oldtimer was young in the 1930s
Makes Wes look like Moses.
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I apologize for the personal attack Tapeworm.
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I apologize for the personal attack Tapeworm.
Holy shit. You actually apologized? Online?
I'm not sure what to do. This hasn't happened before. Anywhere ever in history.
If you broke the matrix and we all wake up in pods please lead us to a place we can find food.
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I attacked Tapeworm because he told me to mind my business in essence even I what I feel is true but he called it living for your wife and kids. But like I said. It is my friend's choice even though it's disgusting seeing what he's allowed himself to become.
As far as I know, he doesn't complain at least not to me. For all I know he could be happy but we don't talk like that anymore even though there was no falling out. One thing I know for sure is that she is a controlling, manipulative bitch and he's easily controlled by pussy if it's on a consistent basis. Without going into details, this is exactly what happened.
She found out he was cheating with Craigslist whore the week they got married, she called me yelling and screaming to come talk some sense into him (I did) 12 years ago. From that moment he gave his power to her to get back in her good graces and he's never been the same.
He was caught cheating and thought he was going to have a successful marriage?
It takes a lifetime to build trust and a moment to destroy it. Getting caught cheating changes the whole parameters of this story. He should have walked away, you should have advised him without therapy this was going to be a horrible marriage, many women don’t forgive.
This isn’t a simple he got married and changed; this is a dude who was told he was throwing his life away and he needed to change and not let that happen, make it right and make it work. He took that advice.
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From the essay Rotating Polyandry:
“Their initial response to their wives’ stated unhappiness was to try to make them happy. “In most cases, their husbands launched futile attempts to make their wives happy by being more attentive, spending more time at home and helping out around the house. Regardless of these women’s past and present complaints, the last thing they wanted was to spend more time with their husbands.” (Langley notes that wives do often complain that “my spouse doesn’t pay attention to me,” but calls this code for “I want another man.”) In fact, wives often became angry precisely over their husbands’ efforts to please them, because this increased their own feelings of guilt for infidelity. Some also perceived the similarity between this behavior and their own earlier efforts to get their husbands to “commit”; women know better than anyone that efforts to please can be a form of manipulation.”
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Yeah, one mate in particular. Divorced his wife who was traditional in a sense for a boss babe with mental issues and addicted to social media. A feminist in every sense of the word. I convinced this man 10 years ago to buy btc he had 100btc saved, told him not to touch it for a 10 year period. Anyway feminist got him by the balls, came into his life and controlled every aspect. They bought a house together and used the btc for renovations and went on a European holiday afterwards. Paid off her debts from her divorce and the rest is history. Still continues to dominate him, refuses sex and basically worse parts of feminism he is beholden to.
At btc peak that 100btc was work $9.3milliom that stash sits at $6.4million today. He has 0 today and 700k in debt.
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This is usually an unpopular opinion when I share it, which used to surprise me as it seems self-evident, but you get the Wife and Children you deserve.
If you let her push you around, you're the fucking idiot in that equation
And if your kids are sh1t - you failed as a Father
Luck and 'society' don't come into it
Rocket surgery it ain't
[Edit: I just read that again and it comes across as pompous - genuinely not my intention - I just have no tolerance for people with excuses - guess that would be most GetBiggers! 8)]
A lot of truth in what you said. I have always said if the kids are scum bags they learned that from their parents. The kids don't fall too far from the tree. You have kids in trouble with the law, doing drugs and act like scum bags then they didn't come from a good family. Sorry, if the truth hurts.
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He was caught cheating and thought he was going to have a successful marriage?
It takes a lifetime to build trust and a moment to destroy it. Getting caught cheating changes the whole parameters of this story. He should have walked away, you should have advised him without therapy this was going to be a horrible marriage, many women don’t forgive.
This isn’t a simple he got married and changed; this is a dude who was told he was throwing his life away and he needed to change and not let that happen, make it right and make it work. He took that advice.
It always seems if the man cheats the marriage is over but if it's the woman they demand a different scenario to the punishment. It becomes the man's fault she was cheating. No matter what it's the man's fault. It's very rare to find a woman that will say she is sorry for anything. Never at fault.
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Holy shit. You actually apologized? Online?
I'm not sure what to do. This hasn't happened before. Anywhere ever in history.
If you broke the matrix and we all wake up in pods please lead us to a place we can find food.
;D
No surprise to see the apology, Wiggs is an honorable gentleman, hence my surprise at seeing what I thought was an unprovoked personal attack. Glad to see peace restored LOL
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I attacked Tapeworm because he told me to mind my business in essence even I what I feel is true but he called it living for your wife and kids. But like I said. It is my friend's choice even though it's disgusting seeing what he's allowed himself to become.
As far as I know, he doesn't complain at least not to me. For all I know he could be happy but we don't talk like that anymore even though there was no falling out. One thing I know for sure is that she is a controlling, manipulative bitch and he's easily controlled by pussy if it's on a consistent basis. Without going into details, this is exactly what happened.
She found out he was cheating with Craigslist whore the week they got married, she called me yelling and screaming to come talk some sense into him (I did) 12 years ago. From that moment he gave his power to her to get back in her good graces and he's never been the same.
Ah, that is odd. Hard to say what the cause is, normally I don’t associate the “overly devoted husband” type with infidelity.
I had a friend who got a clingy girlfriend who none of us liked, and since he was always with her, we never really bothered to spend time with him. Of course—you can’t just tell a guy “hey we don’t like your girlfriend, stop bringing her around” so we never said anything and just saw him less and less.
7-8 years later, the guy is getting married and asks five of us to be his groomsmen and me to be his best man. None of us had seen him in a year or two (at the least) and we hardly talked anymore with him, so each of us (individually) decided to skip it. Bit of a dirtbag move maybe but you can’t just let the relationships wither and die, and still expect your friends to be there.
It’s a bummer for sure, but hey that’s life .. worst part is wondering if you guys really were as good of friends as you had thought.
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I apologize for the personal attack Tapeworm.
Outed.
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Ah, that is odd. Hard to say what the cause is, normally I don’t associate the “overly devoted husband” type with infidelity.
I had a friend who got a clingy girlfriend who none of us liked, and since he was always with her, we never really bothered to spend time with him. Of course—you can’t just tell a guy “hey we don’t like your girlfriend, stop bringing her around” so we never said anything and just saw him less and less.
7-8 years later, the guy is getting married and asks five of us to be his groomsmen and me to be his best man. None of us had seen him in a year or two (at the least) and we hardly talked anymore with him, so each of us (individually) decided to skip it. Bit of a dirtbag move maybe but you can’t just let the relationships wither and die, and still expect your friends to be there.
It’s a bummer for sure, but hey that’s life .. worst part is wondering if you guys really were as good of friends as you had thought.
We've been friends since high school. We were definitely friends. As in best friends.
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Once they got married, they turned into a total fucking beta male (perhaps they were always one), began taking on characteristics unlike them, let their wives run them around, control them and ultimately change them into someone you don't know to the point that you lose respect for them?
It's some sad shit. He's in too deep. They have children and his nuts are locked away. Of course he doesn't see it and there's no showing him a mirror. Anyway, that's all.
dude... lol it's you, not him.
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dude... lol it's you, not him.
Sorry to disappoint you, but I have the Rob approach after my first marriage. That was a wake up call. I've never been the same since. Matter of fact, I left the last marriage because I woke up and decided to take more control of things and of course she said "I changed". I took my shit and she came home to nothing. (True story) So no buddy. Wiggs is alot of things but pussy ass simp he is not.
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Once they got married, they turned into a total fucking beta male (perhaps they were always one), began taking on characteristics unlike them, let their wives run them around, control them and ultimately change them into someone you don't know to the point that you lose respect for them?
It's some sad shit. He's in too deep. They have children and his nuts are locked away. Of course he doesn't see it and there's no showing him a mirror. Anyway, that's all.
A friend of mine even willingly started talking with his new wife's funny accent.. ::) Scary stuff right there.
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A friend of mine even willingly started talking with his new wife's funny accent.. ::) Scary stuff right there.
Geez. That's a new low.
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I’m truly the only one I know that this didn’t happen to. I told my wife at the beginning I will always do what I want when I want and I will never change and I haven’t.
I did the same.......nobody runs my life,not even the woman I love.
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Makes Wes look like Moses.
Watch it there Methuselah !! :D
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Most losers think they can only be happy in a relationship. Ironically a mindset like this makes women throw up
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Has anyone ever seen a “successful” relationship after infidelity has been discovered? I’ve known men who were disasters as human beings; drug addicts who were unfaithful and literally pulled a 180 to become productive members of society giving their wife more good years than bad but the women NEVER forgive/forget (which is fine, but they also need to let go and move on) and they are intent on ruining the man’s life.
To answer the original question I did have a friend who became a simp for a girl, she absolutely sucked btw, and it ended horribly. There’s nothing you can do. It sucks. People change.
Which going back to you Wiggs, I’m sorry for the current relationship ending. The people change argument is stupid, because of course they do. I’m sure your wife is different after she had your child, children change the whole dynamic of a relationship, we all change because we are supposed to after we have different life experiences. They only people who don’t change are sociopaths, so it sounds like she doesn’t know what she is arguing about.
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Has anyone ever seen a “successful” relationship after infidelity has been discovered? I’ve known men who were disasters as human beings; drug addicts who were unfaithful and literally pulled a 180 to become productive members of society giving their wife more good years than bad but the women NEVER forgive/forget (which is fine, but they also need to let go and move on) and they are intent on ruining the man’s life.
To answer the original question I did have a friend who became a simp for a girl, she absolutely sucked btw, and it ended horribly. There’s nothing you can do. It sucks. People change.
Which going back to you Wiggs, I’m sorry for the current relationship ending. The people change argument is stupid, because of course they do. I’m sure your wife is different after she had your child, children change the whole dynamic of a relationship, we all change because we are supposed to after we have different life experiences. They only people who don’t change are sociopaths, so it sounds like she doesn’t know what she is arguing about.
Lol. I think you have some things mixed up.
My German wife cheated back in 04. I stayed with her, then I cheated with whores in 2010 and left her in 2011.
Met my Hebrew wife in 2014. Got married in 2020 and had a baby this year. She never cheated and I never cheated. So we're all good.
I should have never stayed with the German after she cheated but I was determined to make it work. ::) I was young and dumb (26) . I'm 44 now.
My friend who this thread is about was cheating with Craigslist whores unbeknownst to me before he was married and even the week he got married. She found out about it and the rest is history.
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what's this "Friend" shit?
the fuck y'all niggas up to
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what's this "Friend" shit?
the fuck y'all niggas up to
You've gotta be shittin' me the fuckin' hooked nose, pasta eatin,' dancin' for dollars, Pee-Wee Herman on Creatine JohnnynoGame is gracing us with his presence?! :o
:-*
;D
All jokes aside, hope all is well man. Good to have you back.
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All jokes aside, hope all is well man. Good to have you back.
ron hired me as a diversity hire
he needed more people of color to post here....i'll explain to you someday
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Lol. I think you have some things mixed up.
My German wife cheated back in 04. I stayed with her, then I cheated with whores in 2010 and left her in 2011.
Met my Hebrew wife in 2014. Got married in 2020 and had a baby this year. She never cheated and I never cheated. So we're all good.
I should have never stayed with the German after she cheated but I was determined to make it work. ::) I was young and dumb (26) . I'm 44 now.
My friend who this thread is about was cheating with Craigslist whores unbeknownst to me before he was married and even the week he got married. She found out about it and the rest is history.
I apologize; I misunderstood and thought the second marriage also ended.
It sounds like you learned a lot from the first marriage and even though it was a painful situation you became a better man for it. I think when we are young we tend to be overly idealistic and optimistic and think we can over come anything. Relationships are a 2 way street and if both people aren’tgoing in the same direction you could be “perfect” and it won’t work.
In my 20s I had an older friend talking about his spouse and he said if she cheated on him, he would be upset but he would move on. This couple had been together for over 20 years and that attitude blew my mind. I asked if he would try to get counseling to make it work and he said, “for what? If that happened we needed counseling before she cheated not after.”
He then said something that at the time was profound, “if someone wants to cheat they will. I can be a good husband or bad; but ultimately it’s what they want to do and I can’t stop it.” I think there is a lot of truth in this, people do what they want; remain faithful or cheat, it’s literally an individual decision.
When lobster posted here she said something along the lines of she couldn’t respect a guy who cried for her to come back because she knew how imperfect she was. Once a partner loses respect for the other the relationship is headed for destruction.
Going back to your friend he should have never gotten married to this woman. Once she found out he was cheating he was doomed. There are a few “exceptional”, or emotionally dead, women who can move forward after something like this but many simply can’t. They resent the man and want him to suffer and pay for the misdeeds. If he doesn’t stand up for himself, he will be trampled…..
This sounds like what you friend is going through. He’s spent the last number of years realizing he mistreated his future wife so he grovels for forgiveness which is probably not happening. He loses his spousal identity and is made subject to his wife’s whims. It sounds like the dude is to far gone to come back, unless she leaves him. But that is a whole other issue….
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Once they got married, they turned into a total fucking beta male (perhaps they were always one), began taking on characteristics unlike them, let their wives run them around, control them and ultimately change them into someone you don't know to the point that you lose respect for them?
It's some sad shit. He's in too deep. They have children and his nuts are locked away. Of course he doesn't see it and there's no showing him a mirror. Anyway, that's all.
Kids have a way of complicating things. My brother changed once his children were born. He was a man with no worries in the world and would live day-to-day, but once he had kids, his demeanor changed. I don't blame him too much, he lives for more than just himself at this point in life.
That said, have I seen "men" change as a result of being married? Sure. Have I seen men take on effeminate features and even lose aspects of their manhood, because of an overpowering woman? Sure. I have a friend who was a New York State Trooper for 25 years (now retired). He was one of the toughest guys I had ever met. Then, he married a strong Puerto Rican woman and his entire attitude changed completely. Now, he is all about cooking in the home, getting manicures with clear polish and gyrating his hips to Caribbean music (he doesn't speak Spanish).
Maybe the sex is amazing, but I don't know. He went from a total badass, to a man that has even developed somewhat of a lisp.
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Most men never had balls to begin with.
But to their defense - only few men are being accepted by women in an honest way. All others have to play the beta game or the women will destroy them in a devious way.
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When I was young, women stayed home with the kids and the man worked to take care of the family. The women made the home and took care of the kids. Now it seems with almost every family the woman works and the role of taking care of the kids is delegated to institutions like day care for their pre school kids. If you have women seeking careers they think less of a man making less money than them. Deep down inside they want a man to be a man taking care of them and the kids. No way to look up to a man if you are making more money than them. Also we are now seeing the result of kids raised by day care and schools with little parental guidance. They turn into liberal fuck ups.
I see this in the work place too. I work with beautiful young women in my retirement job and the few guys that drift into working for this office are not seen as dating material to these hot young women I work with. The men that work here never last.
This is the dynamic I have at my house my wife hasn't worked since 24 when we started trying for kids so she was a house wife and then stay at home mother. She is 32, hasn't worked in 8 years and is at home with the kids. I'm the 12 years we've been together she has never been as happy as she has being with our kids at home. She is a young mother and receives alot of jealousy and hate from other mothers. I can honestly say I live a stress free marriage, kids are cared for, she cooks 3 times a day for us, gym 5x a week and house is always clean.
From what I've seen older career mothers in their late 30s to early 40s with newborn/toddlers are the most bitter c#nts. Their fading youth combined with declining energy levels and having to work on top of financial and social stress is a recipe for disaster.
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Yeah, one mate in particular. Divorced his wife who was traditional in a sense for a boss babe with mental issues and addicted to social media. A feminist in every sense of the word. I convinced this man 10 years ago to buy btc he had 100btc saved, told him not to touch it for a 10 year period. Anyway feminist got him by the balls, came into his life and controlled every aspect. They bought a house together and used the btc for renovations and went on a European holiday afterwards. Paid off her debts from her divorce and the rest is history. Still continues to dominate him, refuses sex and basically worse parts of feminism he is beholden to.
At btc peak that 100btc was work $9.3milliom that stash sits at $6.4million today. He has 0 today and 700k in debt.
Yes if you have enough $BTC you don't have to worry about women.
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Happens all the time to most men me being an exception. I'm the only Alpha in my house.
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This is the dynamic I have at my house my wife hasn't worked since 24 when we started trying for kids so she was a house wife and then stay at home mother. She is 32, hasn't worked in 8 years and is at home with the kids. I'm the 12 years we've been together she has never been as happy as she has being with our kids at home. She is a young mother and receives alot of jealousy and hate from other mothers. I can honestly say I live a stress free marriage, kids are cared for, she cooks 3 times a day for us, gym 5x a week and house is always clean.
From what I've seen older career mothers in their late 30s to early 40s with newborn/toddlers are the most bitter c#nts. Their fading youth combined with declining energy levels and having to work on top of financial and social stress is a recipe for disaster.
I think this is key. If you can earn enough so your wife doesn’t have to work and can take care of your own kids, do that. I think of it as a “gift” I’m able to do that and provide for my family. No more her having to ask a boss if she can take time off work so we can vacation.
We have a friend who is 42 and she has three kids all under the age of five. Her husband lost his job here recently and when they visited over the summer I could tell she hated him and I’m sure it was because he was being a stay at home dad. Fuck that. Dad is the hammer, mom is the nurturer.
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This is the dynamic I have at my house my wife hasn't worked since 24 when we started trying for kids so she was a house wife and then stay at home mother. She is 32, hasn't worked in 8 years and is at home with the kids. I'm the 12 years we've been together she has never been as happy as she has being with our kids at home. She is a young mother and receives alot of jealousy and hate from other mothers. I can honestly say I live a stress free marriage, kids are cared for, she cooks 3 times a day for us, gym 5x a week and house is always clean.
From what I've seen older career mothers in their late 30s to early 40s with newborn/toddlers are the most bitter c#nts. Their fading youth combined with declining energy levels and having to work on top of financial and social stress is a recipe for disaster.
100%
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How old are you?
We no longer have an economy in which most middle-class men can afford families and homes on one income.
It's not the economy. It's you. A man should be able to take care of a wife and kids. We now have a wife making 75K and a husband making 75K say. The man should be making 150K so she could stay home. I understand if you have no kids or if the kids are grown to have a wife working but with young kids it isn't the ideal way to have a family.
I do understand some the dire circumstances of needing the wife to work. I grew up poor and never knowing we were poor as a kid. I have been working from the 7th grade, high school, college and working in retirement. My wife was a school teacher but when she got pregnant she never had to work again. We have four kids. All successful. Two of them making around 200K. One in studying to be an MD. One not making a lot but slowly rising.
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I did the same.......nobody runs my life,not even the woman I love.
I didn`t want this post to come across as me treating my wife like a prick,but I`m always gonna be me no matter what.........I never let any woman change me to a large degree (though I could have used some changing at times)......I`ll bend and be a great guy but I`m no womans fool............I think !!
Anyway,I can create, and do have enough problems of my own,now my mother in law is with us................and their fucking problems become my problems too.
I wonder if I could be crafty enough to get away with a Bertil Fox move! ;D
Saint Kitts here I come! LOL ;D
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I didn`t want this post to come across as me treating my wife like a prick,but I`m always gonna be me no matter what.........I never let any woman change me to a large degree (though I could have used some changing at times)......I`ll bend and be a great guy but I`m no womans fool............I think !!
Anyway,I can create, and do have enough problems of my own,now my mother in law is with us................and their fucking problems become my problems too.
I wonder if I could be crafty enough to get away with a Bertil Fox move! ;D
Saint Kitts here I come! LOL ;D
Men get married hoping the woman won't change.
Women get married hoping to change the man.
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Once they got married, they turned into a total fucking beta male (perhaps they were always one), began taking on characteristics unlike them, let their wives run them around, control them and ultimately change them into someone you don't know to the point that you lose respect for them?
It's some sad shit. He's in too deep. They have children and his nuts are locked away. Of course he doesn't see it and there's no showing him a mirror. Anyway, that's all.
Wiggs, beta males have been expecting their wives to become their mommy for thousands of years.
Women aren’t always to blame in the equation. For every woman who is a true bitch, there is a guy out there who is her equal. A successful long term relationship is just too difficult and too complex for most of the adult population in America.
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Yes, kind of one of the "gang's" alpha males.
Always mocking other guys who would take some weekend with a girl and not going out with the rest of us.
Telling they were on a choker.
Guess who got the biggest choker and never went out anymore.
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Men get married hoping the woman won't change.
Women get married hoping to change the man.
Truer words were never spoken!!
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I don't believe that relationships should be balanced. Someone needs to have final say on stuff - and in my relationship, that happens to be me.
The wife and I have discussed this and she's absolutely fine with it. Let's face it - the life of a housewife isn't half bad - but I have seen a lot of these relationships fail because the man gets bored of her. After all - he's at work/business all day with lots of stuff going on and he comes home to a wife who has no stories to tell - she's been at home all day - so bugger all has happened. So to mitigate this, I encourage her to go out as much as possible with her mates so that she has a more interesting life I won't get bored hearing about. Apart from her occasionally puking in a taxi - it has worked well.
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there's a good saying for that.
betatization of a thousand concessions.. Very comon...
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Getting married is the ultimate beta move. Men are not designed to fuck one women forever. Marriage is for the woman to find a protector and someone to breed her. For men it is not natural. If you give into marriage you are essentially changing physiologically and submitting to the woman.
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Men don't have friends...just other men they get drunk with and do non homo activities with.
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Getting married is the ultimate beta move. Men are not designed to fuck one women forever. Marriage is for the woman to find a protector and someone to breed her. For men it is not natural. If you give into marriage you are essentially changing physiologically and submitting to the woman.
Ever been married? Had a girlfriend that isn't a blow up doll?
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Men don't have friends...just other men they get drunk with and do non homo activities with.
bingo!
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It's not the economy. It's you. A man should be able to take care of a wife and kids. We now have a wife making 75K and a husband making 75K say. The man should be making 150K so she could stay home. I understand if you have no kids or if the kids are grown to have a wife working but with young kids it isn't the ideal way to have a family.
I do understand some the dire circumstances of needing the wife to work. I grew up poor and never knowing we were poor as a kid. I have been working from the 7th grade, high school, college and working in retirement. My wife was a school teacher but when she got pregnant she never had to work again. We have four kids. All successful. Two of them making around 200K. One in studying to be an MD. One not making a lot but slowly rising.
Though I’m not rich, I earn a higher-than-average income and my wife worked very little for the first three years of both of my children’s lives. I aim to earn enough that she doesn’t have to work.
Besides that, why did you make my generalized statement about average middle-class men about me? You do know what average means, and the average man does not earn 150k per year, although you said they “should,” as if all jobs do pay that.
In the past an average-earning man could support a family on one income. Now he can’t.
It seems my point went over your head, but that is typical of boomers, as is “working in retirement” and bragging about children (the ones who cared about their children, as many did not).
Many successful white boomers and Gen X’ers would be unemployed or low-earning incels if they were young today.
Were you the guy who referred to 40-year old men as kids?
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Though I’m not rich, I earn a higher-than-average income and my wife worked very little for the first three years of both of my children’s lives. I aim to earn enough that she doesn’t have to work.
Besides that, why did you make my generalized statement about average middle-class men about me? You do know what average means, and the average man does not earn 150k per year, although you said they “should,” as if all jobs do pay that.
In the past an average-earning man could support a family on one income. Now he can’t.
It seems my point went over your head, but that is typical of boomers, as is “working in retirement” and bragging about children (the ones who cared about their children, as many did not).
Many successful white boomers and Gen X’ers would be unemployed or low-earning incels if they were young today.
Were you the guy who referred to 40-year old men as kids?
oldtimer1 is like 90 or something, he's walking around with a stroller
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Nope. Don't have any friends like that.
Don't have any friends.
This.