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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: Al-Gebra on September 09, 2006, 09:59:15 PM
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Pl. rank the following attributes. You can quote this post and no. them.:
good provider--earns a good living
Mark Wahlberg type physique
motivated and successful
400 lb. bench, 600 lb. squat, but slightly thick around the waist
great raconteur--the life of the party type
great listener
great conversationalist--someone who listens and says stuff worth listening to
inherited wealth
great lover
great father
no hair on his back
great housekeeper
daredevil . . . gets in barfights, jumps out of planes
Faithful/trustworthy
good looks (not speaking of muscle here)
similar politics/beliefs
no STDs
edit: I forgot the "makes me laugh" that's in every romantic comedy ever made.
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no STDs - This goes without saying. If I wanted to see little organisms growing, I'd leave a bowl of yogurt out of the fridge. >:(
Faithful/trustworthy - definitely a must! If he is to get my faith & trust, ...he had better be worthy of it.
no hair on his back - either that or he must be willing to get rid of it.
great conversationalist--someone who listens and says stuff worth listening to - Ranks right up there. A guy has to stimulate me mentally, as well as physically & emotionally.
great lover - Bring it on! :P
great listener - Absolute must. I can't stand it when people hear what they think you're saying rather than what you've actually said. They're so busy thinking about what they're gonna say next, they don't listen, assuming they know what you're saying when they don't even have a clue.
great father - This would be great
makes me laugh - This is a very good thing. If he can make me laugh, he can usually get himself out of shit with me.
motivated and successful - Absolute must! Can't stand lazy ass unmotivated talkers. >:( I need a doer.
good looks - He doesn't have to be an 'Adonis', ...but babies shouldn't cry at the site of him either.
good provider--earns a good living - This too is a good thing.
great housekeeper - this might be a good thing 'cause I'm not the neatest person god ever created. :-[
inherited wealth - not necessary, ...but certainly fun to have. :P
similar politics/beliefs - He doesn't have to have the same political beliefs as me. I could even handle a guy who thinks like Intenseone, ...as long as he's smart enough to know how to keep his mouth shut, ...and damned smart enough to not let me know how he's voting. If any husband of mine were to vote for 'certain' candidates, ...I'd be a widow before the polls closed! ;)
great raconteur--the life of the party type - social literacy in a man is always a good thing to have, but if you can dress him up but can't take him anywhere... no biggie. I'll just enjoy him at home.
These next two tie cause i don't necessarily consider them to be desireable qualities to seek in a mate
Mark Wahlberg type physique - umm not exactly sure what you mean by this. If you're talking about a 3rd nipple, ...I could do without it. But if you're talking an Anthony Catanzaro physique, this quality just moved waaaaaay up on the list. :P
400 lb. bench, 600 lb. squat, but slightly thick around the waist - Don't care what he can lift, ...just as long as he can move the furniture around and catch bugs and take them outside
This next 'quality' is for the birds.
daredevil . . . gets in barfights, jumps out of planes.
Guys who like to get into barfights can keep on walking as far as I'm concerned.
He can jump out of planes all he wants as long as his life insurance policy is valid, sizeable, up to date and lists me as the sole beneficiary.
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I agree with Judi ;D (lucky for me...I've got the perfect man)
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Funny thread... :)
1. Great Lover
2. Great conversationalist (Includes humour. The funny is really, really important.)
3. Athletic (not exactly on your list. 400 lb squat isn't obligatory :))
4. Same politics/beliefs
5. Motivated and successful (not talking money. You can easily fall in love with a passionate poet)
6. Great father
If no. 1 + no. 2 happen at the very same moment, all the better. "Waxing philosophic" is always nice. :) The rest are all transitional things that can easily be changed. Hairy backs can be waxed. A guy who is big, might get injured or stop training for some other reason and you would still love him. Inherited wealth can be lost. Good housekeeping is a plus, but that's what cleaning ladies are for. I never "see" what's happening with my car, so..... and faithfullness/trustworthiness are a given, although I wouldn't have put them together as one attribute.
Anyway, I listed them in order of the usual progression. Although often times no.2 leads to discovering no.1 :)
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1. Tie: Makes me laugh, similar politics/beliefs, faithful/trustworthy, no STDs
2. Tie: Motivated and successful, great listener/conversationalist, great lover
3. Tie: Looks good, healthy body, takes care of himself
4. Good provider
Other......
-the amount of weight he lifts is inconsequential
-great father (to human children) doesn't apply to us, but if it did it would tie for number one
-hair on the back wouldn't bother me, and if there was some there and it did bother me, it could be removed by several different methods
-him being a great housekeeper - this MUST be low on my rankings ::)
-daredevil - inconsequential
-inherited wealth - could possibly make a person act like a creep unless he earned his own way first - so inherited wealth could actually be a bad thing....unless he was also taught and respected the value of a dollar :)
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i read this thread...now i'm depressed >:(
i jump outta planes though :P
stells..i pmed ya back...
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How's that? None of us live in the cloisters so we already know what quality mate we attract.
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hmm very interesting. I figured good looks and $ would have ranked higher. Perhaps that's been my experience?
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so 1. I totally missed self-confidence . . . but I guess that ties in w some of the other attributes.
2. w/ref to sarcasm's point, I think women do think differently from guys . . . when I was in college, a friend w benefits went away for the summer . . . to the country . . . and when she came back she told me--in the spirit of full disclosure--that she'd slept with this older guy. She said he was an absolute jerk, but "totally cute." then after a couple of weeks she showed me a picture of the guy, and he looked like what I imagine a stereotypical truckdriver would look like. Pudgy, very unintelligent-looking . . . she wasn't bad looking at all, not a model . . . about a high 7, and very sexually charismatic.
anyways, here's my point . . . it seems like women will find something about a guy that they like . . . and use it to cover a multitude of shortcomings. Guys, on the other hand, usually seem to know what hand they're holding.
another thing I don't understand, but related to the Seinfeld story: heavier chicks dressed in clothes meant for skinny chicks . . . and then they get up on the bar and dance . . . but that's another thread.
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I can't believe you actually put how much a guy can lift on this list :-X ROFLMAO
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I can't believe you actually put how much a guy can lift on this list :-X ROFLMAO
??? But of course, it's the first thing any woman asks. :)
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anyways, here's my point . . . it seems like women will find something about a guy that they like . . . and use it to cover a multitude of shortcomings. Guys, on the other hand, usually seem to know what hand they're holding.
I'm not so sure about that. What about the old cliche regarding men who fall in love with strippers or other kinds of 3H's women, only to get stripped of all their money and self-respect.
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??? But of course, it's the first thing any woman asks. :)
You know you're right. I do remember being asked that many times while a femme fatale was swooning in my presence ::) ;D
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I'm not so sure about that. What about the old cliche regarding men who fall in love with strippers or other kinds of 3H's women, only to get stripped of all their money and self-respect.
3H women?
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3H women?
Height, Hooters, & Hair. The great seductresses all have this combo.
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oh ok
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they want the same that men want.
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Height, Hooters, & Hair. The great seductresses all have this combo.
The same can be said for women who fall for the tall, dark & handsome type guy. ::)
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The same can be said for women who fall for the tall, dark & handsome type guy. ::)
I don't think you went far up enough in the thread. I was commenting on AG's post wherein he said that women make allowances for male shortcomings, whereas men seem more down to earth about women. I then brought up the cliche of men falling for 3H women and losing all their dignity...
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I don't think you went far up enough in the thread. I was commenting on AG's post wherein he said that women make allowances for male shortcomings, whereas men seem more down to earth about women. I then brought up the cliche of men falling for 3H women and losing all their dignity...
Oh...I see.
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I don't think you went far up enough in the thread. I was commenting on AG's post wherein he said that women make allowances for male shortcomings, whereas men seem more down to earth about women. I then brought up the cliche of men falling for 3H women and losing all their dignity...
Newsflash - Most men don't have much dignity to begin with. That's why those who do stand out from the crowd. ;)
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That's not true Sarcasm. And you know it. >:(
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Newsflash - Most men don't have much dignity to begin with. That's why those who do stand out from the crowd. ;)
Well, I wouldn't say MOST men, but those who have it do stand out from the crowd. :)
(Am I allowed to call you sugar lips down here, lol?)
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Well, I wouldn't say MOST men, but those who have it do stand out from the crowd. :)
(Am I allowed to call you sugar lips down here, lol?)
no you aren't. Butt you could call me that! :-*
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Migs...your avatar pains me. lol
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Well, I wouldn't say MOST men, but those who have it do stand out from the crowd. :)
(Am I allowed to call you sugar lips down here, lol?)
Of course you are Sweetness :)
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lol Cheri, but it's fun to look at. Maybe she needs a sports bra. lol
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lol Cheri, but it's fun to look at. Maybe she needs a sports bra. lol
Ya think? lol
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it's her body, she has the right to chose a bikini top or a sports bra
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Migs...your avatar pains me. lol
awww, ...whatsamatter Laura? ...getting painful flashbacks of running down the street? {lol} ;)
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it's her body, she has the right to chose a bikini top or a sports bra
Wow Miggy, that response just scored you 50 points in my book. :)
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I can't believe you actually put how much a guy can lift on this list :-X ROFLMAO
hey, it's getbig . . . i had to put it in.
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I must admit though it isn't the most important thing it would REALLY bother me if I lifted more then a guy I was with. I already feel "big" I don't want to feel bigger then my boyfriend...
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Wow Miggy, that response just scored you 50 points in my book. :)
sweet, so does that bring up to zero now?
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sweet, so does that bring up to zero now?
Honey, your score was NEVER in the minus column. :-*
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Honey, your score was NEVER in the minus column. :-*
;D
That's a great thing to here. I wish i could ship you some tiramisu!
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So Migs...how do you like hangin with us girlz?
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it's fine. I grew up in a household of women and during college my major was dominated by women. It also smells nicer up here, it's cleaner and the music is relaxing. Reminds me of an Angel soft commercial, excpet girls don't poop
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Migs, I'm concerned about you . . . you seem to find yourself very quickly at home in the friend zone . . . bad place to be for a single guy.
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They don't make what I want. And it doesn't come in my colour either.
But at least I know what I don't want.
xL
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What do women want?
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Pl. rank the following attributes. You can quote this post and no. them.:
good provider--earns a good living I'll make my own, thanks
Mark Wahlberg type physiqueRafa Nadal physique. But not his face. I'll choose the face when I see it
motivated and successfulfine, men are usually almost good at that
400 lb. bench, 600 lb. squat, but slightly thick around the waistno, I'd sooner that he be naturally muscely, with a smallish waist size (ie: can wear my pants)
great raconteur--the life of the party typeokay, as long as he doesn't over do it and knows when to leave the party looking good.
great listeneryeah, right
great conversationalist--someone who listens and says stuff worth listening tohello?
inherited wealthNever met a millionare i've liked. Inherited wealth=ego=kinda fucked up, in my opinion
great lover yes, please
great fatheralready had the best of those and therefore don't need another. But if you are thinking of becoming a father & want kids, you'll need another woman
no hair on his backor face
great housekeeperor pay for one
daredevil . . . gets in barfights, jumps out of planesjust go to work and come home later
Faithful/trustworthyuntil we get bored or I get old
good looks (not speaking of muscle here)me too... style and ....
similar politics/beliefsnot necessarily.
no STDs!!!
edit: I forgot the "makes me laugh" that's in every romantic comedy ever made. THAT COMES NUMBER ONE (AFTER CHEMISTRY)
am i now supposed to put this list into a 1-10?
oh, okay
1) truth
2) beauty
3) love
xL
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That's not true Sarcasm. And you know it. >:(
Actually Laura, the unapproved poster was somewhat true, ...albeit incomplete.
Quote from: unapproved poster on September 11, 2006, 04:32:47 PM
women want $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$, first and foremost and they will lose their dignity by pretending to be into someone unattractive to get it.
The fact is women want $$$$$$ from men who have nothing else of value to offer. 8)
Edit: Hey who altered my post? >:(
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Actually Laura, the unapproved poster was somewhat true, ...albeit incomplete.
The fact is women want $$$$$$ from men who have nothing else of value to offer. 8)
Edit: Hey who altered my post? >:(
Me.....check your PM's...in a minute..... ;D
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Migs, I'm concerned about you . . . you seem to find yourself very quickly at home in the friend zone . . . bad place to be for a single guy.
and this comes from???
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women want muscle. lots of it. they want oiled bodies. thongs up the ass. baggy pants. proteinfarts. they want a man that is an animal in the gym. and a man that goes up twice a night to drink a proteinshake.
they want a man with a high postcount on getbig. someone that owns people to the left and right.
hope this helps.
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women want muscle. lots of it. they want oiled bodies. thongs up the ass. baggy pants. proteinfarts. they want a man that is an animal in the gym. and a man that goes up twice a night to drink a proteinshake.
they want a man with a high postcount on getbig. someone that owns people to the left and right.
hope this helps.
I think I live with that man. :o (except for the thong and baggy pants) ;D
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hmm very interesting. I figured good looks and $ would have ranked higher. Perhaps that's been my experience?
you mean u believe these answers? :-\
make it anonymous...and you'll get truth :)
half of the women have their BFs of hubbies reading this board...sooo the answers will corrospond to said hubbys or BFs qualities..duhhh
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you mean u believe these answers? :-\
make it anonymous...and you'll get truth :)
half of the women have their BFs of hubbies reading this board...sooo the answers will corrospond to said hubbys or BFs qualities..duhhh
Not everyone. And besides, what's so hard to believe? Just curious.
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Not everyone. And besides, what's so hard to believe? Just curious.
i'm being bitter.... ;D
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Lol, you're not old enough to be bitter... plus it'll give you wrinkles. :(
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Lol, you're not old enough to be bitter... plus it'll give you wrinkles. :(
i'm 30...and my fav book is wuthering heights...
nuff said :(
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I'm not so sure about that. What about the old cliche regarding men who fall in love with strippers or other kinds of 3H's women, only to get stripped of all their money and self-respect.
>:( >:(
We are not all like that!
I may be a "Backstabbing Manstealing B*tch" (or so I was told recently)
but some of the girls are wonderful people, don't paint us all with the same brush
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>:( >:(
We are not all like that!
I may be a "Backstabbing Manstealing B*tch" (or so I was told recently)
but some of the girls are wonderful people, don't paint us all with the same brush
hmmmm, I don't believe that term was ever used. >:(
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>:( >:(
We are not all like that!
I may be a "Backstabbing Manstealing B*tch" (or so I was told recently)
but some of the girls are wonderful people, don't paint us all with the same brush
No, no... PLEASE don't misunderstand. :-[ I said "cliche", meaning it's some old idea that just gets repeated for no reason, just like the statement that "all women are into money and don't care about anything else" is, or "women are soft and make allowances for jerks, whereas men know what they're getiing." etc....
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hmmmm, I don't believe that term was ever used. >:(
Implied none the less
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Implied none the less
No, I believe my point was that friends don't do certain things to friends.
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v725/blflammia/Gifs/10_5_135.gif)
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No, no... PLEASE don't misunderstand. :-[ I said "cliche", meaning it's some old idea that just gets repeated for no reason, just like the statement that "all women are into money and don't care about anything else" is, or "women are soft and make allowances for jerks, whereas men know what they're getiing." etc....
Sorry over sensitive still.
I got so angry on Saturday I spent the last few days in Vegas so I wouldn't stay at home and punch out of my stuffies. Turned out it was a lousy idea. Instead of being pissed off, now I am poor and even more pissed off.
I wouldn't be surprised if I picked up an STD the way my luck was going ;D
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BITCH FIGHT :D
Oh, damn, seems you gals are already making up...
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BITCH FIGHT :D
Oh, damn, seems you gals are already making up...
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v725/blflammia/Gifs/36_11_10.gif)
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BITCH FIGHT :D
Oh, damn, seems you gals are already making up...
The apology was for DeeDee.
But sorry to disappoint you, but unlike some I am not going to fight on the internet (except with Jack London.)
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The apology was for DeeDee.
But sorry to disappoint you, but unlike some I am not going to fight on the internet (except with Jack London.)
(http://www2.hawaii.edu/~arego/disappointed.jpg)
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Just for you faust...
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Just for you faust...
I love you 2
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:) Nice pic...
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i'm 30...and my fav book is wuthering heights...
nuff said :(
i thought wuthering heights was the book of choice for overwrought female teenagers . . . I liked it fine
when I still thought I would die if I didn't get w a particular female.
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i thought wuthering heights was the book of choice for overwrought female teenagers . . . I liked it fine
when I still thought I would die if I didn't get w a particular female.
i'm re reaing bleak house right now...
am i redeemed? lol.. ;D
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I like Bleak House . . . I keep meaning to reread it, but I don't have the time right now.
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they don't make what i want.
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wuthiering heights is also a song about the book
both pat benetar and kate bush(?) did a cover
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wuthiering heights is also a song about the book
both pat benetar and kate bush(?) did a cover
And recently Haley Westurna did an amazing job.
Music is a passion, and a damn good thing as well since my work revolves around it.
But Wuthering Heights is a wonderful story none the less.
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we don't want much
xL
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someone told me that there was bleak house tv series on that was v good.
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Heath cliff (is that the same book?
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Heath cliff (is that the same book?
wuthering heights, ya.
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It's also a nice name for a flower arrangement/display
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wuthering heights...heathcliff and cathrine
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enough already
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