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 on: Today at 06:37:30 PM 
Started by Coach is Back! - Last post by Irongrip400
I'm sure she must be shaking...the stud with the brutal 135 lb max bench press wants to beat her up. lol

Why are you fucking with Wes?

 92 
 on: Today at 06:37:10 PM 
Started by NarcissisticDeity - Last post by NarcissisticDeity
 Smiley

 93 
 on: Today at 06:37:04 PM 
Started by Al Doggity - Last post by Al Doggity
Don't let a few dudes tell you it's not "alpha" to stay monogomous.  

Just the opposite in fact. Apparently, struggling not to cheat is the same thing as cheating, I'm the only getbigger whose ever thought about it and I'm a dirtbag.

eta  But great post actually. Appreciate it. You too, Wiggs. It's not that I think you guys are wrong or even that it's not what I want to hear. It's just  that this is half the conversation I've been having over and over in my head for the last few months. The other half is calling bullshit on that stuff.

 94 
 on: Today at 06:36:44 PM 
Started by Coach is Back! - Last post by The Scott
hell yeah , fuck i used to love the nba cant stand it now the praise hood rats who cant speak english out to be heroes of society

Amen!  I haven't watch since the 70s. 

 95 
 on: Today at 06:35:29 PM 
Started by NarcissisticDeity - Last post by NarcissisticDeity
 Smiley

 96 
 on: Today at 06:34:59 PM 
Started by Coach is Back! - Last post by wes
I'm sure she must be shaking...the stud with the brutal 135 lb max bench press wants to beat her up. lol
I had just started back training at that point.

I`d guarantee that taking bodyweight into consideration,that I`m stronger than you.

 97 
 on: Today at 06:33:47 PM 
Started by Al Doggity - Last post by OlympiaGym
If you can't manage a wife and a couple of girlfriends on the side, you're not really trying. This is what successful men do. It's our right. Monogamy is for the simpletons who don't cheat on their taxes.

 98 
 on: Today at 06:31:34 PM 
Started by Irongrip400 - Last post by Irongrip400
The link is on BBC but for some reason it's "amp" or something and I can't copy the link. Evidently dude was a German citizen posing as a Syrian refugee but spoke no Arabic? So obviously this dude was a home born terrorist, just like Germany is cultivating these days with all of the outsiders they've let in, and was able to pose as a Syrian refugee and collect benefits, and was a lieutenant in the army? Wtf? It's gotten out of control. How are 15,000 people showing up at an AfD party meeting yet no one says shit about this?!!!

 99 
 on: Today at 06:31:19 PM 
Started by Al Doggity - Last post by The Wizard of Truth
Not going to read through all of the posts to see if this had been said, but it seems like you may be headed for a cheating situation. Don't do it. From what I recall you have two kids or one and one on the way. Don't fuck up your family man. Don't be a dirtbag. Don't let a few dudes tell you it's not "alpha" to stay monogomous. You took an oath to stay with her. A mans word is his bond, and there's nothing more alpha than that. Of course you're going to want other pussy, you're a dude. Just keep it in check. Life is hard enough, don't make it worse on yourself. Grow old with her, take trips with her, and raise your kids with her. Don't be a douche.
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A real man is there for his wife and family. Have a wank, go to a strip club, whatever, but if you cheat you'll end up lying in the bed staring up at the ceiling after blowing your load after potentially losing your house, marriage, the respect of your family, your children, at least half your wages every week, your car, etc etc.

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 on: Today at 06:31:05 PM 
Started by Al Doggity - Last post by Al Doggity
I have cheated on one woman and the only one that counted meaning my ex-wife. So those things I said was from personal experience. I'd never do again. It eats at you. Even whores. What destroyed me was that I violated trust and loyalty. You cant get that back. She didn't deserve it. I got what I deserved when it happened to me. Not a good feeling to say the least. It's another reason I'd never do it again. It's a different level of emotional pain. I'd only wish it on my enemies.

The funny thing is that I tell that to women all the time; if you know a guy is a cheater then he will cheat on you, because once he knows he can deal with the fallout, he has no reason to stay faithful. I was DMing about this with another member here awhile ago.


The thing is, when you cheated, you knew it was going to painful for your wife. You knew it was going to be the biggest strain on your marriage. Her reaction didn't shock you. You didn't have to go through it to know that it was something she wasn't going to take well. My point here is that when you are in it, when you are feeling like you are on that precipice, you come up with all kinds of bullshit to balance the scales. I appreciate the thoughtful answer you gave, but it's all logic. and you understand that when you are on that precipice, logic kinda falls apart. I felt like I put up with so much bullshit for ass when I was in my 20s, and literally seconds after climaxing I would be like "hmm, this is it?" From an objective standpoint, it seems hard to believe pursuit of that feeling can be such a powerful force. But it is. It builds civilizations and empires.

For so long, what you posted was my baseline, but I have been struggling for the last few months. Fortunately, up until now, I have kept coming back to the logical conclusion that I want my life to stay like it is, but you know that's not the issue. The issue in the moment isn't how much pain I could potentially cause my wife, but how easy it would be for her to never know. It's not how big of a deal it would be to the sanctity of marriage, but how it's just this little thing that shouldn't mean anything. I can clearly see how different my view of things would be on different sides.

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