Divorce court... how fast?

[CQ]

I think if one can easily afford a huge wedding, well go for it, but to take a second mortgage as someone mentioned earlier - is not wise.

In many of the Caribbean resorts, they do wedding packages for tourists. You get the whole licence, ceremony/priest, cake, decor/flowers, food, wine all sorts of crap...all done in a beautiful tropical setting. Very cost effective, like $1,000 for just that. For ppl on the east coast USA, for like $10,000 they can fly their immediate family down, have all hotels, food for the whole stay, and the whole wedding. It is huge business here, they come in droves for weddings. Once I did see a couple leave seperately, after like 3 days all hell seemed to break lose, no idea what happened but I doubt it ended well

[drkaje]

Marriage ain't what it used to be.

[24KT]

people are such mentally weak quitters these days, they want to get divorced over every little thing, "MOM, HE LEFT THE TOILET SEAT UP, I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'M GOING TO FILE FOR DIVORCE!!!!!", adult human beings sicken me.

Leaving a toilet seat up is NOT grounds to file for divorce.
It's grounds to commit MANSLAUGHTER!

So unless you want to either die, or do time, ...have separate bathrooms.

[24KT]

I think you know what I mean but you like to start things.

   Good Grief, get a grip! I'm not starting anything. I'm giving you examples of why you cannot generalize.

  Aside from a dress for her (which isn't my responsibility as far as I'm concerned) I think a church wedding with normal flowers. 

There is no NORMAL. it all balls down to "individual tastes".
What is "NORMAL" for one is not "NORMAL" for another ...regardless of income.
Someone can be filthy rich but live a humble lifestyle, while others can have moderate means,
but very discriminating taste & high standards. Weddings for some are considered once-in-a-lifetime events,
and as such are highly individual. Don't ask a question to which you do not want the answer.

if my answer doesn't satisfy you, visit a wedding consultant, pick out what you want, and you'll have your price.

Good Luck to you!

[drkaje]

Leaving a toilet seat up is NOT grounds to file for divorce.
It's grounds to commit MANSLAUGHTER!

So unless you want to either die, or do time, ...have separate bathrooms.

Judi!!

I actually found a way to end the toilet seat debate forever... without seperate bathrooms.

[powerpack]

Leaving a toilet seat up is NOT grounds to file for divorce.
It's grounds to commit MANSLAUGHTER!

So unless you want to either die, or do time, ...have separate bathrooms.

Putting the toilet seatdown only takes a few seconds, any woman can do it if it is up..............so I never understood the biggy of this 

[danielson]

Putting the toilet seatdown only takes a few seconds, any woman can do it if it is up..............so I never understood the biggy of this 

It's cuz they fall in.

[powerpack]

It's cuz they fall in.

Oooooooooooooooohhhh!
They must look before sitting down 

[drkaje]

  Good Grief, get a grip! I'm not starting anything. I'm giving you examples of why you cannot generalize.

There is no NORMAL. it all balls down to "individual tastes".
What is "NORMAL" for one is not "NORMAL" for another ...regardless of income.
Someone can be filthy rich but live a humble lifestyle, while others can have moderate means,
but very discriminating taste & high standards. Weddings for some are considered once-in-a-lifetime events,
and as such are highly individual. Don't ask a question to which you do not want the answer.

if my answer doesn't satisfy you, visit a wedding consultant, pick out what you want, and you'll have your price.

Good Luck to you!

Judi,

In all honesty: What do you feel the divorce rate would be if people spent as much time planning their lives as they do the wedding?

A wedding is one day, marriage is allegely for life. 

[24KT]

Putting the toilet seatdown only takes a few seconds, any woman can do it if it is up..............so I never understood the biggy of this 

If you open it, ...close it.  If you turn it on, ...turn it off.
If you lift the lid, ...PUT IT THE FVCK BACK DOWN ...before I stab you repeatedly with an ice pick to your temple!

[24KT]

Judi!!

I actually found a way to end the toilet seat debate forever... without seperate bathrooms.

Why do I feel so skeered to indulge you?
...ok, what is your foolproof way to end the toilet seat debate forever... without separate bathrooms.

[drkaje]

Why do I feel so skeered to indulge you?
...ok, what is your foolproof way to end the toilet seat debate forever... without separate bathrooms.

I can't tell you. It's so brilliant that if I ever write book the foolproof method will be included. Giving it away here, for free, wouldn't make any sense at all.

[24KT]

I can't tell you. It's so brilliant that if I ever write book the foolproof method will be included. Giving it away here, for free, wouldn't make any sense at all.

{giggle} You're such a brat! 

[mbell]

mbell!!!!!!!!!   Where the heck have you been? 

Girl  I am always here ,just don't get a chance to post as much. 

[Laura Lee]

Girl  I am always here ,just don't get a chance to post as much. 

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