I'm one of those women ... I think wise women should wait till the first crop of guinea pigs drop from cardiovascular disease, cervical cancer, infertility, mental disease, or whatever the hell else side effects will be the result of f*cking that far with mother nature.
I'm coming back to this thread if I may. I said I wouldn't, but that was because silly people were being misognistic and are still posting their posing pix on a thread about monthlies. Whatever...
I've decided I don't mind finally admitting my age. I'm proud of it.
So. I went on the pill in 1972. I took it for 13 years, till I was 29. This was like the first pill, the original one, the full-on one, long before they invented mini-pills. I was very fortunate I think. I went to the free clinic with a girlfriend when we were 16. There were no tests, they just handed it over to us. This was in Toronto. Susie developed diabetes and later died of Aids. Whatever. They did say that the BC pill may have brought on the diabetes, but they didn't know. The Aids was obviously because she didn't bother with condoms and made a mistake with a guy who'd also taken risks.
So, I don't know whether I was one of those guinea pigs. It was fine for me. My period was practically non existent and I moved it to Monday by taking one extra per month for a few months, so as I wouldn't have it on weekends. So it was a few tampons on a Monday and perhaps the Tuesday. I had no PMT and no troubles. In fact, I had no sympathy for women doing their calling in sick thing and when my female staff called in and said they couldn't come to work for girly reasons, I'd tell everyone in the office they had diahorrea...
I'm digressing. I don't understand the reasoning behind this "new invention" (Other than, of course, your observation that some drug co. is making megabucks). We knew in the 70s that if you didn't want a period, you just kept taking the pills without a break. I never did that but I knew women who did.
I guess I've just been very fortunate and have also always tried to keep the right mindset. We are supposed to bleed once a month or else make babies.
xL
ps: I may have some kind of "mental disease", but I think that's genetic, socio, environmental or something. Only kidding...
pps: They did tell us in the 70s that it might perhaps cause infertility. They didn't know. But I didn't want children then anyways, I was busy with a career. And that didn't happen, because as soon as I went off the pill, (I was coming up to 30 and thought I might get ready to have kids, so I decided to come off it). So I jumped straight into a "serious" relationship. I got pregnant within 3 months and had a 'termination' (abortion to you)... So I was fertile, immediately after 13 years on the the first ever pill. No regrets whatsoever, it was a doddle, but I obviously should have insisted that he wear condoms for longer than the first 3 months.
And I have no regrets at all about not spreading my dna around and pro-creating.
What I need to think about next is whether to take the HRT !
(I don't quite understand that. We're supposed to stop bleeding around 45-50. Instead, nowadays, they sell us a new wonder drug hormone replacement which stops the hot flushes and the weird feelings, but which makes us continue to bleed. I can't figure it out.