Kwanzaa reflections: completely blown off by a sista the other day (no racist)

[Tre]

It is good not to wear your wallet on your sleeve.  Don't change a thing.

Are you getting tired of our women, Tre? 

LOL @ tired of!! 

Well, with one notable exception, your women have always treated me right, so chances are I won't be going anywhere anytime soon  ...especially since I *still* can't get a date with a black girl. 

not trying to be rude, but maybe she thought you were ugly?

I didn't think of it before, but that's entirely possible.  I may have sniffed 'gold-digger' because that's what I *wanted* her to be.  You could be right. 

[Parker]

LOL @ tired of!! 

Well, with one notable exception, your women have always treated me right, so chances are I won't be going anywhere anytime soon  ...especially since I *still* can't get a date with a black girl. 

I didn't think of it before, but that's entirely possible.  I may have sniffed 'gold-digger' because that's what I *wanted* her to be.  You could be right. 

Tre, this man was speaking to you (Bro man always is on point) The first 2 mina describes your situation right there..."understand the moment"

[Tre]

Tre, this man was speaking to you (Bro man always is on point) The first 2 mina describes your situation right there..."understand the moment"

LOL @ 'you happened to have a day off'

He was good.  Smart brotha.

[Parker]

LOL @ 'you happened to have a day off'

He was good.  Smart brotha.

If you go look at the rest of his vids, he is on point with everything...But Tre, you have to sometimes take a "L" on certain things...I do notice that many times when i am bummy (trust me I have a "homeless militant" look that I rock), I often times see women that I know if I took the beard off and was in my Jos. A Bank "look", I would have pulled them.

[dr.chimps]

Tre, this man was speaking to you (Bro man always is on point) The first 2 mina describes your situation right there..."understand the moment"

Ha! That was pretty good. Well made, too.

/'toyota money'   

[Tre]

If you go look at the rest of his vids, he is on point with everything...But Tre, you have to sometimes take a "L" on certain things...I do notice that many times when i am bummy (trust me I have a "homeless militant" look that I rock), I often times see women that I know if I took the beard off and was in my Jos. A Bank "look", I would have pulled them.

lol @ homeless militant!  That's me.  Sure, I'm a bit lazy when it comes to 'dressing' and all that shit, but while I honestly don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me, I have to admit that there is a part of me that enjoys dismissals like these, knowing that I can have pretty much whatever I want.     

I listened to a couple more of his clips overnight.  Seems like a good guy, and although not quite as book smart as I thought at first, I believe that he's got serious game.  He may be a complete poser, though, who knows.

[Parker]

lol @ homeless militant!  That's me.  Sure, I'm a bit lazy when it comes to 'dressing' and all that shit, but while I honestly don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me, I have to admit that there is a part of me that enjoys dismissals like these, knowing that I can have pretty much whatever I want.     

I listened to a couple more of his clips overnight.  Seems like a good guy, and although not quite as book smart as I thought at first, I believe that he's got serious game.  He may be a complete poser, though, who knows.

Ive suscribe to his YouTube page, and I've watch all the vids, he is consistent on what he says and does. You might want to check out the "Why black men date outside their race" vids, and the How to talk to a woman vids.

Now Tre you there is diff between knowing you can have something, and actually having it.

[wes mantooth]

I didn't think of it before, but that's entirely possible.  I may have sniffed 'gold-digger' because that's what I *wanted* her to be.  You could be right. 

LOL @ Tre

Never occurred to you that someone might not find you attractive!??    Ladies and Gentlemen......take notes. Gods gift to women has arrived.


perhaps you should start your own video blog of delusion. I think it would be worth a laugh. (perhaps AT you, not with you), but a laugh never the less.

[ManBearPig...]

when i was a single adolf youth stud, i wanted to shoot a load, or "skeet" as you coloreds say, on a black chick's ass.

never happened though.  kinda glad, because i'm pretty sure black chicks can get pregnant by osmosis.

[Tre]

LOL @ Tre

Never occurred to you that someone might not find you attractive!??    Ladies and Gentlemen......take notes. Gods gift to women has arrived.

perhaps you should start your own video blog of delusion. I think it would be worth a laugh. (perhaps AT you, not with you), but a laugh never the less.

Sounds like you're dealing with some issues there, kid.  Weren't breast-fed long enough as a child?

Pipe down until you understand why your statement on attractiveness/attraction here is not even a next logical step from the query posed previously. 

[Tre]

Ive suscribe to his YouTube page, and I've watch all the vids, he is consistent on what he says and does. You might want to check out the "Why black men date outside their race" vids, and the How to talk to a woman vids.

Now Tre you there is diff between knowing you can have something, and actually having it.

Oh, my statement about 'having' wasn't in reference to the woman (or any woman, for that matter), you know.  I was referring to the charmed life I'm fortunate enough to enjoy at this time.  That girl at the airport didn't miss out on a thing...but neither did I.

I listened to part 1 of his ' dating outside the race' rant, but although the point about attitudes was valid, he seemed to ramble on and I didn't think his examples were that funny.  He's got a pretty nice presentation style overall.  I'll check out some more of the clips. (no homo)

[wes mantooth]

Sounds like you're dealing with some issues there, kid.  Weren't breast-fed long enough as a child?

Pipe down until you understand why your statement on attractiveness/attraction here is not even a next logical step from the query posed previously. 

perhaps you should re read some of your own posts at the top of the page there tiger. settle down yourself. I find it hilarious that someone didnt give you the time of day and that seems to be an error in THEIR judgment? hahha. You seem like a real catch...

you got dissed and tried to make her look to be the bad person, labeling her as a gold digger because you dress like shit. The reality is, she was probably not attracted to you...and the fact that you looked like a self described "bum" didnt help the issue. What i found amusing is that you blamed her for your potential inadequacies as a suitor, and not even recognizing that you could have simply been "not her type".


i was on the formula...perhaps thats my problem.

[Tapeworm]

LOL @ tired of!! 

Well, with one notable exception, your women have always treated me right, so chances are I won't be going anywhere anytime soon  ...especially since I *still* can't get a date with a black girl. 

I noticed one (the only one) on a singles site here.  Give me 36 hours and I'll get back to you with the how to. 

[johnnynoname]

tre,

not to make you even more upset but the sista's LOVE ME

i think cuz they think i'm like a broke version of enrique iglesias  (or, at least, that is what i tell myself)

[Tre]

perhaps you should re read some of your own posts at the top of the page there tiger. settle down yourself. I find it hilarious that someone didnt give you the time of day and that seems to be an error in THEIR judgment? hahha. You seem like a real catch...

you got dissed and tried to make her look to be the bad person, labeling her as a gold digger because you dress like shit. The reality is, she was probably not attracted to you...and the fact that you looked like a self described "bum" didnt help the issue. What i found amusing is that you blamed her for your potential inadequacies as a suitor, and not even recognizing that you could have simply been "not her type".

i was on the formula...perhaps thats my problem.

Even though we're only talking about, perhaps a 2-3 second interaction, I'm willing to bet money that my overall assessment was spot-on. 

We already know she wasn't attracted to me - that was conceded at the start - but would that have precluded a polite exchange of neither-of-us-is-interested pleasantries?  That's the next progression.  I didn't feel I was owed anything as a black person, but as a person, my thought was that the right thing to do was to acknowledge one another.  She obviously did not agree. 

I drew the conclusion that she wasn't attracted to me in a way that would garner more than a token acknowledgment because of my style of dress (or lack thereof).  If it were possible for an independent party to interview her at some point afterwards, I guarantee that would've been one of the first 2 reasons she'd give for her actions in that situation, the other being that she didn't have the time.

[Tre]

I noticed one (the only one) on a singles site here.  Give me 36 hours and I'll get back to you with the how to. 

LOL! 

The whole internet dating thing is all the rage now, I know, but it's so not me (been there, done that back in the 90s when it was cool).  My young friends tell me to get with the program, but I'm anti.  Facebook is great for a quick hookup, but that's about it.  Webcam is cool, too, but again, that's just sex.  There are only two women who want to cook for me and the problem is that one of them is married, the other is totally fucked in the head, and neither of them is black. *sigh* (no racist)   

tre,

not to make you even more upset but the sista's LOVE ME

i think cuz they think i'm like a broke version of enrique iglesias  (or, at least, that is what i tell myself)

I ain't mad at ya!  Do ya thang....

[wes mantooth]

Even though we're only talking about, perhaps a 2-3 second interaction, I'm willing to bet money that my overall assessment was spot-on. 

We already know she wasn't attracted to me - that was conceded at the start - but would that have precluded a polite exchange of neither-of-us-is-interested pleasantries?  That's the next progression.  I didn't feel I was owed anything as a black person, but as a person, my thought was that the right thing to do was to acknowledge one another.  She obviously did not agree. 

I drew the conclusion that she wasn't attracted to me in a way that would garner more than a token acknowledgment because of my style of dress (or lack thereof).  If it were possible for an independent party to interview her at some point afterwards, I guarantee that would've been one of the first 2 reasons she'd give for her actions in that situation, the other being that she didn't have the time.

understood. youre first post seemed extremely arrogant....

these are the reflections of a man with a more level head.

[Parker]

tre,

not to make you even more upset but the sista's LOVE ME

i think cuz they think i'm like a broke version of enrique iglesias  (or, at least, that is what i tell myself)

Whats the secret, I'm tryna get them to accept my "I want you look at my inner self, rather than my outer self" aka homeless black bearded militant/zen look. And Lucy, it ain't workin!