However, I truly feel that one of the best parts of sex is that is that is the Climax of the build up caused by the courting process
I feel exactly the same., I was bought a hooker once in Amsterdam, but it felt too impersonal, so didn't go through with it. We all went and got ourselves hookers, as you do in Amsterdam. Went into this brothel, we all picked our girls we wanted, got given rooms. Mine walked in, she was Latvian, lovely creature. Asked if I wanted porn on whilst we're fucking. Didn't really know what to say, so I just told her to go ahead and stick it on. She did, came to the bed, asked me if I wanted her naked, or just to pull up her skirt. By now I had no idea, as it was such a new situation to me. She didn't really seemed happy to be there, so I asked her if we can just talk instead, as I didn't really wanted to have sex. We ended up lying on the bed, just chatting about her country, places we've visited, etc. She completely warmed to me and myself to her. Like talking to a good friend. With 5min left, she said it was nice talking to a gentleman and asked if I wanted a blowjob. I was shocked, almost angry. I couldn't get out of there fast enough.