I've noticed he's very discreet about his sex life; like he doesn't want to normalize his gayness on here. My guess is it's due to his upbringing in a Black family, which generally means you keep that kind of thing to yourself or get your ghetto pass revoked. After 20+ years of doing this, he learned to internalize his obvious thirst for white cum in his hungry pink mouth.
If black culture is anything like Mexican-American culture, it might by hard to coming out. I got this gay Mexican-American friend, dude didn’t come out until college cause of Mexican machismo culture. Dude was/is very manly, in college, our group of friends would go to parties and shit, and he would bang chicks. We learn later he was just trying to become straight.
But when you’re a flaming queen like Melvin, hard to hid you’re gay.
He learned his lesson and never did it again. Wish you'd saved it though!
Just him trying to pretend he is a top.