I met this girl at work.
She is really introverted and always has her face in her phone. But she is very attractive and I think she has a pretty good social life with her friends. She is single.
I work in an environment where it is hard to talk to other co-workers, and you rarely get a chance for a quick chat if you are lucky. Mostly just passing each other for a few moments and you've got to try to capitalize on the smallest chance. Basically we have just shared very few words. Only a few short brief hellos and very light banter.
I gave her the eye on a few occasions, very clearly, and frankly didn't feel she was showing any interest.
I also thought she seemed really uptight around me. So I figure she doesn't like my attention.
BUT I noticed she would regularly walk right past my desk on the way to her desk even though there was an equally quick route where she could avoid my desk completely.
The main thing I noticed though, is that I park in a really remote area a fair way from the office that almost no one from my workplace uses. We have over 100 staff. And suddenly I see she is parking there, right next to my car! She has been doing that for weeks now. But we never meet on the way to our cars. We are always walking there at slightly different times.
So guys what do you think?
Any advice?
I would be most grateful if some experienced men could help.
Clearly this woman likes you. She is dropping big hints. If you walked right up to her tomorrow and asked her out odds are you will be rejected. Why? Women are stupid. More precisely, women like what they can't have. They enjoy the process. So how do you end up boning this goddess until you are bored of her tight pussy?
Talk to other girls in the office, be very nice. Walk past her desk more frequently but not in a creepy way. Buy a pair of reflector sunglasses. You know the type with hidden reflection sides of the glasses, totally unknown. See what her interest level is when you turn your back and leave (make sure you don't leave these around). Keep up your frequency of bumping into her but play it up that she isn't that interesting for you. After a few months of this nonsense, ask her out to something small like lunch with a group. It will grow from there. Never cave in and let her know how much you really like her. That will ruin everything.
P.S. I took 4 social psychology courses at university. Women really are clueless, so you have to push her emotions. She won't have any idea why her crush for you keeps growing. She sounds like one of those hot girls that is so shy people assume she has little interest and move on.
