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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #25 on: September 10, 2018, 01:57:58 PM »
10 years for that? You can kill someone over here and serve less than that.
No man is ever obligated to pay for some dumb whores food, women who need to be taken out on for dinner are far too much effort
You ask, you pay. Unless there is an agreement otherwise.
That being said, there are a fair amount of women who are serial daters, who just go on dates for free food, or ditch the guy after eating.

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #26 on: September 10, 2018, 02:03:12 PM »
You ask, you pay. Unless there is an agreement otherwise.
That being said, there are a fair amount of women who are serial daters, who just go on dates for free food, or ditch the guy after eating.

I’d never ask, taking a woman out for a meal is far to much work, you can go out on the drink and easily find women who will fuck you that very night with little effort and no expenditure on your behalf, yes they are whores but if you just want to get your end away who cares?

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #27 on: September 10, 2018, 02:31:28 PM »
very common for a sentence to be "up to" and in reality, never gets past probation and fines. Dude was a jerk no doubt. But time served would likely be enough.

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #28 on: September 10, 2018, 03:42:46 PM »
Stiffing is wrong regardless if it is a woman or a man doing it. I suspect that in most cases everyone at the table participates, leaving the restaurant in the lurch. Maybe this fellow was making a statement. He took a risk doing it and he ended up being a loser whose going to prison.

There's plenty of women who go on dates without a wallet, fully expecting that the meal is going to be complimentary just because they were born with a hole between their legs. What would they do if their date didn't have the money? They're all potential bill-stiffers if their date won't foot the bill, which unfortunately they always do (except in this case). It was definitely a statement; he'd probably grown tired of women wasting his time and taking his money.
 
Many men still believe it is their responsibility to take care of women, even today when some women are fighting for equality between the sexes. This is learned behavior based on tradition.

That's because they're stuck in a time warp with their heads up their asses. The women of 2018 aren't the women of 1955. They don't deserve anything but our extreme contempt and condescension for their self-centered attitudes and inflated sense of entitlement. Fuck them.

One time when I was a teenager hanging out with friends, the gals decided they wanted to steal some steaks from a store. My buddy and I went in with them. We tried to discourage them, but they were hell-bent on committing the crime. My friend and I bought a few items and went to the car. A few minutes later the gals came running out of the store laughing and excitedly jumped in the car saying "let's go." Turns out they'd chickened out, so all was good.


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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #29 on: September 10, 2018, 03:45:19 PM »
very common for a sentence to be "up to" and in reality, never gets past probation and fines. Dude was a jerk no doubt. But time served would likely be enough.

Nope. This isn't 1992. He'll get a long stretch behind bars just for doing what women do on a regular basis. Welcome to post-feminist, post-MeToo America. Men are guilty until proven innocent in court, but guilty regardless on social media AKA the yardstick by which society measures your integrity/employability.

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #30 on: September 10, 2018, 07:19:12 PM »
on a sour note,  Les Moonves is fired by CBS, courtesy of #metoo.....I lost count how many Great Men of power have bitten the dust since 2017 and counting....Only in 'Merica

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #31 on: September 10, 2018, 08:29:27 PM »
I  think this guy ordered the foods, a lot of expensive items, and bailed out on the restaurant and woman.     It is called stealing from the restaurant, just like stealing something from a store, and he is going to pay for it.

As for being responsible in paying for a date.  If he asked her on a date, you should pay for dinner.   If she asked you, she should pay for dinner.   If they both asked each other, mutually, hey lets go to dinner, it should be equal or whoever feels like paying. 
It was a TOTAL of $1000 over 8 dinners, 1000~8=$125 per date. That should be 10 years in prison and $315k bail??? Punishment is far too harsh for the crime, typical California bullshit.
Liar!!!!Filt!!!!

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #32 on: September 10, 2018, 08:30:14 PM »
very common for a sentence to be "up to" and in reality, never gets past probation and fines. Dude was a jerk no doubt. But time served would likely be enough.
$315k bail???
Liar!!!!Filt!!!!

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #33 on: September 11, 2018, 01:54:26 AM »
on a sour note,  Les Moonves is fired by CBS, courtesy of #metoo.....I lost count how many Great Men of power have bitten the dust since 2017 and counting....Only in 'Merica
If it wasn't for Les, CBS would've been eating out of cable's hand by now. All the major networks are crap: 1 hour of liberal nightly news, soap operas nobody watches during the day, and stupid fucking sitcoms or pseudo-scientific bullshit cop shows with underwear models as detectives and every storyline explained to the viewer like to a 3 year old with autism.

He turned it around with investments and other non-TV assets like real estate across the world with the CBS logo on it under license, adding college basketball to the portfolio, and much more. He's also married to a pretty hot woman. Who cares if he asked a few of them out 20 years ago? All lies, as usual. This metoo overreach is part of a liberal agenda to rinse the major industries of their powerful men and replace them with women, as happened at Fox News after Roger Ailes and O'Reilly got pushed out and lots of other places.

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #34 on: September 11, 2018, 02:26:16 AM »
That being said, there are a fair amount of women who are serial daters, who just go on dates for free food, or ditch the guy after eating.

Otherwise known as  every single woman under 30.

very common for a sentence to be "up to" and in reality, never gets past probation and fines. Dude was a jerk no doubt. But time served would likely be enough.

Yeah, it's pretty unlikely he'll see anything close to that. The bail is high, but they're trying to charge him on extortion counts, which will make actual convictions even more unlikely.


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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #35 on: September 11, 2018, 05:17:50 AM »
Take your dates to McDonalds and save $$.
This , pro tip: let them super size if your looking for some action 8)

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #36 on: September 11, 2018, 06:50:09 AM »
If it wasn't for Les, CBS would've been eating out of cable's hand by now. All the major networks are crap: 1 hour of liberal nightly news, soap operas nobody watches during the day, and stupid fucking sitcoms or pseudo-scientific bullshit cop shows with underwear models as detectives and every storyline explained to the viewer like to a 3 year old with autism.

He turned it around with investments and other non-TV assets like real estate across the world with the CBS logo on it under license, adding college basketball to the portfolio, and much more. He's also married to a pretty hot woman. Who cares if he asked a few of them out 20 years ago? All lies, as usual. This metoo overreach is part of a liberal agenda to rinse the major industries of their powerful men and replace them with women, as happened at Fox News after Roger Ailes and O'Reilly got pushed out and lots of other places.


All truth....

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #37 on: September 11, 2018, 09:11:27 AM »
$315k bail???

That's on average 6 times the amount I would get for a husband who beat his wife to the point of bruises. So yeah, seems out of wack

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #38 on: September 11, 2018, 10:15:08 AM »
Wimmens is serious about eatin'.

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #39 on: September 11, 2018, 10:14:49 PM »
This kind of moves us into the "Marriage for the average male is a losing proposition' topic. If you have a GI Joe Collection and you marry without a prenup, you are an idiot

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #40 on: September 12, 2018, 04:54:46 AM »
This kind of moves us into the "Marriage for the average male is a losing proposition' topic. If you have a GI Joe Collection and you marry without a prenup, you are an idiot

Say goodbye to your comic book and baseball cards too.

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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #41 on: September 12, 2018, 06:33:05 AM »
Don't take women you barely know or want to get to know out for dinner.

This is a big waste of your money.  It's dumb.

Ask them out for a cup of coffee or to lunch or something inexpensive.  Better do some activity with them like go to the beach or a museum. 

If they are into you it doesn't matter what you do really.  If they are not you haven't wasted your money.




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Re: Are men responsible to pay for dinner on a date
« Reply #42 on: September 12, 2018, 08:32:43 AM »
Men are only responsible if they are white. Because they are privileged ::)