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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #100 on: December 29, 2019, 03:00:22 PM »
FYI, "genocide" is about wiping out a specific ethnic or religious group.
Last I looked abortions are chosen and performed on every race, creed and color of female.

yes, abortions are never perfomed on males...

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #102 on: January 01, 2020, 12:49:25 PM »
FYI, "genocide" is about wiping out a specific ethnic or religious group.
Last I looked abortions are chosen and performed on every race, creed and color of female.

You’re a tool if you believe that


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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #103 on: January 01, 2020, 01:32:36 PM »
I believe most men who belittle husbands are those who never even had a shot at being wanted enough by a woman to even be a husband. It’s a cope.

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #104 on: January 01, 2020, 04:51:33 PM »
You’re a tool if you believe that



You are a retard since you don't.   ;D

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #105 on: January 01, 2020, 08:08:00 PM »
I believe most men who belittle husbands are those who never even had a shot at being wanted enough by a woman to even be a husband. It’s a cope.

I think most men who belittle husbands who cry at seeing their wife are men who have experienced some or all of the fairy tale and after some amount of time, been hideously rebutted and then have had to basically completely chalk off the experience as a temporary high that wasn't built on the foundation of "real".

So to clarify, I think you're quite wrong.

And to be clear - I don't think as these men, I wish the husbands well.  Some of them will genuinely be able to keep those moments as a cherished memory for the rest of their life.  What a great feeling.

I also do not think that there are many people in here who are belittling these people.  I think we're mostly on the same page.

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« Reply #106 on: January 02, 2020, 12:35:45 AM »
I believe most men who belittle husbands are those who never even had a shot at being wanted enough by a woman to even be a husband. It’s a cope.

Not everyone wants that kind of lifestyle.

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #107 on: January 02, 2020, 12:37:17 AM »
It would be good if it was extremely difficult to get divorced.

Divorces ruin families and cause damage and instability in society.

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« Reply #108 on: January 02, 2020, 03:28:52 AM »
It would be good if it was extremely difficult to get divorced.

Divorces ruin families and cause damage and instability in society.

Truth..

It's just another part of modern society that has added to the increasing perversion we see today..

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #109 on: January 02, 2020, 01:14:14 PM »
Very profound. Yes, most women can turn off their love for a guy in a heart beat.
^THIS^

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #110 on: January 02, 2020, 02:23:49 PM »
Abortions performed in the US alone


1973-2013: 56.5 million+

Incredible.

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« Reply #111 on: January 03, 2020, 10:06:15 AM »
^THIS^

My experiences suggest that guys fall harder than gals, but either can fall out of romantic love with someone just as quickly, depending on the situation. Lust is fleeting in almost all relationships. Real lasting love is as much about friendship as it is love. Even if the romance wanes, the friendship usually continues and often gets couples through the rough times.

My wife's and my friends were having marriage difficulties. They tried marriage counseling. Frustrated over the situation, she asked for a divorce thinking he'd put up a fight. However he was all for the divorce...the sooner the better. After the divorce, they barely ever spoke. The ex-wife never married. He had a whole new life with a new wife, but it unfortunately did not include his three daughters by his first wife. The girls are adults with children of their own. They never speak about or to their dad.

My late wife and I were the only couple in our group of friends who never separated or divorced. Our best friend is on her fourth relationship. She was married three times prior to this partnership, which has lasted the longest. In our group, all the guys remarried while some of the women never did. Maybe men have more difficulty living alone than women do.

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #112 on: January 03, 2020, 11:38:32 AM »
My experiences suggest that guys fall harder than gals, but either can fall out of romantic love with someone just as quickly, depending on the situation. Lust is fleeting in almost all relationships. Real lasting love is as much about friendship as it is love. Even if the romance wanes, the friendship usually continues and often gets couples through the rough times.

My wife's and my friends were having marriage difficulties. They tried marriage counseling. Frustrated over the situation, she asked for a divorce thinking he'd put up a fight. However he was all for the divorce...the sooner the better. After the divorce, they barely ever spoke. The ex-wife never married. He had a whole new life with a new wife, but it unfortunately did not include his three daughters by his first wife. The girls are adults with children of their own. They never speak about or to their dad.

My late wife and I were the only couple in our group of friends who never separated or divorced. Our best friend is on her fourth relationship. She was married three times prior to this partnership, which has lasted the longest. In our group, all the guys remarried while some of the women never did. Maybe men have more difficulty living alone than women do.
I think men do have more difficulty living alone,at least at first.  After I got divorced my first instinct was to find wife #2.  After living alone for a while that changed especially after seeing friends go through several relationships.  I lived with 2 more women but never even considered marriage again and that's probably why those relationships ended. ;D

I think it would be very difficult for me to ever live with anyone again.  Waking up everyday, doing whatever I want 24/7 is very hard to give up.

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #113 on: January 03, 2020, 12:16:26 PM »
I think men do have more difficulty living alone,at least at first.  After I got divorced my first instinct was to find wife #2.  After living alone for a while that changed especially after seeing friends go through several relationships.  I lived with 2 more women but never even considered marriage again and that's probably why those relationships ended. ;D

I think it would be very difficult for me to ever live with anyone again.  Waking up everyday, doing whatever I want 24/7 is very hard to give up.

I agree that adapting to a new partner can be difficult. After over 52 years with the same person, I have no interest in adapting to someone new. It helps that I don't live alone. Like you, I'm free to do pretty much whatever I want with my day. My only absolute obligation is to myself.   

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #114 on: January 03, 2020, 12:22:18 PM »
I agree that adapting to a new partner can be difficult. After over 52 years with the same person, I have no interest in adapting to someone new. It helps that I don't live alone. Like you, I'm free to do pretty much whatever I want with my day. My only absolute obligation is to myself.   
Every woman I have ever dated was a type A personality who has to be structured and planning activities constantly.  Even vacation meant every minute being accounted for with activities non stop.  I am a type B personality who likes to lay around the house and be lazy, a real home body. :D

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #115 on: January 03, 2020, 12:30:10 PM »
Every woman I have ever dated was a type A personality who has to be structured and planning activities constantly.  Even vacation meant every minute being accounted for with activities non stop.  I am a type B personality who likes to lay around the house and be lazy, a real home body. :D

This should make you compatible with your type A girlfriends. Opposites attract, they say. The problem with this can be when the type A person insists the type B person do things they would prefer not to do. It's very difficult to convince type A people to occasionally chill. Compromise is key.

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #116 on: January 03, 2020, 05:34:36 PM »
This should make you compatible with your type A girlfriends. Opposites attract, they say. The problem with this can be when the type A person insists the type B person do things they would prefer not to do. It's very difficult to convince type A people to occasionally chill. Compromise is key.

Research shows that on average, opposites don’t attract.

It’s just a stupid, cliche saying to make people feel good.
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« Reply #117 on: January 03, 2020, 09:58:46 PM »
The saying isn't to make people feel good, really.  It's to highlight the fact that some (probably a lot) people try to be with what floats their boat - as opposed to what will make a sustainable relationship.  Who can blame them?  The initial hit of a relationship is all about floating that boat.  It doesn't seem right to be seeking someone with the mindset of long term and not really feeling a super strong lust for someone.  Sometimes, it works - they meet at the middle and are no longer opposites - but the opposites attract thing is  why the nice guy never wins.  The nice guy is always a better long term partner, in theory because they are on similar wavelengths, therefore he is nice to her - but he does not get the motor running in his friend.  She will never learn about this until she has been defeated a thousand times by the men she prefers, who consistently fail - because they aren't good long term partners.

The other complication is that there is probably something to the idea that attraction partially forms at the prospect of watching a person change to be more like yourself.  All of us have had tingly moments when a girl has done something a little more like we would and thought "oh yeah, making my mark".

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #118 on: January 03, 2020, 11:56:38 PM »
Research shows that on average, opposites don’t attract.

It’s just a stupid, cliche saying to make people feel good.

No argument here. I suspect complete opposites would be living in hell if they lived together.

On the surface my wife and I appeared to be complete opposites. However looking deeper, our past experiences and subsequently our values were actually more alike than they were different. Maybe we were each unique in our own way and therefore independant enough to insure that our relationship would always be interesting and never boring. Damn, I miss her so much right now!

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« Reply #119 on: January 04, 2020, 12:55:51 AM »
No argument here. I suspect complete opposites would be living in hell if they lived together.

On the surface my wife and I appeared to be complete opposites. However looking deeper, our past experiences and subsequently our values were actually more alike than they were different. Maybe we were each unique in our own way and therefore independant enough to insure that our relationship would always be interesting and never boring. Damn, I miss her so much right now!


Simple solution: convert to islam, get yourself kill & you'll get 72 virgins (just like Iranian general) !.

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #120 on: January 04, 2020, 04:46:57 AM »
This is why wahmen should banned from the forum.  We would be permanently knee deep in vapid, meaningless text resembling a last minute, gas station birthday or Christmas card written by a Chinese man then translated into english.

Wahmen are sort of low effort organisms in general.  Life takes the path of least resistance in evolutionary terms, so as long wahmen believe the sheer act of existing and being a 3/10 or higher makes them some sort of valuable resource, and loser men worship them for this fact and put them up on a pedestal, it's a system of positive reinforcement creating an endless assembly line of more bimbos.  Primemuscle is probably around a 2/10, just under the 3/10 threshold for wahmen believing they're some sort of deity that should be worshipped instead of negative yielding assets, so her posts are much higher effort; but still, being a wahmen, completely terrible.

To top things off, the flooding of countries with 3rd world brown zombies amplifies this phenomenon exponentially higher.  Virtually nobody wants to invest in negative yielding assets (white women), and even less people want junk bonds (brown women).  So the demand that does exist is entirely for white bimbos.  Importing a bunch of brown zombies just lopsides the demand of white bimbos to be vastly higher than supply, making white bimbos think they're delusionally even more valuable and important than they already are.  It's a lose/lose scenario for everyone except bimbos whose relative worth skyrockets, until they hit their expiration date of 25.  Then the bimbos themselves lose because they irrationally thought their value was ridiculously higher than it really is and don't even know how to act at that point.

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #121 on: January 04, 2020, 06:51:16 AM »
This is why wahmen should banned from the forum.  We would be permanently knee deep in vapid, meaningless text resembling a last minute, gas station birthday or Christmas card written by a Chinese man then translated into english.

Wahmen are sort of low effort organisms in general.  Life takes the path of least resistance in evolutionary terms, so as long wahmen believe the sheer act of existing and being a 3/10 or higher makes them some sort of valuable resource, and loser men worship them for this fact and put them up on a pedestal, it's a system of positive reinforcement creating an endless assembly line of more bimbos.  Primemuscle is probably around a 2/10, just under the 3/10 threshold for wahmen believing they're some sort of deity that should be worshipped instead of negative yielding assets, so her posts are much higher effort; but still, being a wahmen, completely terrible.

To top things off, the flooding of countries with 3rd world brown zombies amplifies this phenomenon exponentially higher.  Virtually nobody wants to invest in negative yielding assets (white women), and even less people want junk bonds (brown women).  So the demand that does exist is entirely for white bimbos.  Importing a bunch of brown zombies just lopsides the demand of white bimbos to be vastly higher than supply, making white bimbos think they're delusionally even more valuable and important than they already are.  It's a lose/lose scenario for everyone except bimbos whose relative worth skyrockets, until they hit their expiration date of 25.  Then the bimbos themselves lose because they irrationally thought their value was ridiculously higher than it really is and don't even know how to act at that point.

if thats true you must be a woman...

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Re: Men cry upon seeing their brides
« Reply #122 on: January 04, 2020, 04:27:58 PM »
Men cry sometimes