I've fought some people I'd never be attracted to...
Au contraire, Med. Like sex, fighting necessitates attraction. If you desire physical contact with something, you're certainly attracted to it. Fighting is a way to get closer. We want to poke it, pinch it, punch it, and perhaps destroy it, because we're SEDUCED by something about it. Something's drawing us into the deal of risking life and limb. The INTENTIONS of fighting and f*cking might be different. Fighting's intended to produce pain and sex pleasure, but OUR BRAINS DON'T KNOW THE DIFFERENCE. Pain and pleasure are processed in the same part of the brain, resulting in the same sensation: STIMULATION. For this reason, many women have an orgasm when giving birth, and many men have I-don't know-what when viewing Rocky 1-6. (And that's my blizzard of bullshit for the day. God, I LOVE these vigorous intellectual discussions! Thanks for putting up with me!)