Progressive Parents decide not to tell family & ppl their 4 mo old's gender...

[Grape Ape]

 there are innate differences, of course. however the vast majority of behavior is learned. the idea is to let the child determine what makes it happy on its own instead of telling it what it should like and not letting it do things considered "unfit" for its gender.

And how is this accomplished by not telling family and friends the gender of the child?

[Parker]

yup
   of course they are offering guidance. they just arent putting limitations on their child, or forcing it in a certain direction.  what other people think of the child is of no concern.

 there are innate differences, of course. however the vast majority of behavior is learned. the idea is to let the child determine what makes it happy on its own instead of telling it what it should like and not letting it do things considered "unfit" for its gender.

I have to tell you, one of the many duties of beig a parent is setting limitations...For instance, there is this video of this 11 yr old boy who throws a fit because he wants to have his nails done like his mother while he is in the salon with her...Now, where were the mothers limitations? A parent IS suppose to guide the child...as ultimately the child is supposed to continue the bloodlines...also, a man is suppose to be a pillar of his community, weak males equal chaos...women control the quality of men---firstly thru their sons...which is why you see lots of black men incarcerated or gay---their mothers were bad parents...

[JimmyJam1974]

I have to tell you, weak males equal chaos..

[tbombz]

And how is this accomplished by not telling family and friends the gender of the child?

its 4 months old. y the fuck is the childs genetalia on the family & friends' minds in the first place??

its a principle thing. making the sex known will change how the child is treated. that alone is enough to keep the sex hidden. equal treatment.

I have to tell you, one of the many duties of beig a parent is setting limitations...For instance, there is this video of this 11 yr old boy who throws a fit because he wants to have his nails done like his mother while he is in the salon with her...Now, where were the mothers limitations? A parent IS suppose to guide the child...as ultimately the child is supposed to continue the bloodlines...also, a man is suppose to be a pillar of his community, weak males equal chaos...women control the quality of men---firstly thru their sons...which is why you see lots of black men incarcerated or gay---their mothers were bad parents...

yea homosexuality is the result of bad parenting.    idiot

its a parents duty to set limitations? only if the goal of the paret is to handicap the child, render them incapable of making important decisions on their own, never experiencing failure or pain..    

also, a man is suppose to be a pillar of his community, weak males equal chaos...

and how exactly does that relate to anything?   most homosexual men i meet are much more sure of themselves and confident than the straight guys i meet.  gays make fun of women, talk to them, challenge them, make their male superiority well known. straight guys bow down to women, fawn over them, laugh and smile all the fucking time...    you want a stronger society get rid of all the pussy ass hetero sexual "men" in the world..       

[HTexan]

its 4 months old. y the fuck is the childs genetalia on the family & friends' minds in the first place??

its a principle thing. making the sex known will change how the child is treated. that alone is enough to keep the sex hidden. equal treatment.



 yea homosexuality is the result of bad parenting.    idiot

its a parents duty to set limitations? only if the goal of the paret is to handicap the child, render them incapable of making important decisions on their own, never experiencing failure or pain..    

becuase using your baby to prove your "principle" is classy?

[tbombz]

becuase using your baby to prove your "principle" is classy?

  protecting your child from discirimination, idiot

[Tre]

its 4 months old. y the fuck is the childs genetalia on the family & friends' minds in the first place??

its a principle thing. making the sex known will change how the child is treated. that alone is enough to keep the sex hidden. equal treatment.

Retarded families in retarded societies generally raise retarded kids.

[Parker]

^^^yep, T homsexuality "can" be the result of "bad" parenting...parenting in the manner of this...and even a noted pyschologist had said this...plus I see this everyday:example everybody thinks Kanye is "suspect", but he grew up with a dominate female, so he takes on her traits--and feminine ones. Many black males that see do the same, like kirking out, having a atittude, rolling eyes, being overly dramatic, overly sensitive, being manipulative, all feminine traits. And then many times, the women encourage such behavior by taking ro the salons with them, and telling them to "stop acting like your father"...meaning stop acting with male attributes---sometimes this leads ro men going down a diff road...
Being a bad parent comes in many forms...

Ask yourself, where did your folks fail---how did they fail? What made you fat? What made you ha e addiction to drugs, and before the drugs? Why do you have a addictive personality? Chances are, you can trace it back to your parents....

[HTexan]

  protecting your child from discirimination, idiot

discrimination against being a baby girl or baby boy? lol and i'm an idiot? you a simple dick riding loser.

[tbombz]

^^^yep, T homsexuality "can" be the result of "bad" parenting...parenting in the manner of this...and even a noted pyschologist had said this...plus I see this everyday:example everybody thinks Kanye is "suspect", but he grew up with a dominate female, so he takes on her traits--and feminine ones. Many black males that see do the same, like kirking out, having a atittude, rolling eyes, being overly dramatic, overly sensitive, being manipulative, all feminine traits. And then many times, the women encourage such behavior by taking ro the salons with them, and telling them to "stop acting like your father"...meaning stop acting with male attributes---sometimes this leads ro men going down a diff road...
Being a bad parent comes in many forms...

Ask yourself, where did your folks fail---how did they fail? What made you fat? What made you ha e addiction to drugs, and before the drugs? Why do you have a addictive personality? Chances are, you can trace it back to your parents....

your still being stupid even though your making more sense

yeah a household with only one parent, or only one effective parent, will result in a child that is lopsided. 

discrimination against being a baby girl or baby boy? lol and i'm an idiot? you a simple dick riding loser.

discrimination aka being treated differently than others based on something outside of your control.

[Grape Ape]

its 4 months old. y the fuck is the childs genetalia on the family & friends' minds in the first place??

its a principle thing. making the sex known will change how the child is treated. that alone is enough to keep the sex hidden. equal treatment.
 

Bullshit.  What are they going to do to a between the ages of 0-6 months that could possibly have any influence on the child?    What is this "treatment"?  The child won't remember a thing.  And, by the time it IS able to remember and be influenced, it's gender should be obvious.

This is all for show.

[Fury]

Don't these assholes have anything better to do with their time. Why don't they go build some houses for habitat for humanity and show how rebellious they really are. 

[Natural Man]

someone ban taylorfaggot once and for all, it's painful to read so many stupidities.

[Captain Equipoise]

this is good news.

its not good for a person to be submerged in their gender role without knowing of and about the other gender, the differences between the two, the pros and cons, the way the two interact in the world, etc.

women tend to become nasty bitches and men idiot assholes.. when they are molded into their gender role with no concern

STFU you fruity idiot

[Tre]

^^^yep, T homsexuality "can" be the result of "bad" parenting...parenting in the manner of this...and even a noted pyschologist had said this...plus I see this everyday:example everybody thinks Kanye is "suspect", but he grew up with a dominate female, so he takes on her traits--and feminine ones. Many black males that see do the same, like kirking out, having a attitude, rolling eyes, being overly dramatic, overly sensitive, being manipulative, all feminine traits. And then many times, the women encourage such behavior by taking to the salons with them, and telling them to "stop acting like your father"...meaning stop acting with male attributes---sometimes this leads to men going down a diff road...
Being a bad parent comes in many forms...

Ask yourself, where did your folks fail---how did they fail? What made you fat? What made you ha e addiction to drugs, and before the drugs? Why do you have a addictive personality? Chances are, you can trace it back to your parents....

'Suspect', what?  That n*gga gay, not that there's anything wrong with that. 

My parents kicked ass.  They made me strong and independent and never endorsed bad behavior or tolerated disrespect.  From an early age, they let me own my decisions and the payoffs - or consequences - that came with them. 

My baby mama was a coddler and rationalizes bad behavior, especially when it involves her sister's kids. 

[Parker]

your still being stupid even though your making more sense

yeah a household with only one parent, or only one effective parent, will result in a child that is lopsided.  



 discrimination aka being treated differently than others based on something outside of your control.

Exactly, can a woman raise a man? No, and also no woman can show or tell a her young son how to pee...you have little boys now who sit on the pot to pee, because their mothers taught them that way...

look around you...ever notice that human babes are born pretty much helpless? Whereas other animals can walk or run faster than a human can, minutes after being born (listen to Dr. Gabor Mate). That is because we are born prematurely, and as such we need both parents to be effective. Unfortunately, the Baby Boomer Parenting Guidebook stipulates that one parents their children in a guise of "me"...only for selfish motives...not eating with them, not correcting them, not teaching them, basically a hands off approach.

[wes]

I`d crack their fucking heads together!

[Parker]

'Suspect', what?  That n*gga gay, not that there's anything wrong with that. 

My parents kicked ass.  They made me strong and independent and never endorsed bad behavior or tolerated disrespect.  From an early age, they let me own my decisions and the payoffs - or consequences - that came with them. 

My baby mama was a coddler and rationalizes bad behavior, especially when it involves her sister's kids. 

I'll wait until Amber Rose says that...
But, Nicki Manij has said that she was trying to talk to him (she was feeling him) and he was looking at porn, and he wouldn't turn around to talk to her, he was too interested in the porno chicks...