Flint, I know you are young and I laughed at some of your drug advice but what you wrote below is brilliant and spot on. It takes a different mentality for "online dating" If it drags on too long you just become on of many the bitch tags along. Meeting in person early is key. At that point you seal the deal or you will just be a pawn.
I was blind thinking this whore was into me and actually wanted more. Funny thing is I read a lot of her texts again and I seem to get the feeling her profile was bullshit from the start. She claims to be 29 but a lot of what she wrote sounded like a young teen.
I need a vegas trip again to meet some nice whores.
Dont listen to these cats dude. LOL at thinking anyone cant catch relationships over the phone is not very smart to begin with or doesnt have much experience with women anyways. Ive gotten closer via text than with girls I was with in commited relationships in real life.
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Meet this chick out of state ,( wherei was going seng to be originally moving to so i set my profile up for there) we started talking and. With time we started getting pretty close, talking to eachother every day for hours. She was a real chick I knew where she worked everything made her send lots of pics etc...
. Anyways- . She offered to pay for my trip to fly me out to Texas to visit her for a week of sex.....no strings attached girl was 22 every teenagers dream I was barely 19 at the time. .I was so busy with my job at the time I worked landscaping 5 days a week and could never get any time off to fly out and see her. Here we are FOUR months later still talking on the phone every day. you started to feel something a few days after talking to this chick yo lost out on? try 4 months brother I dont care what anyone says after 4 months you start to catch feelings for a chick....
anyways Finallly boss gives me a free pass told him I had some family issues....that very week she changes her mind on me. I was like are you fUCKING KIDDING ME!!!!! Of course I could read between the lines, I knew she found another guy and didnt want to tell me the truth but it was completely my fault for waiting too long. But I couldnt deal with this fact, the chick was so hot and she was going to pay for my plane ticket to fuck her and i didnt even have to pay for a hotel lol....... I was crushed....
now of course if it was a real girl in real life I woldnt of given a fuck because I could of seen her flaws (which she had she was a physcho girl) but it was the fact that I was in love with the IDEA of this girl that made the situation so bizarre. When you cant see a person's flaws, and only see what they look like in pictures your mind starts playing games with you and yo start seeing them as something there not. I became obsessed, for months after every time I was with a chick (in real life
) I would picture I was fucking her....a girl i didnt even meet. I even brought her picture around with me....was on a bed with this girl one time on top of her I had her picture in my back pocket and whipped it out honest to god. Not healthy....but it can happen to anyone I have never been the type to obsess over a girlfriend in real life! ever. thats why If I dont meet up with a chick within a few weeks and she wnts to play "the tell me about yourself" game I simply cut contact with her.
.... TRULY makes you appreciate real life contact with women and people in general.....thats why When Im on lots of shit and look good just use the gym...no texting bullshit ..no games or guessing if the girl loks as good in real life the broads literally right there and shes in your territory.....and you have an excuse to be dressed like shit and show off your body without looking like a douchebag