Only advice I would give you as a man is don't underestimate anyone. You may or may not be big but it doesn't matter to a lot of people.
true now that he knows your out there he'll be sure to pack. I don't care how much you life you are not bulletproof.
BTW, if you have to kick ass, wait to catch them out and about..plan it a bit man don't be an idiot. NEVER go to someone's home or workplace bro you are just asking for jail time. Tell the chick to have him go grab some cig's or milk at the local store and then follow his ass there and beat him down in the parking lot. Be creative, have fun with it.
oh and did the dude in the above video look winded as hell from a little wrestling?