Just got out of a 6 month relationship. what do now? (bb related)

[che]

Drunk ,lazy loser,  get your shit together bro

                                                             PS:   PM  Shizzo and Wiggs for advice  , good luck  .

[spiro]

You sound like a bit of a bum. I was in a similar situation not a great job I couldn't stand living with my ex anymore so I got out. I had to pay two rents for a few months. I was 25 at the time with no money. I was very lucky to have my parents help me out they got me back on my feet. Having parents like that is the biggest blessing in the world.

[Cleanest Natural]

You mean the endorphins? I'm having a hard time following this and I'm not being a jerk. I heard boxers don't crank one out for weeks before a fight to stay focused and aggressive. Is this what you mean?

Stress caused me to drink. Stress and loneliness. If I keep myself busy (AA every morning before work, gym at night, once a week hit up a movie or restaurant so I break a little monotony) I feel I can keep my mind off of thinking I'm lonely.

In fact, I'm going to go see a favorite movie of mine on the big screen tonight. 12 Years a Slave. Its a movie and discussion type screening so I'm looking forward to seeing what this kind of experience is like. Never know what is going to perk up my interest.

don't bother with the details, just follow the advice.. you'll understand in due time

[temple_of_dis]

youtube the tom leykis show

do 20 100m sprints and 20 sets of pushups daily

[galeniko]

hm you could have just lkilled the kids,or sell them, then the problem would have been settled.

[bradistani]

I couldn't stand the living situation of that she had hyper active kids (real tough to take them anywhere), her ex always trying to jump back in the picture, the fact she thinks she knows everything about fitness (lol i'm a chubby chaser so that says it all). she thinks steroids are dumb and people should just do natural hard work. Again this one was a gamer (this time on her phone and not PC) and was a cute looking girl but turned lazy and therefore I lost all attraction.

Now I used to be a raging alcoholic, joined AA, lasted 2 weeks before she pissed me off so much I drank 2 beers and then later that night went to a meeting. I find AA works as long as there is a meeting to go.

So now I'm single again, and a little wiser. I know I can't handle 2 young children at once. I know that I can't stand procrastination, and I can't stand someone completely lazy. This relationship was also a financial drain for me.

So where do I go from here?

Was thinking of maybe devoting a whole year to myself and just get laid off those dating site when I get desperate enough (unless of course I meet someone along the way). Focus on better job, better education possibly (night school?), never miss a gym session, stay sober. A year at almost 32 years old doesn't seem so bad when it could drastically improve my life.

Or is that too much an extreme? Obviously what I've been doing so far has not been working very well for me.

Help GetBiggers

you'll be back when your balls start turning blue

[Red Hook]

Post up some pics of her..this is getbig

pics or she is a just sock puppet that you wore on your left hand

[_bruce_]

Pretty much what NZ and Sev said - regain your ground and ptps!

[Howard]

Yeah, I smartly didn't sign a lease when I moved in with her a few months ago (seemed more convenient) and so now I don't have any legal ties to her. 2 weeks on a couch isn't gonna kill me. But it is what it is

Be thankful for that, seriously. You were smart to leave if she had 2 bratty kids from another baby daddy.
Imagine what life would be like having to deal with a full time life with her and those rugrats never giving you or her any peace.
You dodged a bullet and will never regret moving on.

Ok, the living situation kinda sucks now, but that is only TEMPORARY.
I have been in your sitituation before in my 20's after I got out of the USMC.
I worked some  crappy jobs, but eventually got my ass back to school and started a legit career over 20 yrs ago.
After 3 divorces and some hard won wisdom, I now live a happy stable life .
I'm now married to a sexy blonde banker and we live on 5 wooded acres in a great home.

Lift for your own personal reasons, and don't piss away much $$ on steroids. If you compete do so on the local level and don't consider trying to go pro . Good luck let us know how you are doing or feel free to PM me.