2 life changing moments in golf for me...
1.Being all pissed off on the course one time and my dad all straight faced turns to me and said "Why get mad,you're not good enough to get mad}

son of a bitch!
2.when I first started playing and would be pissed I would throw clubs once in awhile...well I hit a bad t-shot and threw my wood and it almost got caught in a tree.
then when thinking about it,,,imagine how embarrassed I would have been if I had to climb a tree to get my club back
