Well at least someone here understands me. I've always been about the pursuit more than the actual conquest, Im a bit of a serial dater and have always had the grass is greener mentality.... the only way Ill know if she's the right girl is how I feel about her a month into the relationship.
This is what social dating does!!! The second we see someone who may be a better partner, we lose interest in the current "best prospect" But then if you lose touch with those women because you decide to be with just the other, it can be hard to come back in their top line of choice.
A balancing act indeed... Everyone is fuckiN' playing everyone, lol!
I think if the vibe is good, you feel chemistry, pheromones match (meaning you like the way the other person smells in the morning and so on...) pursue the woman!
But all the drama that seems to come out of your guys's conversation's has me wondering if this is a good idea.
What is it about her that makes you feel different about her?