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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #150 on: June 08, 2015, 10:03:42 AM »
You married?

Why the change of tune? Haha


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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #151 on: June 08, 2015, 10:04:07 AM »
Why the change of tune? Haha


why the avoidance?

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #152 on: June 08, 2015, 10:04:56 AM »
why the avoidance?

Yes I am happily married.

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #153 on: June 08, 2015, 10:08:37 AM »
Yes I am happily married.
Is he a bodybuilder/weightlifter?

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #154 on: June 08, 2015, 10:09:27 AM »
Is he a bodybuilder/weightlifter?

Ohhh the questions get deeper...

Maybe.

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #155 on: June 08, 2015, 10:09:48 AM »
cant see the pic
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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #156 on: June 08, 2015, 10:10:13 AM »
Ohhh the questions get deeper...

Maybe.
Never mind then, i have given you enough air time .

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #157 on: June 08, 2015, 10:11:06 AM »
Never mind then, i have given you enough air time .

Haha okay thanks.

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #160 on: June 08, 2015, 10:55:39 AM »
Stoli?

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #161 on: June 08, 2015, 04:43:40 PM »
She is crazy and has baggage and you are expected to jump through hoops for this chick? Hell no. Ditch her before she says you beat her and puts you in jail or tries to trap you with a kid.

Also, I thought I was the youngest her at 24.

IF I knew she was crazy after the first date Id probably back off, but I've come too far to turn around now. I think Im gonna tell her "  I think we should just be friends", her ego is enormous so it should be interesting to see how she reacts to this.
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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #162 on: June 08, 2015, 05:01:16 PM »
I've come too far to turn around now.

Haven't even been with her for a week



Is this the same person?

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #163 on: June 08, 2015, 05:10:46 PM »
If she digs you, take heed.

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #164 on: June 08, 2015, 05:44:29 PM »
Haven't even been with her for a week



Is this the same person?

Ive been talking to her longer than that though.. Put a lot of time into texting  this chick and pretending I actually cared about her hobbies and interests lol. And I do feel like I genuinely like her..
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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #165 on: June 08, 2015, 05:57:46 PM »
IF I knew she was crazy after the first date Id probably back off, but I've come too far to turn around now. I think Im gonna tell her "  I think we should just be friends", her ego is enormous so it should be interesting to see how she reacts to this.
Did it ever occur to you to stop playing games ?? You could try being straight forward and honest and say something along these words " I really like you and would like to see where this takes us".

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #166 on: June 08, 2015, 06:41:24 PM »
Did it ever occur to you to stop playing games ?? You could try being straight forward and honest and say something along these words " I really like you and would like to see where this takes us".

Ok Ill try this. Im telling you I got a feeling about this chick. Haven't liked a girl this much in a while...at least a year. .   I just hope this feeling stays...Ive had this feeling before only to completely lose interest in a girl and it sucks. Sometimes I get up in chasing the girl , and mistaken it for actually liking the girl... because when I finally have her I dont want her. ..but I feel like this one might be different. Im hoping so.....not denying she doesnt have issues but she seems sweet I get a good vibe.
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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #167 on: June 08, 2015, 06:42:21 PM »
Playing games is the province of hormonal teenagers and/or desperate single moms.

Next you know, you'll be dating online, where you meet the real nutjobs.


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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #168 on: June 08, 2015, 07:02:08 PM »
Is this still going on?

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #169 on: June 08, 2015, 07:24:35 PM »
So I've just started seeing this new chick, I haven't asked us to be exclusive yet, but a  week ago she wrote me off because she was complaining about how the only time I hit her up is when I get bored of my side bitches and how I only  call her every two weeks when I get bored. Normally i dont EVER commit to one chick unless she proves herself, but  I figured ok this one might be different....she  is just a chick that doesn't want to be played or cheated on. so I said ok Ill give this relationship thing a go.


Tuesday I told her I had a suprise for her this weekend, I told her yesterday I was gonna take her to a winery with me...she hates bars and clubs so I figured this was the only way I was gonna get her to drink.  

She jokingly texts me why do you wanna get me drunk? With a winkey face...

Im like even if I was who cares, when Im trying to build something long term with you anyways I already said Im not gonna use you like that.  She responds

"well....we haven't built anything yet. So even if your planning to... you still haven't haha"

I respond "well yeah but you wouldnt be talking to me if I wasnt trying to build something with you long term anyways"

She responds "not necessarily"

Im pissed off, because just a week ago she was saying shes not gonna settle for a hookup..and wants a relationship. There is no way Id take some potential side chick to a fucking winery with me...unless I wanted to build a relationship with her.

Its the first comment that pissed me off the most though, the " we still haven't built anything"  one.....I feel like there are some things you just don't say to a guy..especially a guy like me.  yes I get it we havent "built anything" were still getting to know eachother..... you haven't  proven yourself either.... but you dont go telling the other person that.   

Im not gonna lie, I want this  relationship to work.....I like her...but alot of time into talking to her.... but Im pissed the fuck off.  Im thinking about blowing her off this weekend  and bringing this little 20 year old latina  with me instead. Least she'll probably fucking appreciate it.



Dating in America cannot be as crazy as some of you imply on here, can it?

I'm glad that there is more normalcy here Down Under.


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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #170 on: June 08, 2015, 10:08:46 PM »
Ok Ill try this. Im telling you I got a feeling about this chick. Haven't liked a girl this much in a while...at least a year. .   I just hope this feeling stays...Ive had this feeling before only to completely lose interest in a girl and it sucks. Sometimes I get up in chasing the girl , and mistaken it for actually liking the girl... because when I finally have her I dont want her. ..but I feel like this one might be different. Im hoping so.....not denying she doesnt have issues but she seems sweet I get a good vibe.
Fuck off, your acts wearing a bit thin.

Cut the stupid bullshit stories.

At least if you are going to make up stories try and portray yourself as a good guy rather than a prick.

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #171 on: June 08, 2015, 11:18:14 PM »
Dating in America cannot be as crazy as some of you imply on here, can it?

I'm glad that there is more normalcy here Down Under.



Dating in Austria goes more smoothly then?

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #172 on: June 09, 2015, 07:38:41 AM »
Haven't even been with her for a week



Is this the same person?

Lol

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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #173 on: June 09, 2015, 08:19:29 AM »
Dating in America cannot be as crazy as some of you imply on here, can it?

I'm glad that there is more normalcy here Down Under.



Dating is only an issue with those who lack social skills/etiquette in the US. So yes, it is a problem for the younger generation.
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Re: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games
« Reply #174 on: June 09, 2015, 08:52:12 AM »
Ok Ill try this. Im telling you I got a feeling about this chick. Haven't liked a girl this much in a while...at least a year. .

Must be all her hobbies you've admitted to feigning interest in.....

Don't let one like that get away.
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