This is what people with no kids look like at 50.
This is what we joke about.
On a serious note, we both have a huge respect for anyone who is a good, devoted parent.
We both realized at a young age, that having kids was a MAJOR life change , neither of us wanted.
Having kids is to me , a deeply personal decision.
Some couples really seem to have a sincere desire to have children.
I do wonder how many kids were "accidents" from a lack of
birth control??? We both cringe at the terms, "baby daddy and baby mamma".
I have a funny saying in regards to the kids issue.
When we come back from a nice vacation I say:
" You do realize we spent some our kids college fund on this trip? Oh, wait a minute.
We don't have any kids, and we already went to college."