Author Topic: How to win over a girl with a boyfriend? (Read 7210 times)

Mussolini · « **on:** October 14, 2006, 11:33:53 PM »

The Girl I have been in love with for two years has a boyfriend. I have made great progress. What are some tips I could use to seal the deal. I think she is finally starting to fall for me.

Thank-you for you time

Farkenell · « **Reply #1 on:** October 14, 2006, 11:48:18 PM »

Think the boyfriend wont punch your lights out for trying to turn her?

Tips... murder the boyfriend or kidnap the girl.

nzmusclemonster · « **Reply #2 on:** October 15, 2006, 12:36:37 AM »

Quote from: Mussolini on October 14, 2006, 11:33:53 PM

The Girl I have been in love with for two years has a boyfriend. I have made great progress. What are some tips I could use to seal the deal. I think she is finally starting to fall for me.

Thank-you for you time

Here's a tip, don't be an asshole just leave them alone. If she wanted you she would have dumped that POS she goes out with.

Al-Gebra · « **Reply #3 on:** October 15, 2006, 12:48:37 AM »

2 yrs is a long time . . . seems like something should have happened already.

freespirit · « **Reply #4 on:** October 15, 2006, 12:59:28 AM »

Quote from: Mussolini on October 14, 2006, 11:33:53 PM

The Girl I have been in love with for two years has a boyfriend. I have made great progress. What are some tips I could use to seal the deal. I think she is finally starting to fall for me.

Thank-you for you time

Translation: She kinda likes you, and will never, ever have sex with you.

Hope this helps.

xxxLinda · « **Reply #5 on:** October 15, 2006, 10:15:38 AM »

No, don't give up. Unrequited love is possibly/probably one of the best kinds of love. It's safe...

Deedee · « **Reply #6 on:** October 15, 2006, 10:26:56 AM »

Quote from: Mussolini on October 14, 2006, 11:33:53 PM

The Girl I have been in love with for two years has a boyfriend. I have made great progress. What are some tips I could use to seal the deal. I think she is finally starting to fall for me.

Thank-you for you time

You have the patience of the east.

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #7 on:** October 15, 2006, 11:42:18 AM »

Quote from: Mussolini on October 14, 2006, 11:33:53 PM

The Girl I have been in love with for two years has a boyfriend. I have made great progress. What are some tips I could use to seal the deal. I think she is finally starting to fall for me.

Thank-you for you time

very unclassy for you to be chasing after a taken woman for 2 fing yrs...

get some class , honour and morals...

idiot..

Deedee · « **Reply #8 on:** October 15, 2006, 11:51:11 AM »

I think he's just kidding around and having fun on the girl thread.

The BEAST · « **Reply #9 on:** October 15, 2006, 01:26:39 PM »

Fark and Muss please check your PM's

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #10 on:** October 15, 2006, 01:34:49 PM »

Quote from: Deedee on October 15, 2006, 11:51:11 AM

I think he's just kidding around and having fun on the girl thread.

o...oopsie..i should read the whole thread before responding

mish · « **Reply #11 on:** October 15, 2006, 02:31:44 PM »

Quote from: ToxicAvenger! on October 15, 2006, 11:42:18 AM

very unclassy for you to be chasing after a taken woman for 2 fing yrs...

get some class , honour and morals...

idiot..

Awww... look at Toxie being a gentleman.

youandme · « **Reply #12 on:** October 15, 2006, 04:09:39 PM »

Get over her, the chase is all good but you gotta move on to greener pastures

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #13 on:** October 15, 2006, 10:54:15 PM »

Quote from: mish on October 15, 2006, 02:31:44 PM

Awww... look at Toxie being a gentleman.

when i'm wrong.....well i'm wrong i have no problem admitting that..cause deedee said he ws just joking...

it made me smile that u pointed that out though....cause i really needed that tonite...see new thread i made....labelled update

i feel like a douche

AVBG · « **Reply #14 on:** October 15, 2006, 10:58:00 PM »

Leave her alone. sheesh she's been with the same guy for 2 years, if she was unhappy she would have left him already..

Lord Humungous · « **Reply #15 on:** October 16, 2006, 05:20:19 AM »

Give the guy a break! He has a crush, or he's a stalker maybe?

mish · « **Reply #16 on:** October 16, 2006, 06:38:57 AM »

Quote from: ToxicAvenger! on October 15, 2006, 10:54:15 PM

when i'm wrong.....well i'm wrong i have no problem admitting that..cause deedee said he ws just joking...

it made me smile that u pointed that out though....cause i really needed that tonite...see new thread i made....labelled update

i feel like a douche

You shouldn't... check out my post.

Migs · « **Reply #17 on:** October 16, 2006, 08:35:53 AM »

i agree. Let her be and if she happens to break up with her boyfriend then consider making a move, but after she has had some time. Don't be a shark in the water

Playboy · « **Reply #18 on:** October 16, 2006, 08:54:36 AM »

Move on. There are plenty of single women out there that will be happy to be with you. Don't be a homewrecker. It'll only escalate into something worse. Move on.

PB

xxxLinda · « **Reply #19 on:** October 16, 2006, 12:58:10 PM »

I disagree (again).

But I'm the one who first believed you all were posting truthfully >>>and I so got caught out...

If this is really an honest thread and I reckon it is, here's my opinion(s):

i) as I've said above. unrequited love is pure, it's simple and it's safe.

ii) if you love her and are in her life, then you'll be better off than never seeing her again.

iii) most of us will go with the B+ mate until Mr A+ arrives. Perhaps she isn't quite sure what she's doing either?

iv) you could find an interim girlfriend who looks exactly like her and make her jealous (only kidding)

v) it takes 10 no's to make a yes (sales101). provided that is, that you haven't overdone it already with her and I figure that you haven't even tried?

vi) do not make her boyfriend your best mate. stay clear. but be there for her.

vii) but do not attempt to make it with her on the night she's all vulnerable. if you can wait two years, you can wait two more days...

Most women worth having are very much used to being wanted. If you give up after the first two or five times, she'll think you were just a slut anyways. If you are still there after 20-30 times, she'll know you really really mean it.

with love,
Linda

Al-Gebra · « **Reply #20 on:** October 16, 2006, 01:03:39 PM »

any self-respecting male who's been around the block once or twice will know that XXXlinda's suggestions in the preceding post are terrible.

Oh, and if the girl's made you wait 2 years, and you've got a shot on VULNERABLE NIGHT . . . DO US ALL A FAVOR AND TAKE IT.

xxxLinda · « **Reply #21 on:** October 16, 2006, 01:22:01 PM »

Quote from: Al-Gebra on October 16, 2006, 01:03:39 PM

any self-respecting male who's been around the block once or twice will know that XXXlinda's suggestions in the preceding post are terrible.

Oh, and if the girl's made you wait 2 years, and you've got a shot on VULNERABLE NIGHT . . . DO US ALL A FAVOR AND TAKE IT.

terrible, but true. sorry...

She hasn't made him wait 2 years, she's been with someone else all that time.

He's (if he's real), a gent.

The man that goes for it when the woman is vulnerable and then calls her all the names under the sun is not.

And he just wasn't ready two years ago.

sorry again
Linda
xxx

ps: this should be on the other thread about fave books:

it's Love in the Time of Cholera. Some Colombian writer. I no longer have it, I read it twice then gave it away. It's lovely. It's about a man who waits all his life. Oh, and he gets the girl in the end. He even describes the smell of old flesh. It's sad. But it's a lovely story because love wins in the end...

Al-Gebra · « **Reply #22 on:** October 16, 2006, 01:27:16 PM »

i think you've got me mixed up with your pakistani prince . . .

I have enough self-respect to not call a woman names for sleeping with me.

the truth of the matter is that someone in the hypothetical situation presented by the OP is just being dangled by a string, and when it's convenient the string will be detached. the guy's been trying when she was w someone else, and she has n't told him to f**k off. which means that she likes the attention . . . at her convenience.

PS. Btw, where can i buy a vulnerable-o-meter? If a woman wants to sleep w me, and if I want to sleep w her, we're going to sleep w each other. Anybody who does otherwise is just angling for early-onset erectile dysfunction.

xxxLinda · « **Reply #23 on:** October 16, 2006, 02:10:53 PM »

Quote from: Al-Gebra on October 16, 2006, 01:27:16 PM

i think you've got me mixed up with your pakistani prince . . .

I have enough self-respect to not call a woman names for sleeping with me.

the truth of the matter is that someone in the hypothetical situation presented by the OP is just being dangled by a string, and when it's convenient the string will be detached. the guy's been trying when she was w someone else, and she has n't told him to f**k off. which means that she likes the attention . . . at her convenience.

PS. Btw, where can i buy a vulnerable-o-meter? If a woman wants to sleep w me, and if I want to sleep w her, we're going to sleep w each other. Anybody who does otherwise is just angling for early-onset erectile dysfunction.

very funny, or lol as you say.

a vulnerometer? If you could patent that you'd be a zillonaire.

flaccidity.

But darlin', we're not talking about the same thing. If this thread is for real, he hasn't made a move on her, he's just going home after making sure she's okay (with the wrong bloke) and thinking pure thoughts about her, no?

hhhheeeee

xL

ps: I've never had a pakistani, unfortunatley.

xxxLinda · « **Reply #24 on:** October 16, 2006, 02:36:43 PM »

Look I've had lots of friends like that. The straight male ones. They appreciate me and understand my weaknesses and never criticise the (wrong) blokes I'm doing.

We did a thread about gay men and one about metrosexual men...

How about the totally straight ones who are really good friends?

Honest.
Really really good friends. I know that they go home and wank about me and I try not to lead them on or flirt too much. But it's impossible. And I'll probably know them all my life. They'll help me out when I need stuff moving about and they'll be here when the bit of rough I'm messing with goes mental. They are the normal ones, the nice guys.

But I have been known to introduce them to a perfect woman for them.

with mad love
etc.
Linda
x

Author Topic: How to win over a girl with a boyfriend? (Read 7210 times)

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