id rather look strong than be strong, although love being strong..out of the gym, your 'strength' is not functional, so whats the point? i really cant think of any scenario where my strength has been 'functional' outside a gym. if you want functional strength become a fighter, maybe an olympic lifter, although even olympic lifters, not really functional outside the gym. powerlifters and bodyuilders are equally useless, but bbers actually look good.
That's you, bro......not me.
My strength is function in that I can move people if I need to, it's a matter of being able to protect myself and those I'm with if it comes to that.
This is the difference.
I must look strong, because I don't get in to any fights and I do as I please in life.
Then again, I don't wear bodybuilder gear, cutoffs or any of that stuff....
Again.....it's not my goal to show-off.
I don't lift for that reason.
The type of women I attract are more concerned with other qualities than my body, though protection is a factor to some degree, my current girlfriend thinks most bodybuilders are worse than women...
If you'd ever listen to what women really think, most don't go for bodybuilders because they think it's too obsessive, egomaniacal.
I think in some ways they are right.
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