I remember Having the pin stuck halfway in my shoulder...and I had to push the plunger against the bathroom wall and lean into it to push the gear in. I was nauseous and sweating, and I was ready to just yank it. But I didn't, I just did it and that was it.
So, pull up your dress, grab your balls, and slam it.
We are here to help you decide WHERE, but we aren't going to do it for you.