Every thing is built on bone structure and body frame. If you have a wide body (shoulder bones/upper body width) than the more impressive your going to look in clothes. Saw Ken Norton (ex boxer) in Pearl City a few years back. Shoulders and back Looked as wide as the front end of a Hummer. Natural wide body, like most tight ends in the NFL. Even a average frame on a well muscled BB'er will not look that impressive in normal street wear. And with massive traps, like Coleman, the shoulders are going to seem less wide than they really are. But to say that Coleman doesn't look thick and huge, with clothes or in posing trunks...at any weight, is not dealing with reality.
As far as the fey male groupie go, their the one's who go to the show's, by the books, pictures, videos, magazines, clothing, etc that keeps most Pro's and others in a money making business. Of course we won't mention the special appearances that a few male Pro's make for their "fans".