The current topics are kinda boring...IMO. So I want to get some good opinions on a very HOT topic.
I'm watching Dr. Phil yesterday on a show about cheaters. These particular couples were married...which really strikes a nerve with me...but were still together. One woman on the show whom had two affairs was admitting "if I did not get caught, I would still be doing it". Her husband just sat there...wanting to work on the relationship. As sorry as I felt for this man...I felt that if he was taking the abuse, then he deserved it. The same for the wives that were on the same show.
Where do you draw the line between LOVE and RATIONALITY? Personally, I am a 1 strike and your out. Bob and I have had the discussion, he knows my views on this topic. He messes up ONCE and he is gone...no questions asked!! I am the type of woman that would much rather be alone, and split custody than constantly worrying whether my husband is being faithful. I'm not a snooper, and I don't check up on my husband...I don't feel I should have to. But why is it that women...and men...feel that its something that they should put up with. There are so many great people in this world....THAT STAY FAITHFUL. I cant see wasting my time on someone who doesn't.
Am I being unreasonable?
