Author Topic: If you (asking a female) are out with a group of girls..... (Read 4438 times)

GET_BIGGER · « **on:** November 30, 2006, 05:00:48 PM »

.....at a night club or wherever and you all like one guy, how do you decide who gets him?

diamond · « **Reply #1 on:** November 30, 2006, 05:09:35 PM »

Lots of things....

Whoever gets him first, whoever he seems interested in, arguements lol, its hilarious watching other girls fight over a guy...they just make themselves look stupid IMO.

The whole 'let me have him please' line, cracks me up.....

But i dont do the 'lets decide who has him' id rather take a step back than look like an idiot.

Blockhead · « **Reply #2 on:** November 30, 2006, 05:34:24 PM »

Quote from: GET_BIGGER on November 30, 2006, 05:00:48 PM

.....at a night club or wherever and you all like one guy, how do you decide who gets him?

Hahahaha...good question. The answer? They will ALL stab eachother inthe back and slice the other ones throats to be 'queen b' to get the guy. ALl...not some, not most, not a few...ALL women are complete enemies of other women. They all hate eachother and see eachother as competition. Women have ZERO loyalty to their friends...or, my bad...women dont have other women firends...just acquaintances.

diamond · « **Reply #3 on:** November 30, 2006, 06:01:55 PM »

Quote from: GET_BIGGER on November 30, 2006, 06:00:08 PM

Then you would be the one to perk my interest......

Exactly lmao!

Fighting over men is pointless....I'd rather let them approach me than approach them anyway lmao

diamond · « **Reply #4 on:** November 30, 2006, 06:10:54 PM »

Quote from: GET_BIGGER on November 30, 2006, 06:04:49 PM

But then on the other hand if the guy has the same philosophy, we would never meet...... $:-\$

Dont give me that lmao...I know exactly what you are like!

And im not saying I'd never go up to a guy...I would and have done so before...I'd just rather not lol

diamond · « **Reply #5 on:** November 30, 2006, 06:12:57 PM »

Of course you don't GB

24KT · « **Reply #6 on:** November 30, 2006, 06:47:25 PM »

Quote from: GET_BIGGER on November 30, 2006, 05:00:48 PM

.....at a night club or wherever and you all like one guy, how do you decide who gets him?

{LOL} Been there ...done that... the answer is: We don't decide, ...he does!

Original Sin · « **Reply #7 on:** November 30, 2006, 08:25:30 PM »

Quote from: jaguarenterprises on November 30, 2006, 06:47:25 PM

{LOL} Been there ...done that... the answer is: We don't decide, ...he does!

BINGO!!

On the other hand I have "stolen" a few men just to prove a point....
take it for what it is worth...

Lock up your husbands named Bob

j/k

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #8 on:** November 30, 2006, 10:13:51 PM »

Quote from: diamond on November 30, 2006, 05:09:35 PM

.....

But i dont do the 'lets decide who has him' id rather take a step back than look like an idiot.

bravo!

honour amongst industrialized women..

who'd have thought

i dont partake in "the presentation of the cock" either...

Playboy · « **Reply #9 on:** December 01, 2006, 05:02:38 AM »

Quote from: GET_BIGGER on November 30, 2006, 05:00:48 PM

.....at a night club or wherever and you all like one guy, how do you decide who gets him?

Just grab 'em all

PB

24KT · « **Reply #10 on:** December 01, 2006, 11:19:13 AM »

As an aside, ...you can tell alot about a guy by which one he picks too.

and btw guys, ...just so you know, ...that is just about the ONLY situation where the guy does the picking.

24KT · « **Reply #11 on:** December 01, 2006, 11:26:32 AM »

Quote from: cap86 on December 01, 2006, 11:21:22 AM

We pick based on signals you send IMO. Guys never really make the first move, we just make the first overt action.

You don't pick. Make no mistake, ...if you're with a woman, ...it is because SHE has chosen YOU.

24KT · « **Reply #12 on:** December 01, 2006, 01:47:17 PM »

Quote from: GET_BIGGER on December 01, 2006, 12:31:15 PM

I pick.

You think you pick, ...but the truth is, ...she chose YOU.

diamond · « **Reply #13 on:** December 01, 2006, 01:59:41 PM »

Quote from: GET_BIGGER on December 01, 2006, 01:57:13 PM

No....lol...seriously......I pick.

Uhhh....I dont think so babe

DIVISION · « **Reply #14 on:** December 01, 2006, 07:03:25 PM »

Quote from: jaguarenterprises on December 01, 2006, 11:26:32 AM

You don't pick. Make no mistake, ...if you're with a woman, ...it is because SHE has chosen YOU.

I tend to think baby jags is correct on her assertion.

EX: Young girl at the gym counter where I work...starts giving me the "curious penetrating eyes" look. I wasn't paying attention until she did it the third time, then the lightbulb went off and I realized that she was telling me she was interested.

She did choose......or at least tell me that I was chosen, so to speak.

It kind of took me by surprise too, because I'm not used to being the hunted... $:-\$

DIV

24KT · « **Reply #15 on:** December 01, 2006, 07:23:49 PM »

Every woman knows that once she has decided, ...she has to chase that man until he catches her.

Sometimes, if the quarry is of the timid variety, ...the huntress will let him know she has picked him,
...otherwise she'll simply allow him to think it was really his idea all along to initiate or maintain contact.

ps - girls, please don't be mad at me for revealing secrets, ...some of these guys need all the help they can get.

DIVISION · « **Reply #16 on:** December 01, 2006, 07:30:41 PM »

Quote from: jaguarenterprises on December 01, 2006, 07:23:49 PM

Every woman knows that once she has decided, ...she has to chase that man until he catches her.

Sometimes, if the quarry is of the timid variety, ...the huntress will let him know she has picked him,
...otherwise she'll simply allow him to think it was really his idea all along to initiate or maintain contact.

ps - girls, please don't be mad at me for revealing secrets, ...some of these guys need all the help they can get.

I agree.

It's times like these when I realize how clueless I really am when it comes to women...

They know what they do.

DIV

24KT · « **Reply #17 on:** December 01, 2006, 07:42:01 PM »

Quote from: DIVISION on December 01, 2006, 07:30:41 PM

I agree.

It's times like these when I realize how clueless I really am when it comes to women...

They know what they do.

DIV

Glad I could help! I just wish i could see the look on your face right now tho.
I just love seeing men's expressions when they realize they don't know what they thought they did about women.
It's hilarious! About 5 yrs ago, a few of my girlfriends put out a mktg. tape called "Screaming Women Don't Lie".
It was the funniest thing you ever heard...if you were a woman. If you were a guy, you were rivetted into silence.

DIVISION · « **Reply #18 on:** December 01, 2006, 08:49:21 PM »

Quote from: jaguarenterprises on December 01, 2006, 07:42:01 PM

Glad I could help! I just wish i could see the look on your face right now tho.
I just love seeing men's expressions when they realize they don't know what they thought they did about women.
It's hilarious! About 5 yrs ago, a few of my girlfriends put out a mktg. tape called "Screaming Women Don't Lie".
It was the funniest thing you ever heard...if you were a woman. If you were a guy, you were rivetted into silence.

Women.

THEY KNOW WHAT THEY DO.

DIV

Laura Lee · « **Reply #19 on:** December 02, 2006, 07:12:39 AM »

The good friends will back off while those who are wolves in sheeps clothing will pounce.

I have never been that agressive over my friends, but will say...it usually will be the "one" guy who makes the ultimate decision of who he wants. He may not like all the girls, but have eyes for only one and 9 times out of 10 all the girls will know it right away and back off.

Faust · « **Reply #20 on:** December 02, 2006, 07:19:11 AM »

Most of the time a woman will send the initial signals. Men have to "scan" and see what's going on. Basically, they let us do the hard work. We make the moves, present ourselves and then they decide wether they bite or not.

It's not really hunting, rather fishing.

If a guy goes after a woman when she didn't send him any signals, his chances are usually slim. Some guys, who have the best "bait" can actually choose which fish they decide to pull up. But most of the time it's quite obvious who he likes best, so the other girls back off.

Laura Lee · « **Reply #21 on:** December 02, 2006, 08:48:39 AM »

Quote from: GET_BIGGER on December 02, 2006, 08:40:06 AM

Yet if they guy shows an interest in more than one, he screws himself. Must he make a decision? Why is it that if you flirt with more than one in the group, all bets are off?

because it means you're a player and looking to get with anyone.

DIVISION · « **Reply #22 on:** December 02, 2006, 08:55:21 AM »

Quote from: Faust on December 02, 2006, 07:19:11 AM

Most of the time a woman will send the initial signals. Men have to "scan" and see what's going on. Basically, they let us do the hard work. We make the moves, present ourselves and then they decide wether they bite or not.

It's not really hunting, rather fishing.

If a guy goes after a woman when she didn't send him any signals, his chances are usually slim. Some guys, who have the best "bait" can actually choose which fish they decide to pull up. But most of the time it's quite obvious who he likes best, so the other girls back off.

Exactly.

What I find interesting is when a woman signals the initial interest and the guy either doesn't pay attention or is just not interested.

Some women persist, but others take it as a sign of rejection and let it go.

Determining why some women choose one course of action while others do the opposite is the interesting part for me.

Really, though, it doesn't matter because I go for what I want regardless...

DIV