I'm sorry if any of the women on here feel that I or anyone else is trying to create this atmosphere. That is not my/our intention. We come here for advice we wouldn't otherwise get and at least for me, I hope to give some along the way. If we talked about this stuff with guys we would get "just dump her" or "it's all about the sex", etc, etc. You actually have insight into situations because you are women. Sure we may bicker and differ here and there but it is not out of malice. Hopefully you like having us here and allow us to keep posting because there is alot to be learned from both sexes. Have a nice night.