I totally agree. Most Ibanez's are waaaay overrated. I have yet to play any of their custom shop stuff though.
Play the high end Ibanez stuff. I own an RG2020X (piezo in the bridge with a separate output; put Dimarzio Air Norton in the Neck and Steve's Special in the bridge) and an RGT3120 (neck thru, 2 x Dimarzio PAF PROs; thinking about replacing with Evolutions). They have "ultra" necks, not as thin as the Wizard and Wizard II, but they play like butter. Sustain for freakin DAYS. Paid about $1200 for the RG2020X and $1500 for the RGT3120 (about $500 of the list price for each).
Of course, a good old RG570 (or 1570 or 2570) is a great guitar as well. You can modify the crap out of it and basically get a JEM in any style you want (lots of places online provide this service), since the 570 WAS the basis for the JEM.