Happy New Year all!
This is why I love this site. Take a few weeks off just reading and never a dull moment.
Let's have a reality check. Bob C. has moved on in his life to more important things that he finds values in.
That is progression from when you are in your twenties, early thirties. At this stage in life you either don't know jack shit about how life works or you don't care.
As you "progress in your personal journey" you realize that the material things you thought were "happiness" don't make you happy. You realize it is jack shit.
When you are ready to say 'f*ck it" to what "society, family, peers" tell you what life should be, that is when you are really free.
Congrats to you Bob, you have all that makes you and yours happy and content.
When the end of life is near, have no regrets.
Do You.
Sandra