I would forgive them if I felt they did me wrong.
But I'd never count on them for anything, plus I'd have a hard time believing things they said...but that's just me.
From your description of the guy you got the job for, if you think he needs help, you should offer to be there for him but I wouldn't pursue a relationship further than that w/him. There are thousands of other people in LA to be friends with.
I also agree w/this.
Treu, I would forgive them, and if they needed something realy bad, i would stilll help them, showing that you a true friend, and it will eat at them that screwed you over. It always works like that.
It will go like this:
Friend: "Thanks, man, it is good you were there for me."
You: "anytime, you really needed help. And I was there.'
Friend: "I'm sorry for not heping you move."
Or, if this doesn't happened or you don't want to go thru with this spiel, the next time they need something, remind the jackass that they left you hanging, and Roll Out.
Then they will call you and sheepishly say, "I'm sorry'