No it doesn't and I didn't expect a serious answer from you.
You obviously cannot explain why a person like Anne Heche is a heterosexual, then a lesbian, then a heterosexual married to man and has a kid (but getting divorced).
no big mystery there ...Gold digging opportunism. nuff said.
I think the don't ask don't tell policy is a half baked compromise, but it was the best solution possible at the time.
I think there can be potential problems such as soldiers falling in love on the battle field and it potentially interfering with their ability to function... but whether they are
'out' or
'in the closet' won't change that.