Am I the only one who thinks Derek is a cool dude ?
All gay shit aside, I really don't care what he does or not for a living
but I read a couple of thread over at the MD forum ( I don't go there anymore) and he seems cool, he helps out a lot of people
Derek is alright... he does try to help people... but here's the thing.
He's on a message board... everyone knows he's done the gay stripping thing... it's not a secret, but when people bring it up, he gets all "Flame on" (In whichever way you want to take that
) and he has a crazy meltdown.
Look, it's a message board... we all get flamed... If doing what you do brings you that much mental anguish, then don't do it... and don't try to twist it and get people to agree with it by using the "so and so does it" line... people don't care WHO does it.
His problem is that if you say something negative, he wigs out... it's an easy target and people love getting his goat... plus, it's kind of easy to do.
Then, he does this... posts up how everyone at getbig are a bunch of pussies or whatever... That's not the mark of a normal well adjusted human being.
Derek is not a bad guy... but let's be honest... he's definitely an attention whore, but when the attention is negative he always starts blaming someone for it.
The real issue is that the guy who's making him a target, is himself, and he's just not seeing it.
