How do I ask a girl out?

[Parker]

So by magic she got your number?   

Kinda like Deedee said. I was just shooting the breeze with her and wasn't all up her face and cleavage (believe me she had everything rocking out) like I was some hungry dude. And I know that is how I got her number. Women are human beings first, so we talk to them like they are humans and not like aliens. Some women don't like to be "pressured talked", and many times one can find out all one needs to know by asking indirect questions. If you act too desperate  (likeTommy Boy) women will leave and roll out, and if your unlucky she will play you (a wrong phone number)

[Bast000]

Buy a hooker, they're cheaper than regular women.

[Parker]

Buy a hooker, they're cheaper than regular women.

A good escort....not one of them street Hookers right?

[trab]

A good escort....

Actually... If you can get out w/  some  Real Good Looking Girl along with you - Other women see you as safe and will be a whole lot more approachable or downright at you. Doesn't matter if its your sister. A  wedding ring drawls 'em like a magnet too. But they'll make you for phony if you are.  Going out w/  a married couple friend w/ sharp looker Wife is good to. Got a nice looking guy friend (bait) whose married or involved?

I don't think the reaction is some inherent Evil jealous streak in women (as some say)  They just see that guy as safe.

Far as escorts go, I understand there is a good Biz these days in Hot escorts doing the BAIT Date thing for pay. Reel in some other girls who noticed little Ms Hottie with her guy.
 

[drkaje]

Finding a girl is pretty easy.

The two best methods known to man are:

     1. Stop looking or decide to intentionally date no one. Women are very perceptive, a man not trying to get laid disturbs nature's delicate balance.

     2. Get a girlfriend. Women will come out of the woodwork. Most alone guys send off a real desperate, loser vibe that women can sense. Once you've been getting laid a bit and are relaxed/confident, the person women want to meet can come out. It's usually feast of famine. Not sure if someone who already taken is more attractive because of the challenge or because they're already trained.

Another thing... don't be too eager. Best example is sex, taking your time will always give a better result.

[Deedee]

Finding a girl is pretty easy.

The two best methods known to man are:

     1. Stop looking or decide to intentionally date no one. Women are very perceptive, a man not trying to get laid disturbs nature's delicate balance.

     2. Get a girlfriend. Women will come out of the woodwork. Most alone guys send off a real desperate, loser vibe that women can sense. Once you've been getting laid a bit and are relaxed/confident, the person women want to meet can come out. It's usually feast of famine. Not sure if someone who already taken is more attractive because of the challenge or because they're already trained.

Another thing... don't be too eager. Best example is sex, taking your time will always give a better result.

keep talking ... what were your responses on the mercedes whiner thread.

[Kwon]

Well I am a short, ugly, shy guy with very low self esteem. I usually get nervous and freeze around girls I'm attracted to. I know I need to do something about it and ask a girl out or I will be alone forever. So how should I ask a girl out? I don't want to appear like a player or a pervert or a sleaze either because I'm not.

Maybe like this.

Well I have been away for a while. So I lost some weight, gained some muscle, got a good job where I met my girlfriend.

So life has been good, and weirdly when life is good I spend less or no time on these forums.

[freespirit]

There's something fishy about bringing your private issues, like how the fuck to I ask some chick out, for gods sake, on some bloody forum like getbig. There must be something wrong with this "dudes" mind.

Just ask!! That's not so difficult if you belong to the human species.