First date - Movie choice

[Faust]

Ok, girls.

Should the man let you decide, or take control of things?
Should he pay   , or 50/50  ?
Would you like a kiss during the movie? 


I wanna go see "300". Oh yeah, noting happened between me and the girl. Saw her at a party, got her number (tried to kiss her, failed, but i was too drunk to care much). Now we've been flirting a bit on msn, and decided to go see a movie, which i normally never do for a first date. I'm 22, she's 21.
I think i'm just gonna play it cool, see "300", pay my half and hope for the best.

[michael arvilla]

Ok, girls.

Should the man let you decide, or take control of things?
Should he pay   , or 50/50  ?
Would you like a kiss during the movie? 


I wanna go see "300". Oh yeah, noting happened between me and the girl. Saw her at a party, got her number (tried to kiss her, failed, but i was too drunk to care much). Now we've been flirting a bit on msn, and decided to go see a movie, which i normally never do for a first date. I'm 22, she's 21.
I think i'm just gonna play it cool, see "300", pay my half and hope for the best.

pay for her ticket (don't be cheap)
hold her hand during the movie
give her a "goodnite kiss" after you walk her to her door
things will progress from there...................

[Faust]

pay for her ticket (don't be cheap)
hold her hand during the movie
give her a "goodnite kiss" after you walk her to her door
things will progress from there...................

Dude, first night, she was buying ME drinks, but i'll offer it in a ironic way, so she'll think that she WANTS to buy her own ticket. I'll def. try the "goodnight kiss", but holding hands is a bit too cheesy when you haven't kissed yet i think. "300" is prob not the movie for holding hands.

What would you do, see some crappy romantic comedy just cause she wants to?

[ThaRealist]

Ok, girls.

Should the man let you decide, or take control of things?
Should he pay   , or 50/50  ?
Would you like a kiss during the movie? 


I wanna go see "300". Oh yeah, noting happened between me and the girl. Saw her at a party, got her number (tried to kiss her, failed, but i was too drunk to care much). Now we've been flirting a bit on msn, and decided to go see a movie, which i normally never do for a first date. I'm 22, she's 21.
I think i'm just gonna play it cool, see "300", pay my half and hope for the best.

Dude...Screw the movie...Dinner and then to a Karaoke bar to where both of you can drink, have fun, make a fool of yourselves and be truly entertained by the other people singing...Either that or a comedy club if you have one in your area...Both are great places for first dates especially if you are looking to loosin things up and not feel awkward...Just my thoughts, but I am not a chick either...

[michael arvilla]

Ok plan B:  MOVIE go to lobby (alone) , buy her a coke
slip some G into it
when she passes out bring her to your place

then you can hold hands!

[ThaRealist]

Ok plan B:  MOVIE go to lobby (alone) , buy her a coke
slip some G into it
when she passes out bring her to your place

then you can hold hands!

Hey I was really trying to help him out lol...I was not suggesting he get her drunk or drug her to get what he wants...It sounds to me like the chic might be the one that does that to him...Seeing as how she was buying him drinks and what not....

[danielson]

Ok, girls.

Should the man let you decide, or take control of things?
Should he pay   , or 50/50  ?
Would you like a kiss during the movie? 


I wanna go see "300". Oh yeah, noting happened between me and the girl. Saw her at a party, got her number (tried to kiss her, failed, but i was too drunk to care much). Now we've been flirting a bit on msn, and decided to go see a movie, which i normally never do for a first date. I'm 22, she's 21.
I think i'm just gonna play it cool, see "300", pay my half and hope for the best.

Why a movie on a first date? There is no interaction involved. Movies are for people who have been together a while and need something to fill their nights. If you do go, definitely pay for her and do not kiss her in the movie. I suggest a night where you can talk to each other however, bar, restaurant etc.

[Faust]

Ok plan B:  MOVIE go to lobby (alone) , buy her a coke
slip some G into it
when she passes out bring her to your place

then you can hold hands!

Spoken like a true romantic!

Dude...Screw the movie...Dinner and then to a Karaoke bar to where both of you can drink, have fun, make a fool of yourselves and be truly entertained by the other people singing...Either that or a comedy club if you have one in your area...Both are great places for first dates especially if you are looking to loosin things up and not feel awkward...Just my thoughts, but I am not a chick either...

Hm. Not bad. Karaoke isn't my thing, and i don't think there are any comedy clubs around here. I'll check for karaoke stuff, maybe for another time.

Why a movie on a first date? There is no interaction involved. Movies are for people who have been together a while and need something to fill their nights. If you do go, definitely pay for her and do not kiss her in the movie. I suggest a night where you can talk to each other however, bar, restaurant etc.

Solid. Yeah, i wasn't feeling the movie-idea either, but she suggested it.
Maybe she said this cause i offered to play tennis against her sometime ( mind you, i was quite drunk, so i think "playing tennis" wasn't that bad of an idea given the circumstances).

[ToxicAvenger]

Ok, girls.

Should the man let you decide, or take control of things?
Should he pay   , or 50/50  ?
Would you like a kiss during the movie? 


I wanna go see "300". Oh yeah, noting happened between me and the girl. Saw her at a party, got her number (tried to kiss her, failed, but i was too drunk to care much). Now we've been flirting a bit on msn, and decided to go see a movie, which i normally never do for a first date. I'm 22, she's 21.
I think i'm just gonna play it cool, see "300", pay my half and hope for the best.

pay for her damn ticket...dinner..etc

if you cant afford that..you are not in a position to date

after movie and diner..give her a kiss on the cheek...dont kiss her even if she wants you to...

remember...YOU are the BEST thing that ever happened to her 

[youandme]

Ok plan B:  MOVIE go to lobby (alone) , buy her a coke
slip some G into it
when she passes out bring her to your place

then you can hold hands!

Damn solid advice right here. But you want either do it before the movie and sit in the bakc and get just a bit of play or slip it in during the movie, and get some in the car. G's half life is short

[davidpaul]

some real players in this thread.

[Always Sore]

Take her to a borders for some coffee, after chatting a bit brouse around the store with her, show intrest in what she likes. Find a nice quit spot in back and grab a book (helps if you pre planned and have the right one) that is romantic and suggestive without being overt and read a little to her. At this point she should be either way into everything you are conversing about or ready to run. If she is into it then suggest a little stroll down by the park/water/ocean/ect. At some point you should be walking hand in hand pull her close go in for the kiss. If it works well say the following line exactly.." I am having the best time and I just don't want to let you go..." At this point if you have followed the script she will ask you home...always works. 

[SinCitysmallGUY]

Man word of advice don't be a dating dummy. First date sets the tone for everything that follows. Wether it be a fling, or something that lasts. Take her somewhere no one else has ever taken her on a date. Do something that you can get to know each other at.. NO MOVIE... first you can't talk during a movie and why would any women want to sit thru a film with someone they don't even know. The comedy club is a good idea. You will get to see what she thinks is funny and you can realx and talk and kick back. Or do a hockey game or a basketball game if you have minor league teams the tickets are cheap and its a good time. Don't do anything romantic its the first date you dont want to look like the loser romantic type with out any nuts. Remeber keep it casual and fun. If you got a beach or a lake do something outdoors. Hell take her to a batting cage or something if you athletic and teach her something you like to do.. just my ideas hope they help.. Remember you control everything and don't be a cheap ass pay for her shit even if its stopping at the store and getting water. Women hate a penny pincher.  Good luck kid

[24KT]

Take her to a borders for some coffee, after chatting a bit brouse around the store with her, show intrest in what she likes. Find a nice quit spot in back and grab a book (helps if you pre planned and have the right one) that is romantic and suggestive without being overt and read a little to her. At this point she should be either way into everything you are conversing about or ready to run. If she is into it then suggest a little stroll down by the park/water/ocean/ect. At some point you should be walking hand in hand pull her close go in for the kiss. If it works well say the following line exactly.." I am having the best time and I just don't want to let you go..." At this point if you have followed the script she will ask you home...always works. 

Hi AS, nice to see you back. Where ya been?

[Always Sore]

Hi AS, nice to see you back. Where ya been?

Work and Life plus it was getting stale being here everyday started to feel like a job and lost the fun. Slow time so Thoguth I would stop by to tocuh base with everyone...

[Faust]

Man word of advice don't be a dating dummy. First date sets the tone for everything that follows. Wether it be a fling, or something that lasts. Take her somewhere no one else has ever taken her on a date. Do something that you can get to know each other at.. NO MOVIE... first you can't talk during a movie and why would any women want to sit thru a film with someone they don't even know. The comedy club is a good idea. You will get to see what she thinks is funny and you can realx and talk and kick back. Or do a hockey game or a basketball game if you have minor league teams the tickets are cheap and its a good time. Don't do anything romantic its the first date you dont want to look like the loser romantic type with out any nuts. Remeber keep it casual and fun. If you got a beach or a lake do something outdoors. Hell take her to a batting cage or something if you athletic and teach her something you like to do.. just my ideas hope they help.. Remember you control everything and don't be a cheap ass pay for her shit even if its stopping at the store and getting water. Women hate a penny pincher.  Good luck kid

Yeah, i'll keep it casual i think. I really don't wanna play any games, she knows i want her.
Usually i close the deal without any "official" dating. But when i went for a kiss on the lips she turned and gave me a kiss on my cheek. 

I like the idea of a comedy club, maybe i'll take her to a cocktail bar or something. I don't mind paying, money isn't a problem for me. It's more about the principle, her dad's filthy rich. But i'll make the gesture.

[SinCitysmallGUY]

Yeah, i'll keep it casual i think. I really don't wanna play any games, she knows i want her.
Usually i close the deal without any "official" dating. But when i went for a kiss on the lips she turned and gave me a kiss on my cheek. 

I like the idea of a comedy club, maybe i'll take her to a cocktail bar or something. I don't mind paying, money isn't a problem for me. It's more about the principle, her dad's filthy rich. But i'll make the gesture.

Hey brother if her old mans rich take her out and show her a good time start dating her and let her spoil yoiu with a ton of presents. A driving range is cool to if you can hit that little fucking white ball. More then likely she cant and then you can show her how to swing. Its out doors you can have a few beers and then take her home and teach her how to swing like a monkey from your cock... Just another idea...

[ThaRealist]

Yeah, i'll keep it casual i think. I really don't wanna play any games, she knows i want her.
Usually i close the deal without any "official" dating. But when i went for a kiss on the lips she turned and gave me a kiss on my cheek. 

I like the idea of a comedy club, maybe i'll take her to a cocktail bar or something. I don't mind paying, money isn't a problem for me. It's more about the principle, her dad's filthy rich. But i'll make the gesture.

In polls taken it is said that the #1 thing women want in a man is honesty, #2 is a good sense of humor....Soo you take #'s 1 & 2 combine them with alcohol and you are in like flint....LoL

[Parker]

Go-Cart racing, where you get to see her competitive side, which can bring out the freak in her. Something about competition makes women get all hot and bothered. Plus you'll have laughs as both of you might "trade paint"

Or a picnic followed by paddle boats. You get to work out your legs and mouth, especially if it is a long  creek. And the subtle dexerity (or lack of ) that involves in getting in and out of a paddle boat from the dock a woman will remember (trust me ) .

And, since you play b-ball, Faust take her to the courts, be easy on her, wrap your arms around her, and the laughs continue.

 

[jtsunami]

Take her out to eat, not at a fancy place since you don't want to seem simpish and spend a lot of cash on a bitch you don't know that well.  Don't hold her hand in public, don't open doors for her, just act like you are friends.  Then take it back to your place or hers and say goodbye, leave her wanting more brotha.  Call her for a second date and kiss her on that one, then if its been a week or two bring her back to your place don't fuck her though, value your seed brotha. 

[BuffGoddess]

If you really want to score, take her to see a movie SHE wants to see. (I doubt 300 is her first choice) I have heard it has excellent 6-pack shots etc...so if you're not in perfect shape I would steer clear of that one... Anyway, if you let her see that you're sensitive and want to please her, you'll score alot more points...PM me if you need more insight. Good luck my brother,,,

[trab]

Any kind of fear/excitement thing that revs up a gals adrenalin a bit (not overdone) can be a great bonding
and aphrodisiac combo. Amusement parks / county fairs cater to this for the young.
I like Parkers go cart idea along this line.
 A sinking boat (you should not be the cause) for instance, is rather exciting and creates a memorable shared experience.
I think movies are kind of no interaction.
 
Surprise her w/ something she mentioned she likes. This get a big genuine smile   and more.
She'll have forgoten she even told you and be all, "Oh he listens to what I say".

[24KT]

Ok, girls.

Should the man let you decide, or take control of things?
Should he pay   , or 50/50  ?
Would you like a kiss during the movie? 


I wanna go see "300". Oh yeah, noting happened between me and the girl. Saw her at a party, got her number (tried to kiss her, failed, but i was too drunk to care much). Now we've been flirting a bit on msn, and decided to go see a movie, which i normally never do for a first date. I'm 22, she's 21.
I think i'm just gonna play it cool, see "300", pay my half and hope for the best.

I love it, ...out of 21 responses, only 1 response to his question came from a girl.
I think there are a few gender confused guys on this board. 

[trab]

I love it, ...out of 21 responses, only 1 response to his question came from a girl.
I think there are a few gender confused guys on this board. 

What? Like the: I'm a Lesbian trapped in a mans body line?

[ThaRealist]

What? Like the: I'm a Lesbian trapped in a mans body line?

Well the ladies didn't seem to answer the guy, so I can go with this reasoning LoL....