You're simply trying to make excuses for him, ...and there is no excuse for him.
It's obvious he was not worried about her safety... he was pissed because he wanted to talk to her,
and she wasn't there. Big whoop. You leave a message, and let her call you back. You don't cuss her out like that.
Maybe she was in a bad area, where the signal couldn't get through, maybe the battery died, maybe she was in the bathroom, maybe she was taking a nap... Could have been 6 of this, half a dozen of the other,... the bottom line is that's no way to talk to your 11 yr. old daughter.
Spin it any way you want... it won't change the fact that HE WAS DEAD WRONG!
Actually, you are voicing your opinion... there is no fact in it what so ever.
I don't think he was wrong at all... There's your fact.
I don't "feel" he was wrong... More fact.
You saying "he's wrong", is opinion... Many will not agree with you.
There's no spin what so ever.
She is a CHILD... she is HIS responsibility... If she goes off and does stupid shit and gets herself in trouble, or worse, dead... Everyone will be saying, "Where were the parents?"
He's being NORMAL parent. Did he lose his temper? Maybe, but hell, you don't? Who on this planet NEVER loses their temper? Especially at a child.
Sounds like you think life is some storybook fairy tale... It's not.
You're making excuses for her, and frankly I don't see how you can.
See how this whole "opinion" thing works?
You seem to have some sort of personal agenda when it comes to the guy... Certainly any normal parent would think similarly to him. I know I would.
Which I guess in your mind, would make me abusive too... which, by the way, would be a retarded thing for someone to say.