Well, this is all getting lost on what? If someone on this forum calls someone a nappy headed slut, it doesn't mean it's ok because some blacks have nappy hair. It's using a stereotyped aspect of the race against the person. It's quite obviously racist to do so. It's one of the few things we've limited in this forum and that is at Ron's request so know when you make a statement like that to another member, it will be considered racist here and it will be deleted. You can talk about race and race/racism but this is not the place to actively be racist.
But the definition of Racism is...
1. a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural or individual achievement, usually
involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others.
2. a policy, system of government, etc., based upon or fostering such a doctrine;
discrimination.
I never said I was better because of my hair, nor did I discriminate in anyway....
But I get your point and I will be more careful, don't like the double standard though