I'll tell you what. If you had a really angry dude fuck you up to the point where he then rapes you to take your manhood then that's a guy who is trancending reality because he doesn't give a fuck. BTW if you are using man on man rape to make a foe submissive I don't view that as gay since it's the guy who's getting fucked for real and being the victim is infinetly gayer then the dude boning your bloody heap of a body